8 Desirable Female Traits Guys Aren't Allowed to Like

[Anonymous]

1. Fit body

Even fit guys get insulted for desiring a woman with a fit body.

It is understandable that women with unfit bodies still want guys with athletic bodies and get desperate when those guys desire fit women this is why they insult those guys for their preference.

2. Skinny body

Most people consider models skinny. Yes, they are indeed skinny.

And there are so many young girls and women who just dream of losing weight. They would rather be as skinny as models and then eat a lot and gain as much weight as they want than to lose so many pounds, because it's easier to gain 10 pounds than to lose 100 pounds. No doubt guys who like modellike women get bashed by some fat girls. (No skinny woman bashes guys who desire them).

3. Tallness

Tallness is a very desirable thing about looks. It is not something to gain if you are not tall unless you undergo painful surgeries.

But very rarely women choose that surgery. Have you noticed how some short girls attack guys who like Victoria's Secret models? How would he be confident with 5 foot height?

4. Fake breast and butt

Okay, I have to agree that women who don't get breast and butt implants don't like those surgeries, but some of them can't stand when guys admire those fake breasts and butts. They don't envy those women for their fake bodies but for the ATTENTION they get.

You may have noticed how women nicely respond to guys who say they love small breasts and butts.

5. Makeup

Not all women wear good make up. If you have an Instagram page you must have noticed how girls leave mean comments on flawless makeup pictures.

Yes, some women envy good makeup artists and women who wear good makeup. If a guy prefers women with makeup, then he is seen as an impolite and rude person. A man who doesn't think women look better without makeup than with makeup is not a real man to some people.

6. Cooking skills

I have noticed how guys who like girls with cooking skills are called old-fashioned and control freaks who think women are slaves.

Well of course this type of mindset is idiotic as being able to cook doesn't mean being a slave.

And I have also noticed that such women who can't cook really like guys who can cook.

7. Virginity or low count

This is a very strong topic. I have never seen women attack men for other preferences as harshly and for their preference of virginity or low count.

Guys, just tell women you like female virginity and low count and just see how you get harassed by women. Guess what women, yes women with high counts; they are insecure and hate when guys prefer traits that EXCLUDE them.

No virgin would insult you for desiring virginity. If they do, it's because they think they will soon become promiscuous and be undesired.

8. Feminine outfits.

Even if you use the word "feminine," the chances that you will get called names such as misogynist and sexist are very high. Like REALLY high.

Who are guys to say what they think is feminine? Who are guys to like femininity? 'SARCASM'

This is it. My advice to guys: Guys, like and desire whoever and whatever you want. It's your life. Having high standards don't make you evil.

My advice to girls. Gain some confidence and either change yourselves or be confident with who you are and stop attacking guys for their standards that don't fit in you. Thanks for reading. ❤❤❤

[JRICHARDS1996]

I agree, and really appreciate this Take. Men are constantly shamed for holding women to standards like being thin and/or abiding by traditional gender roles. Yet, what women do not realize is that they hold men to even higher standards. Yes, the standards that men are held to exceed that of women. Even the ugliest woman can expect to be approached by a few men in her life. The average male on the other hand? There is a very real chance that he will die alone. Unless you are Chad Thundercock, rejection is not the exception but the norm. Most women marry up while most men are forced to marry down. So frankly, I think most of these women complaining about "standards" and guys somehow "dehumanizing" them are full of it. They want to force us to include fat women like Ashley Graham in the SI swimsuit issue and yet they would NEVER have a spread of say Larry the Cable Guy in Cosmopolitan. Women can still have their shirtless hunks. Yet we're forced to accommodate fat women because they are insecure.

[myTake Owner]

Just write a take and say that you like fat women with high p who can't cook and don't wear makeup and feminine clothes and see how many upvotes you will get.

[GreatnessBack]

" There is a very real chance that he will die alone. "

That's not true, look at cat ladies. ugh.

"Yet we're forced to accommodate fat women because they are insecure."
You are not forced to do anything. You are a man, if you don't like something, kill it.

[Blonde401]

This is such bullshit! I know loads of women who like chunky/chubby men, there's loads of us yet we all get sterotyped as only liking shirtless hunks. And you as someone who struggles to find someone to date them should maybe get off his high horse for a moment and stop being a hateful ass. Men don't get shamed for liking certain types of women, they get shamed for acting like chauvanistic pigs.

[JRICHARDS1996]

@Blonde401 I like Victoria's Secret angels and have a huge, $150 book full of naked images of them. If I were to openly say that this is what I consider beautiful, women and particularly the feminist media would lose their mind.

[Blonde401]

You say this constantly. I know what kind of women you like and I don't even know you. I love how you ignored all my other points. Funny how you want a Victoria's Secret angel but you can't even find a woman to date you? Maybe you should lower your expectations.

[JRICHARDS1996]

@Blonde401 I never said I realistically expected to receive one -- it would be nice if I did -- only that they are my preference. Humans settle for things outside of their preference all of the time. As for your other points, what else is there to say? Even if some of you do like regular looking and/or chubby guys, the vast majority do not, and nobody has been forcing you to change your media to accommodate us regular men yet. Cosmopolitan will still feature shirtless hunks while glorifying chubby women like Ashley Graham. Feminists will still talk about how "empowering" it is to see chubby women in men's media and how men who oppose it are sexist pigs, all the while still living them some shirtless hunks.

[Blonde401]

So all women read Cosmo now? So all women conform to Cosmo's standards? So many men do not accommodate 'fat' women. Tonnes of men choose not to date fat women or even befriend fat women, nobody makes you date anyone.

[JRICHARDS1996]

@Blonde401 Fair enough. While I do not expect for a woman to look like a Victoria's Secret angel, I would not date an overweight woman either because sexual attraction is important to me, especially since I'm waiting until marriage and will only ever have one partner. However, that would not stop me from befriending fat women. Not doing so is just mean.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

i'm kind of surprised that a woman being tall is a desirable trait. I've always heard guys say they love short girls

[YourFutureEx]

Nein. A lot of guys like tall girls.

[myTake Owner]

No. This take is not about the MOST DESIRABLE female traits. This take is about the desirable traits that guys get judged for liking.

[CaveOpp]

Most prefer them to be the same height or just a little under or above

[AleDeEurope]

Agreed, you're always gonna have girls complaining and calling you names cause your preference excludes them. It is what it is, and I honestly like that, cause I'm willing to look past some of my preferences, since no girl is perfect, but hearing a girl cry when I say I prefer one type of girls, is a relief, cause now I know not to get with that girl.

I always find it funny when girls cry (guys do this too though, but since this is a Take about women, I'll stick to them) when a guy doesn't like something that they did, like sleeping around. If you don't like when guys don't like that you sleep around, then why do you do it? It's your decision to sleep with everyone you want, no one is stopping you, but men have the right to say no to that.
The reason these women cry is because they're being rejected and they're being labelled undesirable by men, and for these women that sleep around, what they value the most is being desirable to men, so being rejected because they sleep around is offensive to them, as it lowers the value. That's also a reason why more men don't like the slutty ones.

[RainbowFanGirl]

Yeah, I've seen guys do this as well. I was attacked by guys for saying that I like chubbier guys or the shyer ones. People are just insecure in general. That's just just life.

[Sasha07]

BS, u can sleep around, but girls not? It's not that girls don't like to be excluded, if you have standards, hold the standards yourselves. You want a prude - don't sleep around. I fucking hate hypocrites...

[AleDeEurope]

@Sasha07 Wait... but who said I sleep around? :/
XD

[myTake Owner]

@Sasha07 guys sleep around but they are allowed not to date women who sleep around. No one can force a guy date a woman with high count.

[Red_Arrow]

No one can for each woman to date a guy with a high count.

[myTake Owner]

@Red_Arrow?

[RainbowFanGirl]

Hey guys don't call each other names.

[RainbowFanGirl]

I'm just saying this so you don't get reported.

[AleDeEurope]

@RainbowFanGirl I know, but meh, don't really care. I know it's gonna get deleted.

[Dskwk]

The opinion owner is a smart guy.

[Sasha07]

Like i fucking care.

[Dskwk]

@Sasha07 we don't care if you care

[Sasha07]

@Dskwk I wasn't talking to you.

[Dskwk]

@Sasha07 you commented under my comment. You want me to stop talking because you can't debate with me.

[AleDeEurope]

@Dskwk well said.

[Sasha07]

@Dskwk its his opinion, i dont need to tag him. USE YOUR BRAIN.

[Sasha07]

@Dskwk I didn't even read what u wrote, cause i dont care.

[Sasha07]

@Dskwk Finally...

[Bobbyhill1]

@Sasha07 you are 24, yet you act like a 12 year old

[Anonymous]

1 is legit.

2 is true, although it's women who like thinner bodies most of the time. Most guys would rather a girl be a little thicker than what she perceives as ideal. But still the minority of guys like myself, that actually like the skinny ones, who cop all that heat. Women put more pressure on themselves and each other to be skinny but somehow that pressure goes through a wormhole and lands on me.

3 is not so true. Most guys aren't into tall fyi. This seems very common thought among girls though. It's a female invention. They're looking at other girls who are tall and think that they're beautiful so they decide on every guy's behalf that it's what he likes. It's different for guys, it makes more sense that he's less confident and attractive. Short girls (5' to 5'5") sound adorable. How confident would *you* be as a girl? You should be *very.* Well maybe not very, but it's definitely a positive.

4. Guys don't generally like the fake ones anyway. Getting mad a guy just because the fake ones had a good moment is ridiculous.

5 is damned if you do, damned if you don't. If you say you prefer girls without make up it's decided that you're either setting impossible standards for women. If you say you do then you're valuing "fake" over "real" girls. I feel like most would rather I say I prefer makeup, I'd get an eyeroll but it's what they already expect of me. But really than kind of conversation is just a minefield.

6 is legit I suppose.

7 they know good and fkn well they don't like promiscuous men either, they're just being dumb.

8 is just more preference BS. It's like... I like this kind of aesthetic and you don't wear that kind of thing, so since women are a collective with no independent though among individuals I must be demanding that you cater to my wants or you're not a real women... or something. Personally, I'll get shit for going the other way too, like if I say heels are a step below clown shoes then I'm going to get shit from all the women who like heels and think it makes them look classy.

The only valid opinions a guy can have are the ones that validate everything she wants, hyperbolic but yeah. Thanks to all the girls out there that aren't this kind of silly.

[myTake Owner]

this take was not about the MODT DESIRABLE FEMALE TRAITS. This take was about the desirable female traists for liking which guys get attacked and bashed. Just write a take and say that you like fat women with high count who can't cook and don't wear makeup and feminine clothes and see how many upvotes you will get.

[Beautybynature]

Disagree! Most wonen in the world are not tall! I never heard a guy talk on height! They actually call tall girls trannies

[myTake Owner]

@Beautybynature this take was not about the MOST DESIRABLE FEMALE TRAITS. This take was about the desirable female traits for liking which guys get attacked and bashed.

[Opinion Owner]

I know what is was about, I agree with it. I'm just adding some commentary.

[myTake Owner]

I was responding to the girl

[Opinion Owner]

@Dskwk Assume that's all true. So what?

So what if they're not insecure?

[Opinion Owner]

@Dskwk
"NO WOMAN WITH LOW COUNT ATTACKS GUYS FOR PREFERRING WOMEN WITH HIGH COUNT"
I beg to differ, but okay. Women of any count can attack low count/virgin men... so what are you getting at? What if I turn around all your words? No men with high count attacks girls for preferring men with low count. See I can use words too, what's the point of all this?
"What is funny is no one says a guy who prefers experienced women views inexperienced women as lower human beings." But they will say a girl who prefers experienced men views inexperienced men as lower human beings.

[BuchitaBuchys]

It's not bashing them for having standards. It's because many guys tend to insult and dehumanize women who don't fall into those standards.
Especially, when they're not even up to par with said standards.
I can't even count how many times I've read or heard "women who are promiscuous just cannot be trusted. A virgin is who you should marry, but I'll still fuck the slut". and then you find out he sleeps around, so does that mean you can't be trusted either? And if she's so terrible for not being a virgin, then why even have sex with her?

Saying "I prefer thin or petite women" is different from saying "I'd never date a fat bitch because her pussy probably smells like old bacon".

Women get labeled gold diggers even if they say "he has to be working." Like they didn't say he needs to make 6 figures, just even a minimum wage job and "oh, you just want his money".
Don't even mention on this site wanting a tall man, or a fit man with abs AND tall, these guys will fall freak out.

You're allowed to have preferences, you're even allowed to voice them even in a degrading manner, but don't claim to be a victim or "attacked" when people call you out on it.

[myTake Owner]

No no no. I was not talking about being bashed for judging i was talking about being bashed by women for having PREFERENCES that those women can't offer.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Because as I explained, many times those "preferences" are tried to be forced as the standard. Also, many times, they're not being innocently expressed, saying "I like skinny women" is different from saying "fat chicks are gross and anyone who dates them is out of options."

[myTake Owner]

But I never noticed guys' dehumanizing fat women. I have noticed thie guys being bashed just for saying they prefer fit women.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Project harpoon

[Kuqezi]

Seems like some didn't get the take...

[Kuqezi]

someone*

[BuchitaBuchys]

@Kuqezi no, I read it. I don't agree that majority of guys get bashed just for having preferences. It's how they are stated.

[alphadoggystyle]

Biggest piece of hyperbole bullshit I've seen in a long while. Men dont expect women to have more than they do, a guy who isn't athletic doesn't expect to date a woman who is athletic, a guy who doesn't make a lot of money does not expect to date a woman who makes a lot of money, etc, the only exception is if a guy sleeps around it is still perfectly fine for him to have standards of dating a girl who doesn't have a large partner count, as that is not a double standard, its much easier to sleep around as a woman and it indicates low selfworth, if a man is able to sleep around a lot that indicates he has high value, and our reproductive systems differ in ways that make it more important for women to be more careful than men with all the risks women have when having sex.
Women are not bashed for wanting a man who has a job, the bashing occurs is when she expects him to earn more than she does, have a nice car etc, ie she wants to have a guy that has more than she does, hypergamy basically

[BuchitaBuchys]

@alphadoggystyle you call it a hyperbole yet you completely proved my point.
"its much easier to sleep around as a woman and it indicates low selfworth" so men sleeping around doesn't indicate low self worth?

I'm sorry this conversation is done as i don't converse with hypocritical misogynists

[alphadoggystyle]

Nope, i didn't prove your point since your point was factually wrong, as i proved in my post. I mentioned that specific subject is not a double standard because it is much easier to sleep around as a woman while it is difficult to do as a man, our reproductive systems are designed in ways that encourage men to sleep around and women to be careful, so its not a double standard, each and every one of the other examples you mentioned however are indeed double standards but most men simply dont bash women for such things, you made it seem like it is common which is an extreme hyperbole.

[BuchitaBuchys]

@alphadoggystyle OK whatever

[BuchitaBuchys]

@Dskwk the Virgin women are too busy insulting the promiscuous women that's why. "Why do men prefer sluts?"

[Dskwk]

Nope the virgin girls are confident enough not to get hurt when huys prefer experienced girls. Virgin girls know they are for the right man so there is no need to be desirable to players.

[BuchitaBuchys]

@Dskwk um, read on here. There are many virgin girls who put down non virgins that's not confidence

[Dskwk]

All I said is they dont put down guys for their preferences unlike sluts

[vonasaurus]

@BuchitaBuchys you are my hero; everybody bow the fuck down lol. :)

[BuchitaBuchys]

@vonasaurus lol thank you :)

[RachelBrigs]

I think everyone is ALLOWED to like what they will.

My only issue with this is when a guy goes crazy over girls he sees on social media who are plastic and photoshopped and says all girls should try to look like that. Or when his ideal is literally impossible naturally. He's allowed to like it, tbh I won't even say anything about it, but it does tick me off.

I also get annoyed when guys expect a full face on makeup on a girl. Most don't, but the ones who do just annoy me.

I'm endlessly bothered by guys who aren't virgins themselves but call girls sluts just for having sex even if it's only with one guy..

I'm annoyed by guys who expect a girl to dress to the 9s everyday too🙄🙄

So yeah some of this bothers me to an extent, but that's only when it surpasses a preference and becomes a standard they use to degrade other women.

If you like virgin women who cook and dress up everyday for example, sure fine! Enjoy that. But don't say women who don't fit your standard are trash.

[JRICHARDS1996]

I agree especially on men who are not virgins themselves but hold women to super rigid standards. I think if a man wants a virgin he should be one himself. However, overall, I kind of disagrees with you on "unrealistic." I think that women hold men to far more unrealistic standards than we do. Most women would never even approach a guy who was not a 9 or 10. Men on the other hand approach average 5 and 6 girls all of the time.

[myTake Owner]

@JRICHARDS1996 a non virgin guy can still appreciate female purity and a virgin girl can still appreciate male sexual experience. There is nothing wrong with having high standards

[myTake Owner]

@JRICHARDS1996 guys get bashed for their standards. They dont even need to call other women trash for getting bashed. Lol

[RachelBrigs]

@jrichards1996 women being more unrealistic doesn't make men less unrealistic.
(Not saying I agree with you, just pointing out flaw in your logic. )

At take owner- sure. But I think that it's hypocritical for a guy to expect "purity" when he himself isn't "pure. " I also think the expectation a woman must be "pure" is sexist.

[myTake Owner]

Is expeting him to be sexually experienced when you are a virgin sexist too?

[RachelBrigs]

There's a difference in that.
1. The male expectation for female virginity stems from an ideology that's existed for years and years in most of the world that a woman's entire value lies in her "purity. " it's a moral "standard" women are held to by some, while men get away with not upholding that standard. Therefore I do believe it's sexist to believe a woman should be a virgin solely bc she's female. If the roles were reversed, I'd say the same.
2. The female desire for male sexual experience is usually guided by one or two things or a combination. First, it's cultural; the same lingering ideology that women should be "pure" dictates the man should have the experience and should "teach " the girl. The girl may even feel bad about herself if she was the one "teaching" do to this ideology.
Secondly, if a girl is a virgin, she may be interested in someone with experience for the sake of the blind not leading the blind.

[RachelBrigs]

So not really- usually a female virgins desire for an experienced guy has nothing to do with an ideology that devalues men but just bc culture and practicality.

[myTake Owner]

You know guys who value female purity do have other turn ons. No one dates someone just for one triat. So dont make guys who calue purity seem irration because that won't work. Guys who appreciate virginity do have high standards and having high standards means being very picky. And picky people do have many turn ons and off. So virginity alone can never be enough for dating. And I am a virgin who would never date a non virgin because non virgin guys are not my cup of coffee. So if not prefering non virgin guys doesn't make me sexist then why prefering virgin girls makes guys sexist? I am starting to think that my take was so on point. Lol

[RachelBrigs]

I'm starting to think you so don't get what I'm saying.

If you think a mans value stems from his virginity then yeah that's sexist. If you aren't a virgin yourself but will only date virgins you're hypocritical. That's my issue with guys who will only date virgins. UNLESS it's for religious reasons or they're virgins themselves and just want someone on their field with their same views and experiences.

[myTake Owner]

I dont think a man's value stems from his virginity. And guys who like female virginity don't think her value stems from her virginity.

[RachelBrigs]

Cool but like I said in my opinion I'm talking about the guys who do. Some guys DO think a girls value is based on her virginity and those are the guys that bother me. I find it amusing that you are trying to speak for literally every human on earth. But you can't.

[myTake Owner]

I am speaking for all the guys that I have met. ALL OF THEM valued female virginity among other traits. You see you are still trying to put down guys who prefer virgins. This take is about girls like you.

[RachelBrigs]

No, you literally don't understand what I'm saying. My issue is SPECIFICALLY with the guys out there who SPECIFICALLY feel that a girls worth is determined by her virgin. SPECIFICALLY, those are the guys that annoy me, not a guy who just has a preference.

[RachelBrigs]

If you still fail to understand, your reading comprehension is garbage

[RachelBrigs]

*virginity.

[myTake Owner]

You brought up the specifically part because you have no other argument. You know you can't judge guys who value virginity AMONG OTHER THINGS. i told you guys who like virginity among other traits of women are still bashed for liking virginity

[JRICHARDS1996]

"But there's a difference"--a pathetic attempt to justify a hypocritical discrepancy in your ideology, like when liberals try to say that Blacks cannot be racist.

You are assuming that every man who desires a virgin is somehow devaluing women while simultaneously assuming that every woman who desires an experienced man is not devaluing men.

But that is bullshit.

The same women who want an "experienced" man are shaming virgin men as less than attractive and perpetrating the rigid idea that men should be experienced.

You cannot have your cake and eat it too.

Either both are wrong or both are right. You cannot affirm that it is wrong for men to demand virgins but permissible for women to want experience.

[RachelBrigs]

@jrichards1996 all y'all need to get yourselves back in school and learn to read. This is my last response and the 4th time I've said this: I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT ALL GUYS. I AM TALKING ABOUT JUST FEW OF THEM.

[G-Daz]

1. People would say I have a fit body, I actually don't feel attracted to physically defined women. I like thickness and some softness to the body. I find that really hot.

2. Many people say that the modelling industry is ran by gay men... I wouldn't disagree with that. But it could sort of make sense of why they suggest for the women to get so thin, so that their bodies are more similar to what a general gay guy finds more attractive (you won't find many straight guys following models)

3. I prefer short girls

4. I don't consider implants sexy, heck i don't even like tattoos on girls. I prefer natural... but some women are half way between both. Complaining that you don't like natural but then smothering themselves in tattoos. Natural boobs and ass are always better

5. Natural is best but nothing wrong with some make up on the face.

6. It's getting rarer and rarer to find girls with even basic life skills. I think thanks to feminism and extremist lefties that are fucking this up. I think it's starting to seem like guys generally know how to cook and do more life skill chores that girls used to know. I can cook but i would prefer a girl that can cook.

7. I find this interesting, some girls that aren't virgins or had many sex partners will complain if guys experienced or virgin prefer virgin girls... Yet girls who are or aren't virgins both prefer or don't care if a guy has experience

Girls (virgin/experience) - Prefer experienced Guys
Guys (virgin/experienced) - Prefer girls that are virgin or inexperienced

So seems to be something that both are content with.

8. Love girls in skirts and dresses andd in pink... even makes them seem more attractive

[Anonymous]

Let's see here. What do I have?

1. Fitness? Check. But when I am fit, I don't have a big butt like that. Nope, my body seems to be fairly proportional.
2. Skinny? Uh. . . I look fit. If you mean petite, then no. I actually have a big skeletal frame, and my body seems quite proportional. I don't think I can be any skinnier without showing too much of my rib cage.
3. Mom has always said that my legs are long enough to be a model, and I'm taller than my mother but shorter than my father.
4. I have real breasts and butt. They seem proportional, not too big or too small. Maybe a cup B?
5. Make-up? Pffft. I resent make-up. I already have clear skin, thick hair, and pink nails -- the stuff that you'd find in stores.
6. I love to cook, and I think I am quite skillful at it. But I am constantly learning new recipes and techniques.
7. I'm a virgin, and I expect that in a guy. No virginity? No deal. Lack of virginity suggests some personality issues that I may find incompatible.
8. Well, I do like feminine outfits, and I'd be flattered if I hear a guy who says I look feminine. That's my intention.

[Navier-Stokes]

Congratulation on being the most desirable girl in the world! 😂

[myTake Owner]

@Navier-Stokes not the most desirable. But she definitely has the trats that makes some womeb get jealous of

[myTake Owner]

@Navier-Stokes women

[Bandit74]

I wonder how long it takes before a girl accuses you of being a guy. 🙈

Anyways, I think its best not to talk about your preferences. I gain nothing from telling women that I prefer low number or that I like a girl who can cook. All it does it create drama and causes women to get catty and condescending. Its better to just go for whatevwr you want and keep quiet about it. If you find a girl unnatractive based on the number of people she has slept with then just lie and make up a different reason for why you aren't interested in her.

[AleDeEurope]

Hahaha I wonder how many will accuse her of being a dude... which she may be, who knows, but it's funny how if a girl says something against women, or if she does something bad, she's told she's a guy behind a girl's account xD

[RainbowFanGirl]

This is true. If you voice what you like then you get attacked. I was even attacked for having a thing for chubbier guys. Each sex is insecure in something, that's just how it is. Just go for what you desire and don't look back.

[Bandit74]

@RainbowFanGirl
You were attacked for saying you liked chubby guys? :o

[RainbowFanGirl]

Yep. The ripped guys got triggered I guess. 😛 Oh well. As I said, just follow your dreams and go after what you want. That's all you can do I guess.

[Bandit74]

@RainbowFanGirl
Oh yeah, they do get pissy whenever someone doesn't praise their physiques. 😂

[myTake Owner]

@AleDeEurope lol gagers said I am a dude because I said I dislike female promiscuity.

[myTake Owner]

Lol but you can't compare the number of butthurt women with the number of butthurt men. Women are intolerant when it comes to what guys like.

[RainbowFanGirl]

I know right? 😂 Why you mad tho

[Vesuvius87]

I don't have a problem with a guy's preferences. The only time it becomes an issue is if they're trying to convince other guys to like the same thing too and go all the way to shaming all the women that don't fit their standard. Then hypocrisy is also unattractive on both genders. If I don't know how to drive myself, it would be very hypocritical of me to ask for a guy that has a brand new car and is an expert at driving and insult other guys that can't drive.

There is a major difference between a guy that says ''though, I would prefer a girl that's a good cook, I'm not closing my options if she isn't an expert'' vs ''I want a girl that's a good cook because I deserve it, those that are mediocre don't deserve a boyfriend, they are worthless''.

[Shorty1991]

Since when were men no allowed to like women with cooking skills?
That's new to me.
But I do disagree that men are being forced to like what they don't like. Everyone is entitled to their own preferences and opinions. The biggest problem is that people can't seem to accept that each and everyone of us have different preferences. For instance a guy who prefers slim athletic females will get sniped at by men who have different tastes and women who are curvy or chubby. Meanwhile another guy will get dissed for liking curvy or chubby women. ("The chubby chasers" as you like to call them). All this body shaming is needing to stop. You like whatever you think is pleasing to the eye. End of. Don't start slagging people off because they like what you don't. Just accept it and move on.

[myTake Owner]

" But I do disagree that men are being forced to like what they don't like".
I never said they are forced to like what they don't like. All I said is they are attacked for liking what they like.

And I have noticed that a lot. Just read guys' responses

[Shorty1991]

Yes, its cool. I know what you are saying, you forgot to add the ones that get dissed for liking plus sized women. Because it works both ways.
Don't worry, that wasn't directed at you, its directed to those guys who just see plus sized models in magazines and think that they are being forced to like them. When in fact they aren't. The plus sized models exist and that's that. They have a right to wear stylish clothes to. But at the same time I still disagree with guys getting slagged off for prefering slim or skinny women too.

[myTake Owner]

But being bashed for liking fit and skinny women is way more common

[Shorty1991]

I think that there are some heavier women that are more offended by the insults they get from the guys that don't categorise them as their preference. So I don't think that's the real issue. Its not the fact that they prefer women with fit bodies that gets to them, I think its because they end up slagging off what they don't like. As you say its the same with the slim women. Some people can come across as quite harsh and say really offensive things. When all they need to say is, nah not my cup of tea. Or I prefer athletic women. Personally i don't really care who's idealism i fit and who's i don't.

[Tony1974]

Welcome tot he world of "feminist" double-standards. Ever notice the one's who are so stridently anti-male look like men? Ever notice that the ones who lambast men and women for their choices are undesirable women? Haters will always hate... I stopped playing attention to the noise along time ago. I remember growing up that GIRLS were at a disadvantaged in school (which anyone with half a brain knew was complete and utter BS) at a time when the average girl got far better grades their her average male peer. Fast forward 20 years and 60% of those enrolling and graduating from college are women. Hurray Girl power! Now these women are upset when we won't play their game. All these stupid menz are ruining their feminist upotia by not drinking the cool-aid. Sorry... I don't need somebody to tell me what to do.. what I should like etc. Funny how the "oppressed" become the "oppressors?"

[Tony1974]

@Dskwk Some people have a problem with themselves and project their angst on to others; it's like those who can't admit when they make a mistake and always need somebody to blame. Self-delusions are the worst lies of all. I try to avoid these people as much as possible. Life's a lot more pleasant without the drama.

[nog6422]

1. Guys are allowed to like fit bodies. Although some people don't think so, they're not the majority.
2. Girl in pic is not very hot.
3. Tallness is not particularly attractive.
4. Fake ass and tits are only sometimes sexy, when it's done right Sometimes it's not.
5. Makeup, also, is only sometimes hot, when it's done right. And guys are allowed to like makeup.
6. Guys are allowed to like cooking skills.
7. Guys are allowed to like virginity/low count, and I don't find it particularly attractive.
8. Guys are allowed to like girls wearing feminine outfits.

[myTake Owner]

I see how they get bashed

[nog6422]

What?

[Bananaman177]

I've never even heard of men caring how tall or short a woman is, but most women won't even consider dating a man who isn't taller than her. Nobody ever gives women any crap about this, but everyone tries to shame men for having things they like. You know what? For every man who likes skinny girls, another prefers thicker girls. Lots of men are attracted to morbidly obese women! Where are all the women attracted to obese men? Or short men? Or ugly men? I see attractive men dating less attractive girls all the time. You rarely see any woman with a man less attractive than she is.

[Mrwoo99]

There all desirable but it all depends which trait the guy values the most. Tall height for a woman can still be attractive but it's women who make it a problem for themselves when they reject guys under 6ft and reasons why men prefer short girls instead. Tall women find it hard to find relationships because they demand a really tall man which decreases her dating pool of good valuable men. The average height in UK is 5ft10 and in US its 5ft11 so tall height is bad for a woman the same way short height is for a man.

[myTake Owner]

Short women still hate the fact that models' height must be above 5'8

[Mrwoo99]

@Dskwk I know your frustrated, this is the double standard you face today. Even models have to be younger than 21 to have a modelling careering otherwise managers don't invest in them.

[Guy83]

You really need to get out of your own head and off of the internet for awhile. Lol, I'm a guy I can like whatever I want. I don't feel guilty because I'm attracted to women I consider to be beautiful. BUT I also won't put other women down just because I'm not personally attracted to them. You can't get angry at a man for having a preference.

[myTake Owner]

this take was not about the MODT DESIRABLE FEMALE TRAITS. This take was about the desirable female traists for liking which guys get attacked and bashed.

[Shorty1991]

your right :) and women can like what they want too.

[AnonRom]

Virginity is more of a societal thing I think because Idgaf about it personally and honestly neither do most guys.
Breasts and butts are more important for their shape than their size (my general rule is have a larger chest and relatively wider hips than me)
The makeup thing is not a desirable trait like it may make you look better but most guys aren't lying when they say they like girls who wear only a little or no makeup.
other than that its pretty spot on I guess but each thing boils down to personal opinion to some extent.

[myTake Owner]

this take was not about the MOST DESIRABLE FEMALE TRAITS. This take was about the desirable female traits for liking which guys get attacked and bashed.

[Rawrzz]

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You wouldn't believe how much shit I get for preferring skinny/fit chicks.

[myTake Owner]

Dont pay attention to them. Your high standards hurt them more than their harassments hurt you

[Phoenix98]

Haha not allowed? I blatantly state in full view of everyone all the time my love for most of these traits and without shame. Women want me to be a man right? only fair they act like a woman.

The only one I don't like is fake breast and butt I've never been a fan of fake body parts and it's usually noticeable FYI Kim's asses looks disgusting and makes her body look disproportionate.

My favorite trait would be a fit and tight body because I'm a fitness guy myself. But if I needed to I could use my work as an excuse as to why I love that since I'm a personal trainer ^^

[raspberry0416]

The point... is not that guys have standards that don't include me. It's that these guys have standards that dehumanize women.
Look, no non-virgin girl is insecure over guys who like virgin girls. That is a figment of imagination in your virgin mind.

[myTake Owner]

No. I have read many takes where girl simply bashed guys for loking virgins and women with low count.

[raspberry0416]

Insecurity is not the reason for bashing

[Dimmu]

she just proved your point
you said virgins and then she assumed that its dehumanizing other women

[JRICHARDS1996]

Yes it is. In no way does desiring a virgin "dehumanize" a woman. Sluts with high counts simply take offense at it because it pokes at their insecurities. Otherwise these same women would not hold men to such high "dehumanizing" standards.

[YourFutureEx]

Which standards "dehumanised" women?

[myTake Owner]

@JRICHARDS1996 lol she said non virgin guys don't bash guys for liking virgin girls and then said liking virginity dehumanizes women. Lol. Yes you think it dehumanizes women for justifying your bashing guys

[Dimmu]

@Dskwk "BUT when a guy prefers a virgin then he views non virgins as lower human beings."

No it's just called high standard, I don't have to be with a woman where ten men had a piss before, I respect her as human cause that's how I'm , but no thanks
RESPONSIBILITY PLEASE

[Dskwk]

@Dimmu I didn't say that. A girl said that. And that is idiotic. Read my comment once again

[Anonymous]

I agree with all of these except 3,4,&5 . Those three I don't care for. I know more guys who're into shorter girls than taller ones and we often feel afraid of being labeled a pedophile. I'd like fals breast and butts if they didn't look fake. I'll admit when clothed it looks very attractive but nude it's definitely off-putting. And the makeup thing. I'll admit that a lot of girls look better with makeup when they do things like cover up small spots or hide how tired they look but overall it does fairly little for me and I hate being able to see the makeup. But being completely honest I am bothered by unclear skin but trying and failing to cover it up with makeup just makes it look worse.

[ChocoLada]

Why aren't they allowed to like these traits? Because of some jealous girls who don't have these traits?

[myTake Owner]

Because of insecure girls who feel undesired for not fitting in guys's standards

[ChocoLada]

@Dskwk Yeah, I agree :)