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8 Desirable Female Traits Guys Aren't Allowed to Like (Page 2)
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Same guys who like fake tits and ass are the same guys who hate anything natural and have insecurity problems themselves or turn around and bitch about not finding a real or down girl ( ironic).
Second, who bashes men for liking a girl who wears dresses? Never heard of it.
Its one thing to like makeup another to like a mask and that says volumes about what kind of man he is if he is into masks.
Virginity? This shit isn't seen irl. Like only 2 percent of the population stay virgins till marriage or later on in life. Virgins are literally unicorns in modern society
Cook? A man can want a woman who can cook just like women want a man who can build things. But we will have a harder time finding what we want vs men.
See men think they have it hard. No women actually have it harder at choosing a mate.
And what men find attractive says all you need to know about them. Literally.
Just because you don't agree with their preferences doesn't mean you are right
i never said i didn't agree but yes someones preferences says something about them, thats psychoogy
My preferences are skinny/fit, natural makeup look, cook, really feminine, low partner count, short, no fake body parts.
I would never shame another guy for having different preferences. What my preferences say about me as that I'm like every other guy/girl that have preferences, normal.
@Kuqezi whatever you wanna beleive cool.
the only reason women have it hard at finding a mate is because so many of you have unrealistic standards and demands while lacking something of equal worth to bring to the table. cry me a river.
@alphadoggystyle dude. You guys want a woman who works fulltime, raises the kids , cooks and cleans. Meanwhile what does the average man bring to the table absolutely nothing , Imean if you looked like a GQ model it be more acceptabl but 99.9 percent of you dont. Most of you can't build a shed if i needed one, can't fix wiring in the house, fix the problems with the house.. etc
do you have single digit IQ perhaps? nothing of what you said made any sense. Most men simply want a girlfriend who is kind and looks nice (which means they are around the same level of looks as the guy himself), most guys can cook themselves and unless they are the breadwinner working more they will help raise the kids as much as the woman will.
In general the man pretty much always brings more to the table than the woman does, the man usually is earning more money, offers better protection than the woman does, and can usually fix more things in the house, is stronger etc, and if the woman wants kids, he will take care of her by working hard while she stays at home being pregnant etc and even after she has given birth.
Why should a guy be a GQ model unless the woman looks just as good herself? In general men are better than women, so most of us can do more things and better than most of you women, its fact. Get a clue.
@alphadoggystyle.. lol cute you turn to insults lol. I dont know what imaginery world you live in but women date and marry down men date and marry up. Everyone knows that. Your argument is void
@Dskwk literally only see this online not irl
Yes. Right. Online people are rude and free
this is the biggest joke i have seen in a long time, you're completely wrong. Men marry and date down all the time while women usually refuse to date guys who are equal level to themselves in terms of earnings and looks, what usually happens is that these women fail to secure one of the top alpha guys and when her looks deteriorate she has to settle for someone worse than she could have gotten when she was younger, so technically she doesn't date down.
@alphadoggystyle in the real world that doesn't exist on GAG yes.
nope, what i said applies to the real world, im beginning to wonder if you have ever ventured outside or if you have been living under a rock.
This is so very true. I've never understood why guys get bashed for having a lot of these preferences. And this is coming from someone who is really insecure about her looks. There isn't much about me that is attractive, and I have never been upset with a guy for liking the prettier girl. I always assume it's going to happen and so I don't even try.
Guys just like girls have their preferences and they shouldn't be made to feel it's wrong. I always hate to see the bashing about liking thin or fit girls. Not only are they bashing the guys, but they are going on about how that girl is too skinny or something so they bash the girl too.
Well women aren't allowed to like men with $$$$$ soooo.
At least liking looks, cooking and low count make more sense than liking money. If a woman wants a man for his money then she is dependant and useless
as if that is comparable, if you like money then you are not interested in the person himself and that shows you are nothing more than a materialistic parasite. its not comparable at all to like someones physical looks or someones specific talents. Also the difference is, a out of shape guy does not expect to date a fit girl, but many poor girl still expect the man to make more money than her, its hypergamy and womens desire to date up and not being satisfied with an equal man that is despisable.
If a man wants a woman for her looks and cooking then he's "dependent and useless", "shallow parasite" etc, "not liking her for her SELF", by that logic.
Nope, Its not even close to the same thing, being attracted to looks is completely natural, looks are the first thing you see and you cannot separate looks from the person him/herself, which you can when it comes to materialistic things. And guys dont expect to date women better looking than themselves, except if the guy is rich he will take advantage of womens hypergamy. And wanting a woman for her looks and cooking would never make a guy useless as in such scenarios he is pretty much always offering something of higher value himself, wheter it be looks or wealth.
@alphadoggystyle "you cannot separate looks from the person him/herself" yes you can. What if she gets into an accident and gets disfigured? Or gets breastcancer and loses her breasts? Etc.
Also if men are allowed to prefer women to wear makeup, as she says in the OP, then women should be able to prefer men who pay for dates. It's fair since the woman had to spend the money on the makeup
If men want women to spend money on clothes, makeup, and plastic surgery, he should at least be willing to pay for dates
How about a man dating a girl who can pay for her own shit and not entering into his wallet?
@Dskwk If HE'S allowed to expect HER to spend money on HIM (by buying and wearing makeup), then why isn't SHE allowed to expect HIM to spend money on HER?
So wearing make up means spending time on him? Then she should buy protein and pay for his fitness fees if she wants him to be atheltic.
nope wrong again, because if you get into an accident that changes your appearance drastically, you are no longer the same person, both physically and mentally you will have changed. However very rarely will guys leave a girl if she gets some minor appearance altering trauma so its not something you can argue with.
Money and materialistic things can be gained by anyone and have nothing to do with a persons real self, they can influence a person but they are never part of the core.
Since humans would have a very difficult time to interact with each other if we couldnt look at each other and find each other physically attractive, its just natural that something like looks that will be important for attraction. Money and wealth however can be gained and lost by luck and bad luck at any time and in many cases the person is still the same at their core values and personality regardless of their belongings.
And many men dont even prefer women with makeup, unless you use a extremely large ammount of makeup that basically makes you look drastically different from the natural you, then guys will find you attractive with or without it. If you do look totally different without makeup then you are being fake and should not blame anyone but yourself if the guy isn't attracted to you unless you wear it, and the best thing would be to find someone who likes your natural appaerance even if it means you will have to date someone less attractive yourself.
@alphadoggystyle looks can be lost at any time, too. A woman can get hit by a car at any given moment. like you said, as a case of luck.
Also, why should men be allowed to have a preference for, for example, big tits, then? Because many women end up having to have mastectomies (breastfeeding removal)
@alphadoggystyle actually studies show that men prefer women with makeup on.
Also, a woman who got into an accident is still indeed the same person. And SHE NEEDS YOU MORE THAN EVER.
Nope, you are wrong again on all accounts. Your looks are part of who you are, at all times wheter you want it to be or not, this is true for all people. Wealth is technically never a part of who you are, you can let it affect your personality and lifestyle but that is a choice and is different for everybody.
Losing your looks is not the same thing as losing your wealth, losing a job is much more common than losing your looks in an unnatural way, also if a man loses his looks he can be in just as bad of a situation when it comes to dating as women are, just in his case his wealth also matters unfortunately.
Losing looks with time happens to everybody so it cannot be used as an argument, the person changes as you get older to adapt to the changing life experience you will have.
Liking big tits is equivalent of women liking tall height, except that it is much easier to increase tit size compared to increasing height. So that has nothing to do with womens despicable attraction to money. Not all men like big breasts either, there are probably more men who like smaller breasts compared to the ammount of women who like short guys.
And no, if you lose your looks, you are not the same person you was before, and if your ability to take care of yourself is dependent on your looks then you only prove my point again how useless women are. Wealth however can often come and go in a lifetime, it has very little if anything to do with the persons identity. Being attracted to another persons wealth only proves how useless someone is at taking care of themselves or getting wealthy on their own. Beauty is also subjective so being attracted to "beauty" can never be considered as shallow as being attracted to wealth.
but what about all the desirable traits in men that we women aren't allowed to like?
hypothetically, if i want a buff dude with no body hair, a job he cares about, and a reasonable iq, who doesn't expect me to cook his meals and raise his children, people get super offended and call me a shallow bitch. but it's okay for them to have their superficial likes unchallenged? sorry, not how it works; try again.
Amen.
For me the low sexual partner count is very important because it shows that a woman places the same importance on sex as I do, it also shows that she is able to exercise self-control and is choosy about who she has sex with. I always try and explain my stance and usually end up getting bashed for it as though I am somehow putting down women who are more liberal with their attitude towards sex and that's not what I do.
@Dskwk Some of what you say is true, of course, but for me I don't view a woman with a high sexual partner count as a lesser human being, she is simply incompatible with me and it's this incompatibility which rules her out of being my girlfriend and relegates her into the friend zone.
I don't care if a woman is a virgin or has had some partners, but again it depends on the circumstances in which she is having sex, i. e. a woman that has a low count but has had all of her sexual experiences in casual situations is equally incompatible to me.
It does make me laugh that some women get upset about this preference, yet spare me no thought when they still me how undesirable I am due to my short height and skinny build, yet I don't get upset, I just move on with life.
Women with high count think not wanting to date them means putting them down
@Dskwk They're wrong then and cannot accept the reality that not everyone wants a partner that has a high number count. If they think someone like me is putting them down then that's not my problem.
Their insecurity is their problem. Lol
@Dskwk Yes I agree with you and as I have stated these women don't mind airing their preferences and excluding certain men, but don't want to be subjected to same exclusions.
I doubt good looking men pay attention to them. If they do then only for sex
@Dskwk You'd be surprised.
Guys want sex if they dont care about her looks and character
@Dskwk Yes and sometimes men don't care about her past and will date her anyway.
Men with no dignity do
9. Takes like this. They'll accuse you of being a guy lol
OMG. I wish takes allowed to choose a MHO.
You can't imagine how many times girls here said I am a guy because I was against some bad female traits. Lol
Haha be proud of it xD take it as a compliment.
I definitely do
If you pay any mind to what you're "allowed" to like other than to mock the women who disapprove and the men who rush to white knight support them with the pathetic hope of a whiff of gash for being a good widdle boy, you've already failed. Turn in your man badge and gun, and get your ass the fuck outta my precinct!
the gun thing is a white guy thing...
They can like whatever they want. They are free to do so.
The only thing I really dislike is when they are being hypocrites and they expect a very attractive, skinny girl to fall from the sky for them, while they themselves are neither attractive nor fit.
Do you dislike when women expect a very attractive, skinny man to fall from the sky for them, while they themselves are neither attractive nor fit?
Yes.
People can like what they like, but you have to understand why girls get upset. Our value is practically based on whether guys find us attractive or not. If we aren't attractive to guys, then we are basically considered worthless. As a result many girls are insecure which is why they attack guys for liking the norm. Just saying.
Not every guy's preference is the same as what is on this list. Everyone has a different view as to what is beautiful to them.
Not every guy's preference is the same as what is on this list. Everyone has a different view as to what is beautiful to them."
I only mention thise triats for which guys are attacked
Those*
And did you read the rest of my opinion? Girls get upset because our value is BASED on guys finding us attractive...
I understand and agree with you. All I said was attacking them is wrong
Okay.
That's sad, because a woman should not feel worthless because one or two guys don't find them attractive. That just shows how fucked to society is.
Nope if a woman feels worthless just because some guys dont desire her then she is fucked up not society
Lmao. Whatever you say. 😛
It's hard for girls to gain confidence in themselves when they've been kicked down again and again.
Big deal. Men have it even harder. We grow up being taught that we are virtually worthless, and guess what? Rejection is not the exception but the norm for us. Girls like you would not last a single day in the life of a male. If you cannot handle some guys not finding you attractive, then imagine being a guy where THE VAST MAJORITY of women never find you attractive.
@JRICHARDS1996 girls get desperate when they get no attention. You know what most girls do for getting attention from men.
Diddums. Girls just as guilty.
@JRICHARDS1996 lmao. I have a boyfriend who loves me so I don't need the validation of men. I am just saying why some girls get upset like that.
"But guys do too!"
This take was about women in general so I am focusing on women.
If a girl attacks a guy for having preferences, she isn't normal and guys should stay away from her. Stop making exuses.
@Kuqezi lol I bet you attack girls for wanting tall, jacked guys with a decent, well-paying job. But that's ok right?
No I wouldn't but I'm tall guy with a decent paying job lol
@Kuqezi lol but still tho, there are guys who do that
funny thing is that most guys actually like real 5ft girl next door types. Fact is that 99.9999% of single men want a woman with cooking skills, few previous sexual partners, fit healthy bodies and dress feminine (like women). Nothing wrong with that, we shouldn't tell men who they should and shouldn't like.
I never said most guys like tall girls. The point of this take was to show the traits that guys are not "allowed" to like
this is mostly bullshit.
except too skinny-is lame, and the picture is a good example-I don't find that woman attractive at all. Who wants some bony woman? Likewise, who wants to date a giraffe? the other 5 are bullshit-pretty much all guys like those things.
this take was not about the MOST DESIRABLE FEMALE TRAITS. This take was about the desirable female traits for liking which guys get attacked and bashed.
I also get attacked for wanting a fit 6'4+ guy with a full head of hair who is either a doctor, lawyer or has a master's degree in engineering. Speaks at least 2 languages fluently and has a good income... And yeah, is either a virgin or has a very low count < 2-3
Awfully specific 😂
I like your type of guy lol
Haha, my type? What do you mean.
No we can all want whatever doesn't mean where likely to get it but you can dream.
Iv never known any guy to be like that and im in the software development field.
I know 2 guys who are very close apart from being 5'4 and 5'7 also both married or in a long term relationship so obviosly not options.
I've gone one step further and just ignore whats possible for my ideal woman my ideal women has the power to slow down time so I can have a lie in and still not be late for work and speed it up for a long drive or plane flight.
I doubt you get attacked as harshly as guys lol
"as guys" I know its the internet but I am a guy?
Honest.
@sedrftvgyhujik i meant the girl not you
Fair enough.
I don't have a problem with these, as after all, they're only preferences, but I've seen men being ripped into by other women that do and I don't think that's right.
I've also seen guys rip into girls for having similar preferences (i. e. Wanting a "jacked" or "skinny" guy, wanting a guy with low count, etc.), but this myTake is only going after women, when I've seen plenty of men do this exact same thing.
@RainbowFanGirl Oh of course, it's the same for both genders, just about different things.
I have been attacked for liking girls who were short, skinny or had small boobs. If they had glasses or short hair, even worse. I don't care if they've had a lot of partners in the past (provided they are clean and happy now) and get told that is bad.
I don't listen and go for the girl I find desirable.
I pointed out those traits for which guys are attacked not the most desurable traits
Lmao, poor you. having to explain your point over and over again. :(
@Shorty1991 lol yup.. cause some people are bad at understanding
@Dskwk Oaft! Tell me about it. Lol.
@OP yes and I provided more traits which are desirable which I have personally been attacked for like in a girl. I was hoping to add to the discussion but instead I have you thinking I missed the point.
Well they shouldn't attack you, you are entitled to your own preferences and your quite right not to listen to them. Focus on what you like and that's that. Im not skinny and I don't have small boobs so I don't fit your preference. But I'm not going to make a big song ans dance about it. I don't like anorexic, too muscular or obese men. My preferences are slim, average, solid and chubby. I'm. pleased to say that I haven't yet been insulted about it.
As a guy that likes super girly-girl feminine women... I don't understand the bad reputation that makeup gets.
To me, makeup is like art for the face, a way to accentuate her features and show some style.
FINALLY, SOMEONE WHO GETS IT
and hide her flaws
I don't mind men having standards, as long as those men can accept it when I say I only date tall, masculine guys with muscles - which they often can't.
I doubt anyone would judge you for your standards. All I can say is I really hope date tall, masculine guys with muscles notice you. 😂😊
@Dskwk Im talking about all he men I see complaining about women wanting masculine, big men :)
Guys complaining avout girls preference of masculine guys is not an excuse of bashing guys for liking fit women. Complain and bash are not the same thing.
@Dskwk Okay then they bash women for liking masculine men, if you really want to focus that much on choice of words. If men want to complain then women can complain, too.
I have never seen men bashing women for their choices. It is women who need to be desired by men so much
@Dskwk I've seen it a lot
Iv'e read mytakes here and have seen how girls called names to guys for their preferences
@Dskwk Oh, so because you've seen a few mytakes on this site everything I know and have experienced is not true, makes sense. You're acting like all men are saints putting up with this horrible gender, maybe have some self respect.
I don't agree with the fake boobs and butt part. Fake boobs are terrible to handle, I prefer A cup boobs to a fake D cup. When a girl rest on her back, her fake boobs defy gravity, looks so unattractive.
this take was not about the MODT DESIRABLE FEMALE TRAITS. This take was about the desirable female traists for liking which guys get attacked and bashed.
1. & 2. Well, I like girls with fit body, skinny is ok too.
3. Tall girls are definitely among my favorites (but that doesn't mean I don't like short girls).
4. & 5. I dislike makeup and fake breast & butt.
6. Cooking skills are not that much important.
7. I'm indifferent.
8. Nope, I prefer girls in casual, tomboyish and sporty outfits.
Men aren't allowed to have any preferences.
If they do they are assholes who didn't deserve you in the first place obviously !
TL;DR it sucks to be viewed as not desirable.
It makes us insecure and the natural response is to lash out at the one who triggers our insecurities.
Me personally, I don't care if somebody gets butthurt over my preferences.
They are what they are and I think they are more than a fair deal for what I am bringing to the table.
Men are allowed to have preferences ONLY if their preferences include insecure women's traits
1. been attacked for saying i want a fit. 2. I have beem attack for saying i dont want my girlfriend ro wear make up lol would always tell her she looks a lot more pretty with out it so i would get shit for it. So end up buying her $90 worth of make up. 3. i love love women who can cook she can teach me. Butgot shit for that too