So a girl in my social circle, often gives me "choosing signals" we have lots of eye contact across the room, She's always moving into my space etc. I have had many chances to strike up a conversation but up until now I have not done so, Today I changed my mind, I start talking to her and I am asking her questions. During the convo we are making eye contact, and she laughed a couple of times. Problem is she's giving me me one word/dry responses, and not asking me any questions back.
A couple of intresting things though, When I asked her what buildings she was in for school she said somthing like "east and west". Then I let the silence build instead of immedietly saying what my buildings where. Then very quietly I thought I heard her say "you"? But since she was so quiet I leaned over to her and and asked her to say again. To which she replied "oh the east and west buildings". I feel like her doubling back on herself may have been a bit of a nervous stumble. Later I also started talking about one of my friends and when I was describing what I liked about him I said something like "but he doesn't know thats why I love him" As soon as I said the word love she give me a bigger smile. Same thing when I mentioned the specfic date of an event I mentioned. So I feel like I have reasons to believe she is interested, but it was off putting to me how it felt like a 1 way conversation.
I read that she could have been just flustered/nervous. From her perspective she was not expecting me to talk to her at this time also. What do y'all think and have you experienced something like this before?
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Yo dude, sounds like you might be onto something with this girl. A few thoughts:
The eye contact and moving into your space are definitely good signs she's interested. Girls don't usually do that with guys they're not feelin at least a little.
When you talked, the laughing and smiles are also positive. But the one word replies could totally be nerves on her part. Holding your gaze like that when you're into someone can be intimidating!
I bet when you leaned in to hear what she said quiet, her heart was racing. That was smooth too, calling her out subtly on changing her answer. Flustered for sure.
And come on man, bigger smiles at "love" and specific dates? Those are dead giveaways. She's payin attention to what you say, likes you.
I'd say give it another try chatting with her. Keep it light, ask her questions, and don't overthink it. See if she opens up more when she gets comfortable. This one seems promising! Just be confident and you got this bro.
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