Hi, all. Im talking this in Indian context, Let me talk about me first and what made me to ask this question in second. I had a decent job, decent saving, and a future plan. Had average looks and a nice behaviour. My behaviour case is recognized and appraised by many of my friends that im kind hearted, charismatic and one who always keeps positive vibes. But, still today, i put my full attention on my career and life building and now got a continuing clear path and landed on my dream job. After achieving this, i thought, its time to get into a relationship and tried going out and socializing with girls more in parks, DJ parties and hangouts with friends. I was not that much confident when speaking with girls, that flaw is identified and fixed by socializing more and more but still some other psychological or other unidentified factors are putting me down from getting into a relationship. Most Girlfriends that i had will go easily around me with full vibe when i was in a role of friend for her , but when i escalate it into build a relationship, it will fail. I feel like the wait is over and always i centralize my mind to keep focusing on career, but i need a support from opposite mate now. I need to break the waiting. Friends of my age at the mean time had 2-3 relationships managing simultaneously is a catalyst for my these kinds of thought, I checked each and every factors even on psychological level, and i had a good ranking on every things girls look on the guys for a relationship and still im failing. I dont want to be too clingy or i never do force the womens to fall in love with me. Can you mates, please help me to figure it out? What will be i missing and how can i correct myself? Thanks in advance.
