Search Results: what makes you want a girl just for sex

So I've been seeing this guy for a few months now and in the beginning there were some hiccups / scares that made him wanted to end things. We almost ended things a few times. We video called quite a few times for a couple hours which usually sometimes ended up sexual. He has never been in a proper relationship before and he told me he deals with anxiety and he can be an asshole/push people away. He has told me things like he thinks about doing cute shit together etc.

there's been some things that didn't add up.. for example he would call me his girl to others but won't say were a couple when i asked. When we would want to end things the other person would want to make it work. So the last time i said i wanted to end things and he didn't want to and make things work which was a month ago.

Everytime we see each other we always ended up doing something sexual and one time i didn't want to and he was trying to persuay me. He told me he likes me , would compliment me a lot and would want to see me. Even told some of his family about me and friend. He recently told a family members partner about me while he was a bit drunk.

Anyways recently we ended up going all the way and it didn't work out because we were in a car and he tried doing things but gave up easily.

He said it was embarrasing and dissapointed about it. One thing lead to another he ended things and been feeling like this at first 2 weeks then it became a month. He told me he doesn't see a future with me/doesn't feel as strongly as i do, and i wasn't his type. He told me all of this a few minutes after we attempted to go all the way.(before he even agreed to do it a few times before making a decision on what to do)

Prior to that i noticed his texting was off and wasn't saying goodmorning/night etc. When i asked if were good he told me we were. He said he was afraid to tell me because he didn't want to "break my heart"

In a world where people gossip, I wouldn’t answer just any question in real life, not even my partner. I like to be a closed book and let people assume the rest. I wouldn’t answer questions like
Questions about politics...
“What are your political views?”
“What are your views on interracial relationships?”
”How do you feel about gender”
I don’t want to be making enemies within this political divided country and lowering my chances of finding the right guy... Or people to think I’m a liberal, racist, trashy or etc. based on my answer.

Questions about who I would or wouldn’t date...
“Would you date outside your race?” or “would you date ____ people?” or “what is your favorite hair/eye/skin color on a significant other”
Even if the person, who has a trait I don’t like, isn’t into me, it could make them feel bad about themselves if I answer these kind of questions. For example, if my partner has brown hair, I wouldn’t want him to feel bad knowing that strawberry blond hai is my favorite hair color on a man.

Questions about my family
“What are your parents like as a couple?” It’s no ones business about my family’s whereabouts and who they are.

Questions about my health
Again, no one’s business

Questions about my sexuality
Again it’s no one’s business. I’m a virgin and I keep that a secret in real life because it’s embarrassing for someone my age to be a virgin. I don’t like virgin hunters that much either. I don’t want people to be confused about my sexuality either just because they know I liked a masculine girl in high school. Or to think that I am more likely to cheat on my partner just because I crave sex a lot.

There are a few questions though, I wouldn’t answer on here or in real life either.