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Ok, sorry peeps but Im seriously procrastinating on a speech I have to write lol

But this is somethng I noticed, and some chubby girl on here asked if men would date a big girl. I told her that men from poorer backgrounds are more likely, and I live in the hood, have found this true. Like you'll even have men reject you for being "too thin". And when we complain about not being able to find guys who dont expect hourglass, guys say its usually the richest/sexiest men that do. Which is false, because rich men actually prefer slim figures.
And then people say things like "its because they dont have much options, thats why they have to prefer big women". Which I dont agree with. here's why:

Men with higher incomes are more likely to prefer smaller breasts. Larger breasts are seen as more "desired", possibly since most of us aren't the 1% lol, and men with lots of money would probably easily be able to find sexy thin women with big boobs, yet they dont want that. They tend to prefer slim frames, with small to average proportions.

There are even countries and communities that want big women, and fatten them up. And they tend to be in poverty, like Mauritania.

Many rich guys, celebrities, marry thin women. Yes, I get it, they also marry rich women, however, i find it hard to believe that there aren't many curvy rich beauties lol I only see mostly black celebrities marrying curvy/thick women (sorry if that sounds racist, but Kanye is with Kim whos thick af, and many black celebs marry very curvy ladies. Jay z etc.)

Dont get me wrong, theyre beautiful. But its always been strange to me that rich men can pretty much have it all, yet they choose women who aren't so curvy/hourglass, which is what is seen as most desirable.

Im not trying to be a prying gold digger, but in the poll, what type of women do you like, and what is your income?

So basically do you agree that:

THIS is curvy



THIS is chubby



And THIS is fat





I'm a curvy woman who is tired of word "curvy" being used to describe something that is unhealthy (if you don't think I'm right, check with your doctor). Curves should be seen, not hidden under layers of fat, that's the point of being curvy. Also I don't have anything against you, it's your choice to have lots of weight, not mine. And you should also be self aware enough to know whether you're curvy with a little extra or "curvy" with way to much extra. I wish I was taller than I am though, but calling myself a tall girl really doesn't make me one.

Who agrees with me?

Just curious what you all think. The other day I was at my new job, and this cute male coworker and I were talking and he offered me some of his food and I declined. He asked me if I was super healthy about food and I said not really, but that I have been on a weight loss journey for a few months now. Immediately - and I mean IMMEDIATELY, like cutting me off - he said "you don't need to lose weight!" I appreciated the gesture, as I have worked semi-hard to get to a healthy weight lately, and I told him thanks. But I have a little more to lose before I reach my goal.

Anyway, it wasn't a big deal but the exchange got me thinking. It seems like any time I mention wanting to lose weight to anyone (particularly men) their first reaction is to tell me I don't need to, or to reassure me that I'm not fat. Like they think I'm hating on myself by suggesting I should drop pounds, when in my mind I'm just stating a fact. Even when I was in a long term relationship, and I mentioned that I'd gained weight and should start being healthy, my boyfriend (now ex) lovingly reassured me that I didn't need to lose anything (at the time, I was in the "overweight" range for my height). Which, again, I appreciate the sentiment behind it.

It just seems like there's a distinct fear of acknowledging that a girl is not totally skinny. Do you think that's the case? And if so, why do you think that is?

Note: I'm not talking about obese women in this question. More referring to chubby/average/overweight but not excessively.

Why don't men like chubby women? I don't really understand why... Women generally don't care as much about weight, I think it's completely unfair.