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This is in response to this question below:

Let's settle the debate, which is worse, female cheater or male cheater?

My answer above question is of course that both men and women are equally scumbags when it comes to cheating.

Yes men generally have impulsive sexual needs. Yes women generally have emotional and attention needs. But neither have an excuse to cheat. It’s natural to feel occasionally tempted however both men and women can have the willpower to abstain. If the temptation is getting to be too much they can break up first and then do what they want.

However a better question to ask is who owns up to their cheating bs better when they are caught or feel too guilty and confess?

From my observations cheating men are usually A) sociopathic lying scumbags who feel no guilt (maybe sex addicts) or B) normal guys who got blindsided by lust and caved in.

The A guys can’t be trusted or forgiven. But the B guys will usually be extremely remorseful and guilt stricken. That doesn’t mean B guys should be let off the hook. But they will own up to their crap. They won’t blame their girlfriend/wife for their shitty decision even if they were upset with them earlier

However I find that women who get caught cheating will often try to gaslight their boyfriend/husband. They will say “oh you weren’t there for me” or some other crap. Not all women but many of just have egos that can’t accept that they are cheating whores. So they try to placate their conscious through mental gymnastics vs. just saying “I cheated and I was 100% wrong. You didn’t deserve that and I accept the consequences”. I just do not see that many women doing the latter.

This girl i dated 5 years ago and i recently got back in touch.

I was a major simp and loser back then. Now i own my own place, have a stable job.

We broke up very badly but we finally talk it out and admitted our mistakes. We talked for a few days and she kinda instant reacted.

I would like to give it another shot with her if she can prove to me she is worth it. When we dated the first time I gave her a lot of attention and became her first boyfriend. She wasn't the prettiest girl but i liked her.

Now after a few days she is acting like the other Girls i met in the time between. Responding late, leaving me on read for a while. Just to be sure I do the same and like double the time on it.

She said last week she doesn't see us getting together again but It seem like the dating game is started again. I Know she can be worth my love again.

But before I go crazy about her again. Is she re-testing me. We both still feel a connection