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8 Desirable Female Traits Guys Aren't Allowed to Like (Page 3)
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I'm just going to say, I'm a virgin, I don't like it when guys say they only will be with virgins. This is not because I'm planning on becoming a raging slut anytime soon but because I feel it's a vary superficial reason to date someone.
I will not date people who say I will only date ___ because I believe you should date someone because you love them not because they're a "tall, feminine, virgin".
But everybody needs a reason to love someone.
So you will date anybody irregardless of their character or physical traits? Everyone has prefferences, I won't date a woman with a high partner count, no its not superficial. The greater the number of partners the more likely a woman is to divorce, cheat, be unhappy in long term relationships and be depressed according to multiple studies so not wanting to risk my future well being on a woman who has a high partner count isn't irrational nor superficial. Now if you date ugly men fat men poor men rich men good looking men men who are shy men who are outgoing men who are what ever then fine (though I highly doubt that's the case) but that doesn't mean a man is superficial (or woman for that matter) for having a certain preference, in fact it might be very logical for why he feels the way he does.
People those are desirable traits because of liking which
guys are judged
@YourFutureEx we can't deny that looks has a lot of power in making people fall in love and desire
No guy dates a girl just for one reason. Virginity is ine of the reasons why a guy would date a girl
Yeah but at 14 that don't mean very much.
@hellionthesage
I'm not saying you can't have preferences, I'm saying I have a preference on who I want to date. So saying it's okay to only date virgins and saying it's not okay for me to not date guys because they only date virgins is kinda hypocritical.
No one said you can't date whoever you want
Never said you can't date them I merely pointed out that your thinking is flawed. You claimed it was superficial, I was trying to show that it was not, further more you said you should date them because you love them but not because of a preference and I was pointing out that every one in the world has a preference, your not going to go out with a guy who is hideiously deformed, or who is a terrible human being, you have prefferences. Also you claiming that "I will not date people who say I will not date. . . " is hypocritical (and ironic) because you yourself are doing the very thing you say you will not tolerate in others. See my point? You can date whom ever you want however you want (as long as their fine with it) no one is telling you otherwise, what I am saying is just as you can so can others, just as you have prefferences so do others and its not right to try and demand they do not have them but justifying your prefferences as acceptable. What applies to them applies to you.
@Dskwk No body said anything about seeing "experienced" women as lower human beings. they say it shows she is impulsive and does not consider the long term ramifications of her actions, they say she is not good for relationships which multiple studies show is true (the more partners a woman has the more likely she is to divorce, cheat, and generally find long term relationships unsatisfying), they get frustrated by promiscuis women (because lets be honest experience is just a nicer way of saying promiscuis) who sleep around then demand that men not judge them on their behavior and pretend to be virginal, as if everything they did didn't happen and the men should simply accept it. They complain that these woman will act promiscuous until they get to old for it then con a man into marrying them pretending like their partner count doesn't matter and even lie about it to get the good provider guy, and then end up divorcing him and ruining his life. Its not the sex, its everything else.
@Dskwk If you wish to sleep around fine. If you do not feel like you should be ashamed of it don't. But don't turn around and demand men not judge you on it, you will be judged by your actions (what other thing should a person be judged on), don't complain when as you get older fewer and fewer men want to be with you and don't complain about how their are "no more" good men when your behavior is what caused those men to avoid you to begin with. As long as you own it no one will care, its all the bullshit that comes after the crying because a man doesn't want to be with a promiscuous woman, the blaming them for rejecting you instead of your own actions etc. If you wish to have rampant sex go for it but don't then turn around and demand we pretend you didn't.
@hellionthesage you didn't get my point. I am a virgin. Read my comment once again
I make no secret that I think Claire Underwood makes a perfect wife.
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I desire whoever I want and no one has the power to tell me that I'm not allowed to..
Fit girls and skinny girl with piercings and tattoos are my favourite kinds of girls and hell yeah I get hated on for liking them by my own friends. Telling me that she needs to eat more GTFOH with that buh-shiiet mang!
yeah, I hate it when people say that women with tattoos and piercings look cheap.
It's mostly fat woman who can't cook and have no sense of fashion that berate men for having these preferences, so I don't really care. Those are not the women I want, so what they say means absolutely nothing to me. Why are my preferences so important to them? Unless they want me, which I doubt they do, then what I prefer in a woman doesn't affect them at all. Go away. I'll be as picky as I want.
On point 👌
It's not that guys aren't allowed to like them, they're mostly just not desirable. Most guys prefer short girls. Some guys love skinny girls but most don't like it. Guys generally don't like girls who dress too feminine. But yeah girls who or don't have these traits get annoyed when guys want or don't them cause it makes them feel unwanted
this take was not about the MOST DESIRABLE FEMALE TRAITS. This take was about the desirable female traits for liking which guys get attacked and bashed.
Yeah I know, but it's the same with all traits. If you say you like short girls the tall girls will attack you. It's just jealousy
I only mentioned what I have noticed
Interesting take.
Makes sense, when I see women criticizing or judging me when I feel feminine with my personal dressing style. I never understood this well. When I see a woman that exudes feminine confidence I admire her and try to learn from her not give her this ugly look that's judgmental. I get that last one a lot from a lot of girls.
I've fallen victim to this mentality. When I was in senior school, for a while I was cast out of my friendship group for rejecting one of the girls passes at me. She was very nice but quite short and fat and I dont like fat girls (I dont find them attractive). They all kinda knew that the reason but no one would sat it. Eventually some friends stood up for me saying it was within my rights to reject someone.
Tallness is not a feminine trait, go look who NBA players date! And runway models aren't sexy! Men's magaxines don't feature tall lanky models. Height means more testosterone. Most women in the world who are beautiful and busty/ curvy are not tall. Wendy Williams is tall and she ugly
this take was not about the MODT DESIRABLE FEMALE TRAITS. This take was about the desirable female traists for liking which guys get attacked and bashed.
Most* sorry
More testosterone means higher sex drive
You're basically saying that tall women are ugly because "Wendy Williams is ugly and she's tall" quit bashing other women to make yourself feel good
I'm sorry if I don't like guys who See women as objects and their maids/moms... Those guys are usually immature anyway. Just like the tone in this whole take. Whiny and immature.
Nice straw man. When did the author ever mention seeing women as objects or as maids/mothers? For that matter, how do any of the points she mentioned lead to that? You are just bitter and jealous.
@JRICHARDS1996 liking fake boobs and butts? Oh come on... Cause the guy who likes that is so fucking impressed by the fake girl's personality... Lol yeah right. And hello? Judging a girl based on her cooking skills? Hello mom!
Without food, how would we survive then?
So appreciatung female beauty and purity makes a woman an object? I thought treating a woman like a sex object makes her an object
"liking fake boobs and butts? Oh come on... Cause the guy who likes that is so fucking impressed by the fake girl's personality"
Girl you missed other 6 options. You mentioned obly 2 of them. Lol. By the way I did say that girls hate when fake boobs and butts get attention not that they would want to have them
@YourFutureEx make your own.
Nah! I'll better find civilised woman instead.
Because fake boobs and butts create this unrealistic expectations in these idiots' minds... So when they See a girl with real ones, they are weirded out. Hence creating an epidemic of insecurities amongst females...
And excuse me, but most guys who want virgins are not virgins themselves. So they are hypocritical arses. And hello? Does that mean that a woman who has had some sexual fun in her life is less of a human being and are this not worthy of being liked and loved? I didn't know you were a girl, my take writer... What you wrote sounds like what an immature teen boy would write.
Guys can like virgins even if they are not virgins. Girls can like non virgins even if they are virgins. Who are you to tell people who to date. You think guys who respect virgins more than guys will change their opinion because insecure hoes like you attack him?
Your name suits you pretty well:)
No. If someone demands purity from someone, they have to be pure themselves. Otherwise like I said, they're just a hypodritical asshole and a Barrow minded one too. They have the right to dem and that, yes, but I do have the right to call them
... Whatever I want too
How does a guy's choice of dating a virgin affect your life?
@Dskwk it means he views women who are not virgins as lower human beings
Are you sick? How having preferences makes other women worthless. If a man prefers to date a smart girl then he looks down other women?
@Dskwk yin and yang
@Dskwk and calm your tits. Stop calling me names. You're too immature to make this discussion worth the while. Bye now get out of my opinion kid.
I repeat, how does liking fake boobs and butts lead to devaluing? We are sexual beings with a sexual interest in other people. Granted, this interest should not overrule the more important parts like personality -- that would be true objectification -- but liking them in themselves is not devaluing at all, anymore than your preferences in men are.
gah! This is what I hate about gag. People cannot seem to accept that people have opinions that are different from yours. I am sick and tired of explaining myself to you Clowns. I am entitled to MY opinion. Don't like it? Keep on scrolling. No, really. Don't get a hypertension just because of my comment. Don't fucking pester me for days. This is for all gagers.
I had to stop reading after I scrolled down to the first pic...*Vine voice* OOOOOOOH MY GAWDDDDDDD!!!
You didn't like the pic?
@Dskwk lol, yes I watt to touch it, it's😢 so BOOTYFUL😍
We all have freedom of choice and enjoy the benefits and suffer consequences of them. "Not allowed" is inoperative. I will like what i do without apology or guilt. I dont care for a lot of makeup and i prefer natural to fake anything to the extreme. Otherwise, these are desirable characteristics. Since I'm not addicted to sex or companionship, i would rather do without than settle for less just to be in the game.
Tammy Hembrow - 1st pic. She's got such a gorgeous body. 😍👌
yes she does
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I think guys can like anything they want about us. It's the judgement part that there is no room for.
And there is no room for judging them for their preferences. Judging people for judging is hypocritical
Are you in some way assuming I'm judging anyone?
Nice my take
For number 9 you could put Modesty as a trait that men are not allowed to like in a woman.
So true. How could I miss it. Immodest women say modesty is out of fashion lll
I think that your being sarcastic with me.
No. I am serious. I have noticed how women attack guys for liking modesty.
: o) ok thanks for not patronizing me
I am not insecure for attacking people for making sense. Why would you think I was being sarcastic? You made a very good point. I wish I involved modesty in mytake
Well it seemed sarcastic and it is hard to know what you meant through text. Also I don't know your user name so I don't know who I'm dealing with.
Well modesty is smth that can be included in the virginity/low count part.
Dang that first photo is an inspiration just saying
im allowed to like whatever i please. so fuck it.
great post by the way
@Dskwk great point, i agree
Great write up though i don't agree on the height and fake butt parts. I think having butt implants is kind of bizarre.
I pointed out those traits for which guys are attacked not the most desurable traits.
You sound like an extremely sweet and intelligent girl. Thank you for writing this mytake. I'm so happy i'm singing the way home. I honestly wish more girls thought like you. I'd date you in a heartbeat. I agree with all of this. Why go anon, this is a great take. THANK YOU :) <3
#Dskwk I agree :)
Honestly compared to the post I like women that wear little to no makeup, wear casual clothing instead of dresses, and don't have implants, tattoos, or piercings.