Why does he stare at me?

[Merpop]

I have a coworker who constantly stares at me and looks at me. Especially when I walk by. He has a girlfriend and I’m married. It makes me a tad uncomfortable that he does….. any ideas as to why?

[bowenw]

He must think you are attractive.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[spartan55]

You have a booger in your nose.

[Merpop]

Oof that would suck - however our desks are on opposite ends of the office

[spartan55]

So, why does he stare at you then?

[Merpop]

That’s what I’m trying to figure out. Cause it’s all the time

[spartan55]

So he's always like 50 feet away when he looks at you? This is getting more and more ridiculous.

[Merpop]

Yup and it’s to the point where I can feel the staring. So I look up and catch him.

[spartan55]

So stop looking at him.

[Merpop]

I’m actively try to avoid it. Especially when I have to walk by him and can feel him looking at me

[spartan55]

If it's a problem ask him to stop staring. You are staring just as much though so yeah...🙄

[Merpop]

I’m going to

[spartan55]

Yeah, I'm sure.

[Merpop]

I’m gonna bring it up next time I catch him, be like “did you need something? “

[spartan55]

You going to yell that across the office? If I were him my response

[spartan55]

Would be "do you?"

[Merpop]

Nah, next time I see him I’ll ask if I can talk to him quick.

[spartan55]

Oookay... you understand that you will be accusing him of something that YOU are also doing... right? The self-awareness here...😂

[Merpop]

Oh I only look up when I catch him doing it, but I also understand where you’re coming from. Better to clear the air than to have it keep going on right?

[spartan55]

I suppose.

[Sam1133]

What's your boobs size?

[Merpop]

In the middle of a B/C. Is that why you think?

[Sam1133]

Wow so you wear clothes like revealed cleavage?

[Merpop]

Not really, I usually keep pretty covered up

[Sam1133]

Cool im sure you're hot that's y he stare at you...

Be honest do you like getting attention from hot guys? 🥰

[Merpop]

No I don’t - if you read my post, I said I am married and the staring makes me a bit uncomfortable

[Sam1133]

Tbh im in same situation at my office but fortunately she stare me back n smiled at me and we had sex recently n she is married so I can relate...

He wants to have sex with you i bet.

[In_Trance]

I also think you had a booger in your nose

[Anonymous]

It's because he finds you attractive

[wkhan_87]

Maybe he is creepy