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If its sexual cheating, both. If it's romantic cheating (ie. Falling in love with someone else), women.
It's bad when a women cheats sexually because then no one knows who the father is and she can lie about it (unless you involve a paternity test). Women also bond during sex, so she would be cheating both ways.
Men cheating sexually is also as bad since he'll also be creating a bunch of fatherless children, creates single mothers, sexualizes women (since he's just being a slut). In the case of polygamy, where he would instead have multiple women (still cheating), he would be taking another men's relationship. In societies where this happens, there's usually an increase in general crime violence among men and especially sexual crimes (rape, trafficking, etc).
Actually, I guess in a sense, male cheating sexually is worse. However in the current dating market, women are the ones who tend to cheat more (the average men has less opportunities to do so than the average woman) and be single mothers.
I kind of had similar reasoning as you in my post. I do think though that women tend to use sex as a weapon and men don't do that. So in that sense I think women are probably the worse cheater.
Like a dude will just fuck a random thot on Tinder. A woman will fuck your brother. Gee, I guess they're the same huh? lol
@DoctorSex i said that it was in the situation that I stated, where a woman cheats on her current partner to go with a "top" or "better" man. It isn't exactly cheating since all the women consent to being collected like pokemon and therefore no trust is broken but it is in the case of a previous relationship being broken.
@letuswaltzforthedead
I was responding to this statement
"In the case of polygamy, where he would instead have multiple women (still cheating), he would be taking another men's relationship."
Thank you for clearing that up though.
Kind regards,
No no no.
They both hurt EXACTLY the same.
To committed lovers anyways.
It hurts the man because he feels his body failed his ability to deliver and please his cheating girlfriend.
It hurts the woman because she feels her personality and looks may not have been able to please her cheating boyfriend. It’s her identity that feels rejected.
Its his ability that feels rejected.
Their minds are wired different and value different things, but they both get hurt if they loved or liked their so a lottt
for love or for sex.
If they didn’t like their so, then well… neither of them would feel hurt.
I guarantee that neither hurts more than the other.
okay when will you let me eat your meat?
so you are gold digger?
just your meat
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I think the reason people are picking female cheaters more is due to what drives men towards cheating. A lot of the time, men cheat due to be neglected by their female spouse. Women often use sex as a weapon to award/punish behavior of their male spouse.
Also, women often cheat emotionally first before actually committing the physical act. This result in said man often having her completely. Whereas males can cheat on their wife with another woman but still only truly love their wife. When I say truly love, I mean he will only provide for her, never desire to leave her for this other woman and only ever recognize children he has with her as his own.
That's true, men can sleep with some chick because they are horny. But they will always love the one they say they love. Men don't use emotions during sex like women do. I could sleep with a girl if she proposed it to me but I would feel nothing for her. But if a girl I loved would propose to me I'd do everything for her to feel good. There are those you sleep with and those you marry.
Female cheaters, females are not supposed to be hos, and nothing worse than making a male to raise a child that is not his without him knowing, that's why hos are not wife material.
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I don't get how there could even be a debate... Stars must align for a man to be able to find a woman attractive, that knows he's not single, finds him irresistible enough among the line of single and willing volunteers, to choose him as her touch butt partner.
So, if he can still pull that off though chooses to be with you... consider yourself lucky and you're probably not so bad yourself, Sweetheart. That's points for you, and you know you're a bit competitive with other women.
Now, for a woman...
Basically as long as it's not a friend of his... there are many otherwise decent dudes whose Achilles heel is strange poon so a woman doing it is no special skill anyone could admire or hold in regard so to speak.
If my wife had an outie and not an innie... I may let her run around sticking her outie in other people's innies (not the pooper, dear) as it ain't that big of a deal (again, not the pooper, sheesh!)... goo goo ga ga see ya later... thanks for letting me out your inn sort of thing. Hey, I didn't make these rules, but yeah an innie taking an outie is different than an outie exploring and taking field samples of an innie. Shits just different. The Greeks and the Romans understood this and heavily relied on its validaty by doinking young boys and telling themselves it isn't gay... the fags. Oh, it's gay for sure, Lancedembois. And, and, that's okay... BUT gay.
If acquiring guys to stick her thing into was as hard of a task for my wife/girlfriend as acquiring women that want you me to explore their innies... I would like to see what the arrogant B**** was able to snare... Let's see her worth on the ol meat market... Ok, now turn around... Okay, jump a bit... Ok, arms up... to the side... Spin again... No, I'll pass, thanks.. Just like the vision I once had on shrooms. Outties in innies ain't the same as innies taking in outties. Ouchies!
If we're talking about sexual cheating, I'd argue its worse if a man does it. Because I think we can all agree how incredibly easy it would be for a woman to get laid if she wanted to. Especially if she's decent looking. Men left and right would be flocking to bed her, and after so many attempts, even if the woman rejected a lot of them, there might be a short, unexpected and sudden wave of weakness in the right setting for the woman to just go along with it.
But for a man to have sex with a woman, he'd have to actively go out of his way. He'd have to be presentable, behaving and talking correctly, actively going to places where it would be easier for him to accomplish this feat. Basically the entire ordeal has to be premeditated, meaning that he was planning to cheat a significant amount of time in advance. For that reason, it's worse if a guy does it.
Of course, if there is even a little shred of respect and honor in the relationship from both parties, this will not happen, and both parties will be able to keep their composure even if the opportunity presented itself. There are a bunch of people out there that go their entire lives without cheating. Even very attractive people. But my answer is solely based on which side would be worse.
Both are bad, but a few things to think about.
A female can often cheat easier, as there are men trying to. Many men don't care if she is single or not.
A male, many times has to work extra hard to cheat. As they don't have someone trying to all the time and they have to put in major effort to find someone willing or to lie about single status.
For sheer amount of effort to cheat, does that mean the one who has to work harder to succeed is worse than the one who can get is easier without much effort?
Really depends on your own personal view on the matter.
I will always think of female cheaters as worse because women proclaim being more faithful than men, and when they fuck that up it's worse. Plus women always try to create their own rules/ideas of what constitutes as cheating or not when they're doing something they know they shouldn't be doing, yet they will think a guy is cheating for doing the same thing.
So yeah, female cheaters to me are worse.
Cheating is bad for both. But it's worse when a woman cheats. Most times, when a man chests, it's manslaughter, he more than likely just couldn't keep his d*ck in check. Maybe he could have come to a certain place mentally, but a lot of times it's because they're horny. A woman however, it's premeditated murder because she 9/10 HAS to come to a certain place mentally in order to cheat on you.
When it comes to *sexual* cheating, having sex outside of the relationship, women are far worse. I'm NOT saying this to say it's ok or acceptable for a man to cheat - it's certainly not. The reason I say female cheaters are worse are because women will always, and I mean 100% of the time, ALWAYS will shift blame and make their partner responsible for the woman going out to fuck other guys.
"Had you been there for me as a man"
"Have you thought of why I cheated and how you might be responsible?"
"I'm sorry you're hurt but you're not innocent in all this"
"Why dont you think about what you did to drive me to cheat?"
No other occurrence can really highlight how disgusting the female ego can get and how ALLERGIC they are to blame/accountability than when they cheat.
I don't know but I cheated on my ex because he stopped having sex with me. He kept saying he is just going through some stuff, and after waiting for a year for him to "solve his stuff" I started seeking others just for sex. I didn't feel guilty at all. I didn't tell him because I didn't want to hurt him. I was still willing to wait, but then soon after he dumped me for another man. He never found out.
You should have just done the right thing and broke up with him like a decent human being instead if lying and cheating.
Both are bad for sure... But I feel like a guy cheating is way worse than a girl cheating. There's something so wrong about a guy putting his penis inside a girl that isn't his wife/girlfriend. Plus getting a girl pregnant while married is the worst thing possible. Awful.
I looked into stats. The percentage of men who have cheated vs women who have is about the same, not a huge discrepancy like a feminist might assume. It was something around 7%, with men being higher.
I suppose then you might argue that maybe there are different gradations of cheating. I could imagine that men are more likely to cheat habitually in marriage, and women are more likely to cheat on boyfriends, and I suppose I would feel that marriage cheating is worse... I dunno...
This is simple. Regardless if you are a chick or a dude. If you cheat, you are a piece of shit.
u it's not a debate...
all cheaters suck... period
This isn't even a debate. BOTH are equally as bad as each other. Anyone who picks a gender is unaware of human equality and values.
u Take away the gender roles and just say that cheaters in general are bad. I don’t care what’s between your legs, if you cheat then you are scum 👍🏻
LOL. What kind of sexist shit is this? Equal.
I say male cheater because it so often seems to happen that fellas slip up.
I'm not saying women don't cheat but some guys act like as if this is normal and we as women should expect it.
Your own little poll doesn't really determine who has it worse. Of course women will vote men and men will vote women because there's no option saying "Equally" and most men will never be cheated by men and most women will never be cheated by most women. (Because most people are straight) You're just looking for a gender war here and even if more guys voted for women than vice versa, do you not even realize that there are just more men in this site?
Really? It doesn't matter which gender is doing it, cheating is just bad and wrong regardless who's doing it. Both sexes have cheated and Ben cheated on, and it's never a good experience to be romantically betrayed.
A man should be fateful, a gentleman, and buy her flowers because that is what a woman desires. They dont want an asshole or a cheater. It's worse when a man cheats because she does not like that. She chose to date him because she thought he would treat her with respect.
Gender doesn't come into cheating for me, a cheater is a cheater and a disgusting person who cannot stop temporary urges from ruining a long-lasting relationship.
How could either one be worse? They’re both cheaters. The only difference is gender. So pretty much, you’re asking if men or women are superior. And the answer is neither.
Female, they can have sex with most any guy they want, guys can't do the same. Guys have the excuse of wanting to experience more people, women already do
What's the debate? Both are equally bad in a vacuum. Certain situations can make one worse than the other, but obviously you can't go by that.
BOTH SUCK JUST AS BAD. Idgaf what your gender is. One of the most evil and destructive things you can do.
Cheaters are hurting others intentionally. Doesn't matter if you're not getting any attention, you can always leave.
What makes it worse for women who cheat is that they'll cheat on a man that's violent and get other people harmed.
Neither, cheating is cheating it's bad either way and it hurts exactly the same.
I can't vote to be honest. Both cheaters are disgusting. Cheating is cheating.
They both have a negative impact on relationships, engagements and marriages so it doesn't matter which is worse.
i don't know when cheating is better when it is done by a man.
what?
A better question to ask is “who owns up more to their bs when it comes to cheating?”
As expected, guys think girls cheating is worse, and girls think guys cheating is worse.
Bottom line? Debate is not settled!
Why would one be worse than the other. They are both equally disgusting.
Female cheaters. There is literally no honorable respectable reason or excuse for it. Whereas a man has excuses.
That doesn't make any sense, regardless of the gender, it's just as bad either way. That's like saying a female murder is worse than a male murder... at the end of the day its still murder and just as bad regardless.
@Subarugirl Not true at all. Men are always underappreciated. Undervalued and have very little reason to be loyal. Plus they have seed that needs to be spread.
So you are trying to justify infidelity because you are a boy? That's a dangerous train of thought... next would be justifying rape and murder... people are always underappreciated, that isn't a justifiable excuse to unfaithful, dishonest, and to violate consent.
@Subarugirl its more like girls justifying statuatory rape on male students. You should see the prison time they dont get in comparison.
Funny you should bring that up, because every time I see that specific situation brought up, it’s primarily men that compliment the victim of the abuse saying things like “lucky guy” or “I wish that was me”… or even saying that “boys can’t be raped”…
@Subarugirl Thats because your reticular activating system, the part of your macrocephaly brain that is responsible for seeing and remembering information, is biased to see things that you agree with.
…. And that doesn’t apply to you? You’ve managed to convince your self that cheating is justifiable for men but not for women… and based your whole stance around that flawed logic, presumably because you think that women should be held to higher ethical and moral standards than you should be held to. Why is that I wonder?
@Subarugirl Im stronger than you. And aren't you a tall girl? If you're a tall girl and Im still stronger than you what does that say about females? It says you need to shut the fuck up because might MAKES RIGHT.
@Subarugirl very little reason? If you are in a relationship then you make a commitment. Not to break your commitment, your word, your pride should be reason enough.
If for some reason "because you will hurt the other very bad" isn't reason enough.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 If it wasn't true you wouldn't have to spew your brainwashing on here.
lol you’re one to talk about brainwashing…. Mr “ I have muscles and a penis so I am superior “ 😂 right, you’re a big Strong man aren’t you? Lol
Both. But I noticed if a man cheats on a woman she gets the sympathy but if a woman cheats on a man everyone laughs at him.
How is this even a debate? Neither is worse. Cheating is bad no matter who does it.
Both genders cheating is already bad I personally don't think one is worse or better
Cheaters should just be shot as punishment. They only do it because most things that stopped it have been deemed cruel or not okey. Cheaters need to get consequences; they will never stop if they don't get consequences.
Hands down a woman cheater is worse. It's gross a women getting stretched out by another guy and getting another guy's cum in her also is way too easy for a woman to cheat.
Both are equally as bad. That's like asking if a female or a male murderer is worse...
Both of them are equal, like no one is much worse then the other...
Neither are better, if they are cheating, that means they are not the one for you
That's like asking which is worse, male murderers or female murderers. They are both equally bad. Neither is worse. Silly question, really.
Might as well ask which pile of horse sh*t is better.
A cheater is a cheater. Male or female.
The only thing with a woman. She could become pregnant and not know who the sperm donor was.
Both, because they're both cheaters. It doesn't matter if it's female or male. A cheater is a cheater.
I don't see how one would be worse than the other.
Why are we still having this silly debate? They're both bad. Period. Case closed.
All those women who said men are worse are actually Cheaters themselves, the right answer should be both cheaters are cheaters.
Female. Always talking about higher standards..
Yep, you've seen the commercials folks... Men are just big dumb animals drooling at big boobs... they can't help it but you... You Missy... With your boobs hangin' out. Sheesh!
Isn't a cheater a cheater, same as bad as each other?
Both are bad
Both. Double standards are for dysfunctional idiots.
Both destroy the other person
Ahahah this poll is one of the funniest
A cheater is a cheater! They’re both bad
Both are same.
Ownership creates cheating
Both are equally disgusting
Both are equally bad.
They're both bad
Cheaters are worse.
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