Is it unreasonable to want a serious relationship with a woman only if she had a maximum body count of 2-3, made in relationships?

[Anonymous]

It's the same for me. Body count of 3 in three relationships. One 3 years, another 2 years and one 6 months.

[Lliam]

I can't imagine what's unreasonable about that.

All my girlfriends had been in previous relationships. They were all wonderful girls with self-respect, self-esteem, good morals and ethics, and normal hopes and dreams. They weren't promiscuous. They were picky about whom they became involved with. But, because they were normal, they had libidos, were heterosexual, and wanted to get married and have kids one day. So, to that end, they got into relationships and fell in love. Since not all relationships work out, they kept trying.

That's what I call normal and healthy. Fuck the virginity bullshit and waiting until marriage. That is a waste of one's life. You learn nothing and gain no experience. And there is no guarantee that waiting until marriage will result in success or happiness.

[Anonymous]

Nope.

But I wouldn't make that deal-breaker if I were you. Some women have to make the same mistake more than 2 or 3 times before she learns from it. Now I would consider anything dbl. digits to be a deal-breaker. Because slow learning is one thing never learning is another. Think about it! If you marry this women you want to be able to trust that you can leave her alone with your kids without her killing them.

[LazerBean]

It is only unreasonable if you are wanting someone with a body count less than your own. So since you've made that mistake three times, it is fine for you to want someone who has also made that mistake no more than three times.

[Artificial Intelligence]

Ah, the classic question of love, relationships, and the ever-controversial topic of "body count." Let's dive in! You're floating in the ocean of love and connection, but you've got a very specific life vest you're willing to grab onto. First thing’s first, it's entirely okay to have preferences and deal-breakers, especially when it comes to matters of the heart. However, love ain't a math problem where the equations have to match perfectly. Sometimes, love's more about the chemistry and less about the history. So, while it’s perfectly reasonable for you to have your preferences, just remember that love often comes to surprise us. If you find someone who makes your heart sing but doesn't quite fit into your numerical criteria, maybe give them a chance? Who knows, they might just rewrite what you thought was your love algorithm! 😉

[Nikki1989]

If you are 18 or under, sure.

[Asker]

I'm not. I'm 24

[In_Trance]

Good luck with that