Thoughts on "innocent" girls? Do guys like "innocent girls"?

[Elisa13]

I'm a virigin and have never been kissed, I know, I know, wth... but hear me out I go to a single sexed school so,,,,,
Anyways recently I've been talking to this guy and he seems to think I'm innocent, even though I've openly talked dirty to him previously...
If he asks if I've every kissed someone should I tell him the truth or lie because i dont want to look like a loser :(
Back to the main question- IM NOT INNOCENT AHHH
I dont sleep around yes, but I still have dirty thoughts and can make practically anything dirty/funny
Do guys like innocent girls (in my case)?
Should i tell him the truth about never having kissed anyone? Im 18 by the way ;(

Yes

No

can't decide

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[Anonymous]

Innocent girls are the best to marry because they make the best love. Don't give away your vicinity to him at least with out getting engaged. Your only 18 and have not kissed anyone good on you. If that a goal to keep going without. No but don't give away your first kiss in a meaningless way. Innocent girls are usually the best ones because they are learning everything and they have a line they really do not want to cross. Most of my female friends are innocent sexually and have not had a date let alone a kiss. My buddies who have married them constantly tell me that they are amazing in bed and great love makers. The guys that did not wait till marriage but she did are constantly getting their socks blown off by how great in bed these innocent girls are.

[Opinion Owner]

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[ak666]

I'd say "no" because I don't see a reason to bring it up so early in the relationship.

I think this question itself is rather innocent if you think kissing someone before is a big deal or something that needs to be brought up.

Being able to make sexual jokes and talk dirty is still pretty innocent to me unless you've actually had sex. It's one thing for some cute girl to attempt a joke about double penetration -- aww, cute, another if she's had it.

As for innocent girls, I liked them when really young. Not so much after that.

[Elisa13]

he brought it up okay? he literally asked- have you ever kissed anyone-

[ak666]

Oh my bad, I missed that part. I just got kind of hung up on the not innocent cause of dirty jokes part. :-D

>> If he asks if I've every kissed someone should I tell him the truth or lie because i dont want to look like a loser

I'd say yeah, if he asks you can and probably should tell him the truth. No need to go into details though.

[Elisa13]

no detailsss---- there aren't any obvs bc i haven't been kissed

[ak666]

Doh sorry -- I'm somewhat intoxicated at the moment and my reading skills are just slightly above retard. I didn't realize you never kissed anyone. I thought you did and was considering not telling him, argh.

I'd say feel free to tell him the truth. No need to lie about anything, especially if you like him. It's not fun to build a relationship starting with a lie.

[Elisa13]

true true

[ak666]

I'd say it's actually "less innocent" to tell him the truth here.

When I say I stopped liking such innocent girls so much anymore after a certain age, it's not because they have no sexual experience. It's more about naivety.

If you can tell the truth and open up about yourself, I think that's a mature and sophisticated approach I wouldn't expect from a young and "innocent" girl. It's very adult.

[Elisa13]

i see... makes sense thanks for ur input :)

[ak666]

Cheers -- also hope I wasn't too mean teasing about the dirty jokes part. I just thought that was kinda cute. :-D I'd still say on the meter between like virgin nun and corrupted for life, you're still pretty low and towards the innocent side. And that's not a bad thing, no need to try to change that, especially if you can speak openly.

[Elisa13]

i was a bit hurt actually but dw i won't take it to heart

[ak666]

It's a good thing. For example, I might make jokes about getting high on heroin while sniffing cocaine on a hooker's bum. Fortunately I've never done it. I'm still a little bit "innocent" about some things. :-D

As for being cool, the ultimate there is really accepting yourself and not being ashamed of it. If someone asks you if you're a virgin and you feel ashamed about the truth or feel the need to lie about it, it's that shame that isn't very cool. People can tease you about the shame.

If you can answer honestly without thinking twice about it and don't give a damn about what people think, that's cool, and no one can pick on you about something you're not at all insecure about.

For a guy, I think he's going to respect you more when you're truthful, and chances are that if he's like most guys, he's actually going to think it's pretty awesome if you've never kissed anyone else. If you're his first, that should make him feel pretty happy.

[Elisa13]

actually quite true! thanks again :) :)

[Tephra]

I know your probably embarrassed about not having your first kiss yet but I bet it would be more embarrassing if he knew you were lying. Honestly its not a bad thing to never been kissed before; I think guys would find it cute and they would feel special for being your first :) You can still be think/talk dirty while looking innocent - trust me all guys LOVE it! ;)

[amandaaxo]

Obviously I can't speak for all guys but I am kind of like you... I have kissed people before but never had sex, and I tell every guy I am involved with the truth. usually they are surprised but they have never been mean or gotten turned off in my experience; either they didn't care or some actually thought it was a good thing.

[TacosRAwesome]

Since you're 18, I don't think a lot of guys will have a problem with your innocence and some might even find it cute (which is good) and some might see it as the Main reason to date you (which is not good)

[melme16]

Omg!!! For the thousand of times, yes men like innocent girls. I mean, why wouldn't they?

So you're good girly

[Rising5]

First, you are not a loser because you haven't kissed someone yet. Second, be honest with people and see who respects you, accepts you and who doesn't.
There is nothing wrong with being innocent, its a great thing you still have your innocence and some guys like it while some dont.

[HandsomeRaj]

I voted 'B' cause I really don't think one needs going around pasting a profile of self to anyone all the while. Big deal if you haven't kissed, it's your choice and you exercised it. Go ahead do it now again aka exercise your choice if you want to kiss :)

[HandsomeRaj]

Thank you for liking my opinion young lady :)

[Iron_Man]

Yes I like good. innocent girls. I dont like liars dirty sleep around bad girls.

[xan1488]

refraining from sleeping around is innocence which is powerful; while having dirty thoughts and stuff like that is natural and sign of good sexual health. u refrained from sleeping around with random guys is a hard thing to do which makes u a winner, falling for every dick which comes in ur way is being real loser.
stay strong and live a happy life, and dont listen to losers who make u think u are loser. :)

[ClauseViter]

It's a lot of work to "indoctrinate" innocent girls because most the time they are very indecisive and hesitant, they don't know what they want, they need security, they get really attached.

I try to avoid em. I don't have time to teach some one everything.

[HyperNova]

Hahaha. You're so innocent that you make it even more apparent when you try to prove you're not. Which is hot AF.

[Elisa13]

ahhh shhhhh im not innocent ahahah

[awesometjgreen]

It depends for me. I want a girl thats pretty toughon her own but in bed :-) I like for her to be very innocent... sometimes If I'm in the mood for that kinda stuff. But yeah it's a turn on sometimes just not all the time

[why_ask_me]

To me I prefer innocent girls no guy wants to date or worse yet fall in love with a slut

[Dipsy]

Innocent girls are the best, hands down.
Best for relationship

[TheBootyChest]

I think you shouldn't say anything. Maybe say "I don't kiss and tell".

[martyfellow]

No, the guy is just playing with you, so it's ok not to tell him the truth

[reixun]

I'm also a virgin and never been kissed, I wouldn't call myself innocent though.

[Bandit74]

Innocent girl with a dirty mind sounds ideal to me.

[meatballs21]

Innocent in terms of experience but with a dirty sexy mind is fine.

[anonman32]

tell him the truth, tell him you are too innocent and you dont like it. tell him you want to become dirty.

[SlightlyCrazy]

It honeslty doesn't matter much to me
I want someone who's not experienced but is has the desire to be freaky as hell with me

[chc0009]

I don't care, to be honest, if she's innocent or not.

[Anonymous]

Guys prefer innocent girl for relationship and slutty for hookup

[ThisDudeHere]

I adore innocent girls.

[hotstuffSRD]

Don't lie to him
And i think their isn't anything like innocent girls :P