Is It Me He Stares At?

[Essel_H]

There's this guy I like in my new class and I get that he stares at me.. but I'm sometimes confused if it's really me

Cos there are several girls I sit with and I'm not so sure if it's me, how do I find out it's me and not any other girl? Kindly reply y'all

[PrettyPriya]

Well, you are going to have to talk to him. There is no other way of telling if he is looking at you or someone else, unless you are a mindreader. Maybe just approach him after class and start up a conversation.

How are we (who aren't even in your class) supposed to know who this guy is staring at? Only he knows. If you aren't willing to go up to him and see if he wants to chat or whatever, there is no way of telling.

I guess the only real way would be to not sit with the other girls and see if he still does it. Even that though doesn't mean anything for sure. You could always flirt with him and see if there is a reaction.

It really does sound like you are going to have to make the first move. If he has been doing this and not approaching you, he probably never will.

[Guy13]

If he is looking at you, here is something I have done. It has worked for me BUT is contingent upon you speaking with him after class. Put your hand in front of your body so that he can only see.. hey with half hand wave, hi-make it girly not like i do it !!!

[spartan55]

I can't believe I need to say this over and over... TALK TO HIM. Staring is a waste of time.

[Wise4myage]

Introduce yourself to him?

[Essel_H]

I'm very bad at socializing so that will be quite tough for me

[Avicenna]

Try talking to him and see how he reacts.