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I've been dating my girlfriend for the past few months, and we've been exclusive for all that time. Haven't actually had proper sex yet, but we've been planning to, sooner rather than later- the chemistry's definitely there, and when we've been making out, it's been great. I think she's a keeper, the best girl I've ever had; it's still early days, but I've been seriously thinking about getting married and starting a family with her. This week though, I found out that the guy who her single mum just got engaged to is actually my biological dad (my mum broke up with him when I was 3, but it's definitely him); we're about to become brother and sister-in-laws. Our relationship's about to become incestuous, just because my dad's beaten me to the punch and lined himself up to marry my girlfriend's mum first. Both our parents are in their early-mid 50's, so it's not like they'll be getting it on and having new babies. But if my girlfriend found out that her mum's getting married to my dad, she'd be really freaked out by it, and I don't know if she'd be able to handle it- to handle us being together, in a sexual relationship, as brother and sister-in-laws. What should I do? And if you were in my position, or my girlfriend's position, what would you do?

Female hypergamy is essentially boils down to women will only see you as a potential mate if they perceive you are better than them.
It's one of the reasons assholes do better than nice guys in getting women and not all the feminist propaganda that nice guys aren't really nice but because assholes disrespect and don't care about a girls opinion which sets off in the woman's brain that he must be better than her.

To expand on this point, if done to early on and without the woman thinking she earned it is perceives by her as a male pandering up to her to get sex/relationship and not actual kindness. Women only usually perceive kind gestures as just that once they've given up sex and the man still continues being sweet/kind to them.

Now the thing about hyper gamy with women is it's not tied only to one thing like physical or wealth but everything including attitude. A man does not necessarily need to tick off being better in all areas but enough that it is drilled into a woman's psyche that he is better than her. It's for this reason a guy can be shorter than a girl but rich, and confident and get the girl.


We see hypergamy of women in their dating preference such as wanting men who make more money than them, be taller than them, higher social status, more confident, more accomplished than her, more exciting live etc.

The problem with hypergamy is as a woman rises up in the world and become better the amount of men who matches her criteria of being on her level or more becomes smaller and smaller. This leads to fewer pool of men available for her to select making it frustrating. With more women graduating from college than men this means that the dating pool for college graduate women are going to be smaller.

It's Not Your Imagination, Single Women: There Literally Aren't Enough Men Out There