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it seems everywhere I go I get these girls trying to get my attention and I avoid eye contact they end up sitting near me and giving me compliments knowing I can hear them etc. its gotten to the point where I wear my headphones everywhere I go so I can block the outside world completely. some times when I do make eye contact it seems like thats the exact time girls look at me, and a lot of them smile but I dont smile back I just look away lol. is that considered rejection? Its not like im picky or I think im better lol im just not comfortable out in public. So what do you do when a person you like just doesn't pay you any mind? and what would you do if he/she smiles back when you smile at them? does that make a big difference. I have been acting like this for far to long, I need some tips to show girls that I am also interested in them like they are with me. I am 19 and I am a virgin. thats my case

I recently broke up with my girlfriend and she is now my ex. I broke up and left her. After the breakup she told me i was emotionally abusive. I've never had a history of that.

Here is what I did:
1. I would regularly remind her she wasn't a virgin and not good enough for me.
2. I would constantly reject compliments she gave me regarding how good I look and how I'm better than her ex.
3. I would regularly tell her she should have waited for me.
4. I called her used and damaged goods.
5. I would reject physical affection she tried to give me.
6. I always thought shittily of her because she wasn't a virgin when we met.
7. I would always bring up her ex boyfriend every time i got mad at her.
8. I thought she had to emotionally pay for offering me her non virgin body.

Do you think i was being abusive to my then girlfriend? I thought in was acting out of normal frustration and not being abusive.