Why did he like me when I was innocent and naive?

[Anonymous]

With the help of my friends, I got back at a lier. He met me as a former shy girl with glasses, all naive and innocent.

He liked who I was back then. However, he lied so much and acted like a jerk once. He tried to gain my forgiveness but I still got even with him. He ended up hating my new version, said I've scooped to his level and forever ruined the image he had of me, no longer the sweet girl incapable of lying, incapable of bad thoughts.

Yes I've changed but I still don't understand... why certain guys like me like overall innocence in a girl? I actually hated my shy, awkward self.

[mr4435669]

Intelligent men, like me, love innocent and shy women, these types of women are rare and ephemeral, because after their first relationship, when their hearts are broken, they lose their purity and charm, men do not like them women outraged.

[Asker]

I was like that and it took getting lied to, used by other people in the past (bullied by certain classmates during my earlier school years too) and lastly him breaking my heart. The thing is after I've finished getting even with him, I was considering giving him a 2nd chance (he did seemed remorseful) but he couldn't forgive me for my wrongdoing.
In his own words, I've become someone else he no longer recognizes and there isn't that sweet, purity that would do no wrong anymore.

[Asker]

I find it hypocritical to be honest. So he can do wrong and I was willing to forgive but he can't forgive me. Like him, I'm a human with flaws too.