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"We don't have money". I first heard that when I was 9 years old. I couldn't have candy or pepsi cola or juice or something to eat at school.

This grew into a bigger problem over time. I had less clothes to wear by the age of 12. I walked with holes in shoes and one time the shoes were even openly exposing my feet and I walked like that to school in Germany. Got bullied and mobbed.

I brought this up several times to my parents and I felt either ignored, dismissed or attacked (they were toxic and abusive). I picked up on that pattern of outcome and that it's pointless to ask for new clothes, shoes and food for lunch. So I stopped asking and could do nothing but let life proceed and focus on fast forwarding my life until I could make my own money while feeling like I was set on fire from poverty. I was 15 years old when I stopped asking. I considered getting money and essentials is on me and no one else (duh!).

It also got me thinking on a secondary question. If i were to go on a date with a girl and she asks about my childhood and I say it like it is, would that send her running away from me?

Cold approach is a random guy going up to a random girl, and trying to chat her up. I ask this question because I often see guys talking to girls for 10-15 minutes, and when I ask the guy if he got her number, he said no. I am thinking that this guy is wasting his time, and that he should cut his conversations short. For me, I can sense that a conversation is going nowhere in 20 seconds. People are also generally not very comfortable talking to strangers, which is why I prefer to keep conversations short. If she's into you, she'll give you her number in 1 minute. If not, it won't matter if you talk for 1 hr.