Why does he stare when I’m not looking and make long eye contact with me if he’s not interested?

[Ruby81]

We’ve been on on dates but it’s been a while. So it’s not like he never was interested. He’ll do things like stare at me when my back is to him. And no, he’s not staring at my back because it’s completely covered. We made long eye contact many times for a while. Then he stopped doing that. We also looked deeply into each other’s eyes before. He’s looked at my face up close before. Why does he this? He’s so confusing! Me and other people think he might have aspergers!

[btbc92]

Sometimes people can't help who hey stare at. Sometimes its attraction, other times there is something about you they can't get over. If its really bothering you, just tell him to stop and then ignore him as best as possible. Sometimes such people just want attention. Or have the 'want what they can't have' thing going on.

[Account]

I can't believe someone who is 27 asked this question

[Ruby81]

Really? I don’t consider people in their late 20s to be that experienced. Therefore they don’t know everything about the opposite sex. Another ten years under your belt then maybe you can say that.

[Daniel3035]

Had a girl do this to me in high school asked her out she said no "because we don't know each other" we know each other for 7 years-ish? Also isn't the point of a date to get to know someone? Long story short she was evil as women get and glad she said no.

[schuman]

he finds you beautiful and that's enough for his hormones to say yes I love you. but in reality he's either really nervous or doesn't see a future

[Ruby81]

As much as it sucks, you’re probably right. 😔

[90degrees]

There's the chance he's conflicted. I've personally spaced when trying to comprehend my feelings around people I thought I had feelinga for. I still do at times with my wife.

[spartan55]

So tell me how you know he is staring at you while you are looking away from him?

[Ruby81]

Well let’s see, I’ve turned around or looked up and caught him looking at me several times. One memorable time being when he was standing beside me and he looked into my eyes. Another he was looking at my face. Correct me if I’m wrong but don’t guys do that when they’re in love with a woman?

[spartan55]

Let me correct you. No, that doesn't mean that they are 'in love' with you. Have you expressed interest in this guy (to him). And I don't mean staring back at him, I mean telling him.

[Daniiiii2]

He might like your back

[Ruby81]

It’s fully covered. So why would he be staring at my back? 😉😁

[Daniiiii2]

Could be he liked the shape of your back