Why does he stare at me?

[Summer2020]

There's this guy in my church he's 21 I'm 18. For 2 years now he's always been staring at me in church when I play the guitar. I get scared of making a move. Why does he do this?

[EdgeMasterSC]

There was a girl I use to stare at because I became just a tiny bit obsessed with her appearance. I approached her about it once because she accused me of undressing her with my eyes. Honestly I've grown up a lot since I was 12 years old and so I can say that this wasn't necessarily a thing of that kind of nature, but more so I was attracted to how beautiful they had been.

If you don't like the guy and plan to keep yourself to someone else you plan to marry, then I would advise ignoring them until they start approaching you, at which point I would advise being around your friends at all times when they're around and not going to crazy parties with them. Older people who can't control themselves are extremely dangerous compared to a child. The guy sounds obsessed and not in a healthy way.

[JesseCraft]

He either has feelings for you ir he's being a bit weird

[Summer2020]

Thank you sm!!

[JesseCraft]

No worries. Have a good day 🙂

[Alrightbet01]

Maybe because your up on stage?😂.
I honestly think you should make a move, ask for his contact and from there you can see if he is interested in you or not and you can move on from there. You don’t want to what if this later on in life.

[Summer2020]

Thank you! It helped a lot!

[Iron_Man]

He’s probably crushing on you and very shy to talk to you. Plus before you were under age

[manthan_7]

How many days you'll avoid him by just staring. Just make a move if he's not making. Maybe he's afraid that how you'll react.

[In_Trance]

It could be purely situational; meaning you're there and nobody else is

[OlderAndWiser]

He is interested but shy.