Why do rich men like skinny women so much? And what is your income and size preference?

[Anonymous]

Ok, sorry peeps but Im seriously procrastinating on a speech I have to write lol

But this is somethng I noticed, and some chubby girl on here asked if men would date a big girl. I told her that men from poorer backgrounds are more likely, and I live in the hood, have found this true. Like you'll even have men reject you for being "too thin". And when we complain about not being able to find guys who dont expect hourglass, guys say its usually the richest/sexiest men that do. Which is false, because rich men actually prefer slim figures.
And then people say things like "its because they dont have much options, thats why they have to prefer big women". Which I dont agree with. here's why:

Men with higher incomes are more likely to prefer smaller breasts. Larger breasts are seen as more "desired", possibly since most of us aren't the 1% lol, and men with lots of money would probably easily be able to find sexy thin women with big boobs, yet they dont want that. They tend to prefer slim frames, with small to average proportions.

There are even countries and communities that want big women, and fatten them up. And they tend to be in poverty, like Mauritania.

Many rich guys, celebrities, marry thin women. Yes, I get it, they also marry rich women, however, i find it hard to believe that there aren't many curvy rich beauties lol I only see mostly black celebrities marrying curvy/thick women (sorry if that sounds racist, but Kanye is with Kim whos thick af, and many black celebs marry very curvy ladies. Jay z etc.)

Dont get me wrong, theyre beautiful. But its always been strange to me that rich men can pretty much have it all, yet they choose women who aren't so curvy/hourglass, which is what is seen as most desirable.

Im not trying to be a prying gold digger, but in the poll, what type of women do you like, and what is your income?

I make $0-$50,000 year and I prefer thin (with small curves)

I make $0-$50,000/yr and I prefer curvy (with bountiful curves)

I make $50,001-$100,000 and prefer thin

I make $50,001-$100,000 and prefer curvy

I make $100,001+/yr and prefer thin

I make $100,001+/yr and prefer curvy

I prefer big women (with lots of curves and more) (please state income range, not enough poll options lol)

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+1 y

Sorry I only added pics for the last 3 options. Just apply it to all poll options. And thats what I consider slim, curvy, big. If you dont agree with it, fine, then answer based on what you think. I just gave few examples.

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+1 y

It's interesting that so many of you men are choosing thin, regardless of income level. Um, WHERE ARE Y'ALL? Because it seems like most men prefer women want hourglass/curvy women in real life :(
Come to Chicago please lol

[xCutesyLolitax]

Well, if I have anything to say, is that I completely understand what you're asking, and I may have a theory for it. As strange as this sounds, I think that men that are financially stable, for the most part, tend to be more dominant so to speak... perhaps being (or having the potential to be) the main providers in the household causes most of these rich men in particular to feel (or desire to feel) like the more influential partner in matters not purely related to income, and there have been studies conducted on the correlation between men's view on their own level of dominance and breast size preference, and it's been shown that men who view themselves as more dominant than submissive generally have a preference for small breasts on their partners. This may be in part because larger breasts on a woman has always been seen as a "Seductive" trait, so perhaps these types of men who crave for control of their relationships, more so than the average man, may subconsciously feel as if larger breasts may indicate a woman that is more likely to cheat on them than a woman with smaller breasts, which is often seen as an "innocent, youthful" trait. So then they may feel threatened and wish to avoid larger breasted women because of this.

This is just a theory.

[Asker]

Hmmm. Another person here did mention that when they're that big, it looks a bit "vulgar"

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[xCutesyLolitax]

As a straight female, I do not find this woman neither pretty or attractive, but I can safely assure you most men would. When you think hot you'd typically picture this type of person, but I actually think that looks completely unproportional, not pretty at all. "Hot" maybe.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

Thinness is seen as the most healthy. Like someone who works out 4-5 days a week and eats very high quality foods in moderation will probably be on the thin side. Like someone who makes a lifestyle out of that will usually be a size 6 or smaller

Now the curvy girl is seen as sexy, but even in the hood. the most powerful hood niggas are going to be with a smaller curvy girl. like she will have huge breasts, thighs and ass but her waist will be smaller. they won't pick a fat girl either.

i'm not sure what the difference is and WHY rich guys dont like curvy girls. but yeah its just not good to be fat. as long as you aren't fat

[BellePepper]

Because being thin is a status symbol. Who can afford to make or buy balanced and nutritious meals that take hours to prepare and then go work off any extra calories at a gym? Who is more likely to live in an area with several stores that sell fresh meat and produce? Who is more likely to have the time and funds to not only maintain a car but drive it around to those stores?

[Asker]

Yes but if she's curvy and fit? Doesn't that also mean she has resources to maintain such a body?

[BellePepper]

Ah but there's not "curvy and fit". There's only fat and thin. KK is fat because of her butt and if she didn't wear a corset her stomach would be fat too according to these people. Like did you see all the craziness Lady Gaga got because her stomach wasn't perfectly toned?

I also think that society still has stupid ideas about how "white" women's bodies should look vs how "Asian" women's bodies should look etc... and how those various ethnicity are like.. ranked. It's obviously super super SUPER gross but it still goes though stupid people's heads.

[MrOracle]

Wealthy people run in wealthy social circles, and there is a lot of social pressure to look good. This not only means expensive houses, expensive cars, expensive clothes, and expensive jewelry, but also fit bodies.

Wealthy people can afford to eat well, they can afford gym memberships or personal trainers and (real) home gyms, and they can afford high-end fashions that are mostly available in smaller/thinner "model" sizes - and not so much in curvier/larger sizes.

So, when you put all that together, it makes sense that richer men tend to prefer the "model" look - taller, thinner, smaller curves. Nearly all of my wealthy customers's wives could be described that way.

Those guys may also take into consideration that curvier women - women like Kim K or Beyonce who, while being curvy, are still thin and fit while young - tend to gain and keep on weight as they get older, have kids, etc. Choosing a naturally thin woman is good long-term planning if you want a woman who is still thin at 50 - and rich people are very good at thinking long-term.

[Asker]

I dont think Beyonce will get fat lol Or Kim K, I mean, theyre RICH, they can easily get surgery or a personal trainer and chef to help them lose weight fast.

However, I guess I didn't take that into account.
" Choosing a naturally thin woman is good long-term planning if you want a woman who is still thin at 50 - and rich people are very good at thinking long-term."
thats a good point.

[MrOracle]

Beyonce does all that dancing and works her ass off, and yet she's still on the "thick" side. If her activity levels (which are far higher than the average person right now) were to fall to more normal levels, I suspect she'd find it difficult to keep the weight off.

Yes, of course she could afford a personal trainer and surgery and anything else, but if she, say, had a knee injury or hip injury, she might not be able to work out - and then I'd suspect she'd balloon up, Christina Aguilara style.

[Asker]

Lol I guess. Makes sense

[Asker]

What'd you vote? And is this too much?
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[MrOracle]

I'm most attracted to thin, petite girls with small-medium boobs, but it's not a strong enough preference to exclude women who don't fit that description. But that's me.

I think most wealthy men would probably not choose to marry the woman in the photo.

[Asker]

And that's crazy lol like why? She's damn hot!
You walk with a woman like that in the hood, you're gonna get a bunch of high fives and men checking her out. You'd be the envy of the block for sure.

She's what I picture to be like "every man's dream girl/fantasy"

[MrOracle]

You're simply discovering that culture affects tastes and preferences. I agree that "in the hood", this girl would be a 10. In wealthy areas, she'd be an 8.5. Certainly still very attractive, but not the ideal body type of the wealthy crowd.

Again, imagine trying to take that girl into a Versace store (or any high-end designer) for a dress - they probably wouldn't have anything that would fit her. Why? Because it's rare for people who have enough money to afford a Versace dress to have that body type, because it's not the type that wealthy men tend to choose.

Me personally? I'd have no issues dating her, but I grew up lower-middle class, and have only been actively interacting with wealthy people on a regular basis for the last 7 years or so.

[Asker]

And what is a 10 in the wealthy crowd? 8.5 seems pretty high still lol I'd "settle" to be considered an 8.5 lol

[Tdieseler]

@BuchitaBuchys I think you are a 9.1 ... dont downgrade... its not all about the physical.

[Asker]

@Tdieseler lmaoooooo thank you, but that is way, wayyyyyyy too generous. On my best day, I'd say 6-7 yes. 9.1 lol that's exaggerating

[Tdieseler]

Like i said... its not all about the physical. brains apply too and that is the sexiest aspect. so i stick with 9.1...
I left the other.9 out because you are still female and prone to fuck shit up... gotta leave room for error... :)

[Asker]

@Tdieseler still, too generous lol but thank you

[Tdieseler]

wouldn't do our games if you weren't worth it darling... brains are a lot better than boobs.. @BuchitaBuchys

[Asker]

@Tdieseler What games? Im so confused by all your responses today lol

[Tdieseler]

Lol... ur smart... n i flirt with you. period.

[redeyemindtricks]

"Again, imagine trying to take that girl into a Versace store (or any high-end designer) for a dress - they probably wouldn't have anything that would fit her"

^^ Nah. The average customer at high-end boutiques is in her forties or fifties, so, designer brands stock "realistic" sizes accordingly.
Most French couture brands carry French sizes 32-42 (= roughly speaking, US dress sizes 0 through 12) -- which is the same size range that US high-street/mall stores carry. Most Italian brands carry Italian sizes 34-46, which correspond roughly to US dress sizes 00 through 12.

If you're talking about RUNWAY items, then, yeah -- but, "runway" is a whole separate line, which doesn't coincide with RTW ("ready-to-wear" = what's actually sold at the boutiques).

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What you're saying *is* SOMEWHAT true for designers that have a second line (which is less expensive, and aimed at younger customers).
For instance, the designer Roberto Cavalli has the mainline Roberto Cavalli line -- which, like

[redeyemindtricks]

other top-designer brands, is aimed at primarily middle-aged clients -- but also the "Just Cavalli" line, which is like "junior's" instead of women's. (make no mistake, they're still expensive, well-made clothes -- but just nowhere near as stratospherically expensive as the mainline brand.)
Just Cavalli sizing is more like US sizes 00 through 10, or 00 through 8 in some items. But still, that's going all the way up to an 8 or 10, which are not "skinny" sizes by any means (especially for shorter women).

[0112358]

150kish.

Small boobs all the way.

Skinny or slight pear and short is a bonus.

[Asker]

WHY? Lol its so weird to me, like you can have any woman, y'all dont have to settle for that, why chooser small over big? why slim or over curves? Its so weird to me.

[0112358]

It's not settling -at all-

It's what's hottest to me. Like flat out omg I gotta have her hot. I could -settle- for big curves and be pretty happy but it's not what i find hottest.

[Asker]

Societal standards lean for curves, and anything else seems like settling. If I were a rich man, Id have a naked chick with big tits and slim body and big ol stupid booty by my side all the time lol

[0112358]

Well as you note the societal preference among higher income is different. It I'm not worried about what others think. On breasts there's more variance in what guys like id say.

It's interesting I've spoken a fair bit to some women here from much lower income demographics and... I don't know it was kind of odd. i guess I was just surprised with how much crap they put up with for men that the women I know would consider undateable. While meanwhile most women i know are married to guys you might consider rich who are also running home to be with their kids and help cook her their wives are bitter, constantly wanting more and treat them like crap.

It's kind of crazy.

[Asker]

Poor women like men that are at the very least not cheaters lol

I don't know. I don't think my standards are high at all, but it's still so hard to find a date. I do have a hard time liking anyone, so for me to be like "I'm interested in you" is a big deal to me. Like right now, single and not crushing on anyone. I'm not saying I'm emotionally numb, just that I have a really, really hard time falling. But when i do, forget it. I fall hard and I'll want you and only you.

Anyways, this isn't boner inducing to you?
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[0112358]

Her breasts are beyond 'not my preference' into 'active turnoff' for me. I mean I could still screw her but... yeah. Her face is pretty hot. If she hadn't ruined her natural hair color it might be worth looking past the breasts lol.

Yeah poor women have crazy low standards. Most of the wives I know like 1/3 are on antidepressants and another 1/3 seem borderline. They never have enough stuff. Barely have sex. Do as little as possible at home and still act overburdened.

[Asker]

Are you trolling me? Like she's what I imagine to be every man's dream girl or fantasy.

I don't know. The guys I dated, I made more money than (and no, I don't have money lol), but I like poor guys. I relate more to them. I know I don't have to "try hard" with them. And I know they won't look down on me. And they won't be paranoid about me "gold digging". Plus, they won't be tempted to "buy" me. I hate jewelry and I'm so used to buying my own things, that it'd feel kinda insulting or condescending even to have a man even TRY to buy my something big. Like my ex wanted to get a better job to buy me a car, but I told him no. (At the moment my brother and I shared a car and he didn't want me taking turns or taking a bus).

[0112358]

Yeah not trolling being 100% honest. TBH relatively few men I know would have that as their fantasy. I mean they might like her but definitely not ideal.

And my anti blonde bias is huuuge.

[Asker]

Man, if only you made less money, lived in Chicago and were a bit younger lol I'd totally ask you out

[0112358]

Lol. I feel like I need to be shorter that you'd find me too tall as well though I may be confusing you with someone else.

My perfect would be a brunette with small breasts, short, and her ass the size rich white girls think is a little too big.

[Asker]

How tall are you? I don't like them over 6'0 tbh. But I wouldn't flat out reject.

I do prefer 5'3-5'8ish, but it's not too big of a preference

[Asker]

You just described me lol ;(

[0112358]

Bet I think one thing that may be skewing your poll is responder age. Lots of guys on GaG from well off families who will probably be upper middle class in the future but right now are students or just starting out.

The trend is legit.

Maybe one day you can get over it and date a well off guy given you are pretty much the opposite of a gold digger and that would be pretty obvious.

[0112358]

6'3". (Along with too tall and married though I suppose divorcing would fix the too much money problem).

I ignored your emotionally numb bit. I think I've kind of learned more myself what triggers the emotional connection for me. So if I were dating in some ways I could adjust standards around those things. If you can figure out the emotional triggers for you it might help you shift to seeing lots of potential connections and then pick based on how well you two actually fit and how much he likes you back.

Anyway at least take what I'm saying as knowing there are guys walking around dreaming of women who look like you and are hard working and genuine and it's not because those guys have no options and are settling.

[Asker]

You know, I used to steal. And I was really good since I didn't get caught. I don't do it anymore, it was what I did to survive.

As I told another user here, grew up with my single mom. And she had 9 kids. She made minimum wage, which was like $12k/year. Yes, we did get help from food stamps. Yes, and Medicaid.
I remember seeing the 'poverty line", for a family of 4, $20-25k/yr was poverty. And I was like "woa, $20-25k? WHO makes that much money?"
"I grew up so poor that poverty line was the horizon"- that's from a song but I forgot which one.
My mom never went to school which is why she had to rely on minimum wage jobs, in case you're wondering. She's from a super conservative/traditional/machista family and she begged to go to school and her parents told her no, because it was pointless to send a girl to school because she'd "only be as smart as a girl could get" their words. Yes, they told this to their 5-6yr old daughter. She did teach herself to read and write though

[Asker]

I digress lol

Point is, I had to steal to survive. And I'm sure well off people would look down on that, regardless of the circumstances.
But when you're so hungry, and you have your little brothers who also are hungry, and you don't remember your last meal, you get, well, desperate.

I remember I asked a question here about a father who robbed a bank because he couldn't pay for his daughters cancer treatment. And the amount of people here who believed it was "inexcusable" shocked me.
And maybe it's because I guess I can relate to this man, but if I were a judge, I'd give him no time or the minimum punishment. When you see a loved one suffer, it's hard to distinguish morality, it's not so clear cut and dry.

[0112358]

I don't know how people do it on that income but I know they do. I find that less shocking than in the other end users here (who mainly don't actually work just live off someone who does) who think like bmws aren't even 'nice'.

Sounds like you had a great mom and great work ethic yourself. That's what I meant when I said opposite of gold digger. I know some women like you but I'm mainly surrounded by grumpy women who grew up being told to follow their dream (which went nowhere) and married some guy who got the message he should earn money. But she doesn't appreciate his work at all and just seems bitter she's not living some life of glamour.

I also lol at the comments below about ostentatious women and things. Maybe there's a connection I don't know.

But I pretty much stopped being willing to wear visible branding when I was around 13. Like even tiny logos bug me. If you're not paying me to advertise gtfo. I even wish my car didn't have logos.

[0112358]

Most users here have never faced adversity beyond the person they like not texting them back. They're so black and white with ethics... I don't think they're ethical at all. They're just naive though.

Plus they don't have family they don't know.

If robbing a bank would save my kid i'd do it in an instant.

[Asker]

I've always felt like guys who liked women like me are doing so because they have no other options... sorry I skipped over that part and just barely read it. And married? Damn lol nvm. But what the hell is a tall, really tall, guy looking at borderline midgets for? Lol

And yes lol I've ALWAYS wanted to say that, but I'd be seen as even more of a bitter bitch. It's like, I read these questions/comments about how some users became bitter and even misandrist/misogynist, and I'm like really? You hate all men/women just because you're 20 something and single? Give me a break! -___-

I would too. I would not hesitate to help family. Sorry not sorry.

Sorry to ramble and "unload" on and on though lol

[0112358]

I've mainly dated tall women but that's just who I had more success with. But yeah I find the huge height imbalance hot lol.

TBH I kind of understand both the misandrists and the misogynists. I mean partly they've had bad luck. But there are big differences between groups. My strong impression is that lower income culture is more sexist and women get treated like crap while as you move towards 'professional' it becomes more and more tilted towards women. At super rich they just do what they want and divorce and remarry a few times. There are also different tilts between men and women by region, culture etc. Some people really are growing up feeling screwed over with some reason for thinking it.

[Asker]

I'd agree. In my social circle, the burdens are usually placed on the women, and are more "heavy" on women. So when I hear/read all these things that men on here post of "female privilege" and how women have it better than men, I'm like HOW? Where? Because it's not so glamorous from what I see lol
Of course, for men it's not so great either, but there's no doubt that in poverty, especially in Hispanic communities thanks to machismo (which I constantly have to remind users here that I'm from), men are sort of given respect by default. And women pretty much have to "prove" that we're worthy. It's shifting, finally, but remember that just one generation ago, my own mother was told by my grandparents that educated women are pointless and belong in the house.
It's partially why I'm so against forcing traditional gender roles. Ugh. Can't stand it.

[0112358]

Yeah. That was what was kind of shocking to me when I used to chat with a woman here who was less well off and I believe Latina. Chasing after guys who half ignore her and can't afford to move out of their parents house. Meanwhile if she was married to someone I know the other wives would hate her for making them all look bad by comparison. Like I don't want to rant here but I'd tell her how my wife behaves which is in the bad end but not that extreme and she was just shocked that she could do so little, get so much and then be bitter about her life to top it off.

[redeyemindtricks]

"But I pretty much stopped being willing to wear visible branding when I was around 13. Like even tiny logos bug me"
^^ ahah I've written this myself on here, more than once.

"I even wish my car didn't have logos."
^^ Removing the back logo is as easy as popping it off with a putty knife.
Front grille logos aren't very hard to remove, either, although the grille will look stupid af if you don't have something to replace the logo.

[0112358]

by the way I've seen the research that made this point. A hypothesis floated by the researchers was that it came down to health under different resource scenarios. If resources seem limited men subconsciously prefer women who look like they can last a while without food. If resources are plentiful a skinny body has health benefits. That was a suggested reason anyway. Because this trend isn't just within countries but between as well.

[redeyemindtricks]

I saw that research too... in the OP's first hyperlink mahah

[TripleAce]

The most prized women out there for a guy that is load comes with specific measurements

These are usually victoria secret models or sports illustrated type of models

Girls with thick hips and fat tits hanging out are a dime a dozen. Wealth puts value on rare commodities. And those unique measurements happen to be rare. Another example is ugly ass paintings. But yet worth a buttload of money... and super wealthy love stuff like that more for the rare aspects to it

Here is an example of what a wealth man would want (most likely) because her measurements are unique. It created for very long legs, lean but amazing bone structure. So she still fills in clothes very well just very small sizes, and that is hot. Take a just as lean girl with meh bone structure and clothes look like garbage on her

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[TripleAce]

here's more. Rich guys love these 'rare' body types

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[Asker]

But big tit thin women are more rare, so why aren't they the prize? It makes no sense to me lol

Like I think Lindsey Pelas is perfect, but apparently for rich men she's not a 10. Blasphemy!

[TripleAce]

Then you got these types. Really sexy sexualized babes. Really smoking hot. But the rare models would probably still grab their attention. Because these are hot but still less rare. You can find more thick chicks like these than those 'special' model ones above

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[TripleAce]

Lindsey. No. She doesn't have that feline classy rich look lol

Just fat tits squeezing out of her bra

[Asker]

Why are you so mean to big tit women lol

[rcm1ah]

@TripleAce Your beauty standards of what rich men want is completely different from region to region and what they are surrounded with. Go to Arab Gulf countries or just Arab countries in general and even though they wouldn't mind fucking the girls in the pictures you posted, that's all they would do-those are the ones they would hire as escorts. They would never marry someone like that. In fact, their preferences would lean more towards women with fuller bodies, not fat but definitely fuller bodies. Same goes for most men from South America. Why? because that is their standard of beauty; fuller more feminine bodies.

[TripleAce]

@rcm1ah I know arabs dudes... considering this is Saudis prince's lady.. I think not

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Arabs guys might be bound to their religion. So many sex up white girls then go off and marry some muslim virgin

[TripleAce]

You know Buchita lol it's a little hard to explain

Like I know the convential idea is nice big full round titties are nice and sexy, and they are, but there is something about a lean body with small to average boobs that makes a women feel and look more elongated and slender (which is think is probably the most ideal)

The fat titties are too sexalized, they look funny sometimes because they are big and she's small, everything she wears just makes them burst out... Most of the times her upper arms and shoulders are thicker to support those puppies... and even if she's thin, it just looks a little cartoonish lol... Unfourtunately

I think the issue is, a slender women is amazing to so many guys, and large boobs on a slender girl can look funny... so she balances out better with small to average. But then you have thicker women (curvy) that look great in fat tits but then they are too curvy and less elongated and slender...--> so The sweet spot then becomes elongated and slender

[noneofy0urbusiness]

@TripleAce Apparently you don't know them enough, because if you did you would know he divorced her and they are no longer married and they didn't even have kids. And if you really want to play the royalty card look at the wives of Mohammed bin Rashid Al Maktoum they are all thick... all of them, and he's been married with them for SEVERAL YEARS and has had several kids with them and he protects them like treasure, you never see him exposing them to the media like sluts.

[rcm1ah]

What are you talking about "You know Arabs", because if you knew Arabs you would know damn well that most of the women they marry are full women. The females in the pics you posted are the ones they use for sex and later on they expose on TagTheSponsor like the sluts they see them as. Fullness is seen as femininity.

[TripleAce]

@noneofy0urbusiness well I never said we don't like curvy women. We do and many do if not more. What we did say is that very wealthy look at women as a commidity to a certain extent. Rare women in whatever way pleases them will have a higher value

Maybe in islamic countries rare is considered a virgin not a slutty type of girl showing off her stuff --> whatever it is, the idea is the same. Rarity increases value. It's just done in a different way. In this case, it's through virginity and discreet behaviour...

[TripleAce]

@rcm1ah The idea was based on what is rare and prized... to everyone that is different

to muslims that would be untouched vaginas, being discreet and beautiful
Same idea just different things

[noneofy0urbusiness]

Thicker women are the ones that get wifed up.

[Cosytoasty]

50-100 and i like slim.

Generally, rich guys come from rich families, which means healthy meals and constant activities for the kids. They socialise with other rich kids who are also (likely) slim. What you see growing up is generally what you find attractive in adulthood.

Also, slim girls look better in clothes, ESPECIALLY dresses. Appearance matters a LOT in better paid jobs. Sad as it may be, bringing a thick girl in a dress to a corporate dinner or drinks reception won't reflect well on the guy because she will look so out of place.

[Asker]

So you're saying she doesn't look nice in this dress? Lol I think hourglass curvy women look so much better in clothes because they fill it up nicely
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[Cosytoasty]

Goodness no, you'd be the buttend of the office jokes if you showed up with her. Or imagine taking her home to your parents O__O

This is about as far as you want to go with curvy. She is almost perfect.
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[Asker]

Are you trolling?

[Cosytoasty]

No, what makes you say that?

[Asker]

Because WHY would you be the buttend of jokes with her on your side? She's hot af! You show up with a girl like that in the hood, and you'll get lots of high fives and men checking her out.

That's what I picture to be "every man's dream girl/fantasy".

[Asker]

You'd be the envy of the block with a woman like that by your side

[Cosytoasty]

Because there is a very real thing as "too much". When you overdo something it becomes ostentatious and vulgar.

[Asker]

Not to us peasants lol we tend to like big, massive/excessive even.

[Cosytoasty]

Funny you say that, there is a running joke here that those on welfare are the only ones who have 80inch TVs that are too big for their living rooms 😂.

Seriously though, it's a product of upbringing, if you grew up in the hood looking at large women, then the chances are you're going to be attracted to them. I grew up looking at sporty girls, so toned athletic builds like Anllela there are my preference, not strictly "thin".

[Asker]

Haha that's true. I notice that too, poor people I'm sorry to say, but many care so much about the label, no matter how expensive it is. I'm like really? You bought that all black bag that merely says "coach" on it for $200? That's ridiculous in my opinion. You're paying for the label, not the product.

I guess us poor folks just like to be as excessive and flashy as possible, and it translates to our beauty standards as well. Go figure

[qa12017]

"slim girls look better in clothes, ESPECIALLY dresses"

https://i63.tinypic.com/jjws9g.png

... I seriously doubt it.

[Cosytoasty]

@qa12017 You've really proven my point lol. There is a reason models are thin, it's because it sells more clothes.

[qa12017]

The girl on the left (thin) looks malnourished. She looks like she belongs in the "Send me money so I can eat" commercials. There is absolutely nothing feminine about a stick. Nothing. Absolutely nothing.

[Cosytoasty]

@qa12017 Malnourished? In America perhaps. The avg woman in Asia/Europe is 120-130lbs.

[qa12017]

@Cosytoasty That's sad.

[Asker]

@qa12017 how is that sad? I weigh that much and I eat more than nearly everyone I know.

[qa12017]

It's sad because that's not the body of a woman.

[Gahah1w]

@qa12017 aw but you dont look masculine either maybe if you had a sharper and bigger jaw, or more penetrating eyes or a better nose you'd look more manly. But in my opinion you shouldn't ask for "feminine" women because YOU are feminine😂😂

[AleDeEurope]

Usually, poorer people are fatter, because of bad diet, so they're used to fat women more than rich people who are around people that take care of themselves.
Also, rich guys have money, and that's desireable, so they get more attention from hot women.

[Asker]

Yes, I get that. But there's lots of hot slim, curvy women Im sure who throw themselves at rich men. Yet they prefer slim women. Its like, why? When they can have like an hourglass shape woman, they go for the ruler or very slim hourglass with very small curves.

[qa12017]

Interesting question, but I don't agree. My family is pretty wealthy, and all of my male relatives have married a curvy-feminine woman. If and when I do get married, I plan on doing the same. A woman with a nice curvy body with all the right features is more appealing to me, than someone thin. The image of her fitting in her clothes the right way and filling in all the right places is what I want.
And then when it comes to pregnancy, the idea of my wife being skinny and perhaps carrying twins inside her frightens me, and her giving birth scares me even more; makes me think it'll be too much for them to handle.

Also, I want something to grab on. I don't mean circus boobs or a huge fake ass like Kim's, but a nice sized natural body... to me that's feminine.

[Asker]

Is this too much?
images.enstarz.com/.../lindsey-pelas.jpg

[qa12017]

www.femalefirst.co.uk/.../...eed.ce.rlO6WFmIVw.jpg

[Asker]

That's your preference?

[qa12017]

You see how she's not skinny, and has a nice curvy shape? That's my preference.

[Asker]

I see. And in your social circle it's similar to that?

[rcm1ah]

@qa12017 upvoted

[qa12017]

Yes, it is like that with those around me too.

[Celav]

Thats good! You'll have money to pay for all her diseases!

[Bleh-___-]

You got the order all wrong. Its "men with skinny women end up rich". A salad costs a lot less than steak.

[Asker]

Lol.

[ScottSummers]

well iam not rich iam just a student lol, but i come from a rich family
i prefer slim girls like that girl on the pic
cf.girlsaskguys.com/.../...7-839f-c4d6d5f5db61.jpg
my girlfriend has similar body and i REALLY love it

[Asker]

Thats so weird to me lol I mean, dont get me wrong, she's beautiful, but if I were rich, Id want a curvy hourglass woman naked by my side at all times lol

[ScottSummers]

Ah well i like slim girls with a bit curves but not too much cos then body becomes out of proportions and i dont like that., hope that make sense lol..
something like this i guess
s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/.../...73c78803a9.jpg

[Asker]

That's slim lol how about like this
This isn't boner inducing?
i60.photobucket.com/.../bblatex_zpsb65ee2ac.jpg

[hollypl18]

"Age 101"... oh my

[ScottSummers]

woah well fair skinned redheads in latex are my weakness but speaking only about her body just not my type. Her boobs are way too big and her legs are too thick in my opinion, she is a beautiful woman thoe. Now look at this girl i think she really has nice body.
68.media.tumblr.com/.../...5oKuH31ud95y7o1_500.jpg

[ScottSummers]

@hollypl18 iam 22.. XD

[Asker]

Eh. It's ok.

[Asker]

How about this? Too much?
images.enstarz.com/.../lindsey-pelas.jpg

[ScottSummers]

nah dont like her body at all, she does have a cute face thoe.

[Asker]

I'm just so surprised lol to me, she looks like what I imagine every man's dream/fantasy

[A_Mental_Mate]

I make 50k-100k (I think that's like mid ranged income). I prefer slim. I dont think my income has any correlation to my preferred female body type... I just simply don't like big ass, tits, or curves.

[Asker]

How about this?
images.enstarz.com/.../lindsey-pelas.jpg

[A_Mental_Mate]

Uh... No... Many reasons. If we are basing purely off looks, I really am not attracted to her.

Her breasts are very big (not for me), she shows cleavage (not for me), and kinda looks like she had plastic surgery (not for me).

[Asker]

Damn, but she's sexy.

[A_Mental_Mate]

of course, but not for me.

[Asker]

So you prefer my version of "thin"?

[A_Mental_Mate]

Yeah

[saltwater84]

Some of the mostest richest guys of the world :

Richard branson 's wife is curvy AF
charles Saatchi's wife was Nigella lawson who is curly AF
Francois Henri Pinault (richest French dude ever) married to Salam Hayek that is curvy AF.

great mytake

[Asker]

Of course, it doesn't mean ALL rich men prefer slim women. However, there is a definite bias. I have research backing my claim, you merely have anecdotal evidence. Research trumps anecdotes.

But I'll play along, Brad Pitt, one of the hottest guys according to just about everyone, could arguably take his pick from nearly any woman. Yet he was crazy for Jennifer Aniston and Angelina Jolie. They're both beautiful, don't get me wrong, but they're more svelte and slim, rather than curvy and voluptuous. Ashton Kutcher, another sexy dude, Mila Kunis is his match and she's not curvy either. She's slim. There are many examples of rich men with like svelte and thin women.

[saltwater84]

Dont get me wrong , i perfectly agree with you , I made some researches about this about 12 years ago.
in the 'lights centuries ' (16th 17th 18th 19th century ) rich dudes, high society were praising woman not only curvy , but actualy even quite fat. It was a clear sign of proeminent fortune and success, both for male and female. Skinny woman were the absolute no no like they were ambarrasing in high society cause they did not convey the 'rich' indicator. Skinny woman were the poor, the girls from the countryside , the workers.

Marie antoinette , portrayed by kirsten dust , show a lot of scene were you can see her eating loads of cupcakes , lots of everything, because marie antoinette was actually really chubby :) still they choose a skinny girl to play the role.

to be honest most guys prefer chubby, curvy woman , even the rich dude , when they cheat on their wife they goes for some curvy woman in general , woman with good legs , big butt or big boobs.

[saltwater84]

a woman well fed meant =rich
this has changed over the 20th century. the reason? I dont know , but skinny has became a sign of success and CONTROL over one's body.
If you can control your body, you can control anything. So this is a sign , for a dude, that he is in control of his fortune and success. subconstiously , a curvy woman , would show to the world , now, that he is not in control.
Most guys going for very skinny woman , or model like often tells something , that they are in control
if you take dicaprio for exemple , he is trying hard to show to the world he is in control , they all look like the same , his ex i mean , this is a sign of control.

[Tdieseler]

Eye candy... rich people tend to mingle with other rich people and they gotta make it like its all good... including the woman they are with. and Skinny is the "acceptable" thing so skinny it is.
It just bottles down to eye candy.

[Asker]

But the curvy girl looks more like "eye candy" than the thin women. Based on societal standards at least. But apparently not to rich men lol

[Tdieseler]

Its a matter of perspective. i dont like any of those women in those pics lol... and the last "curvy" girl... when men want to get serious... she's the kind they would go for. they are usually optimistic and outgoing.
bt if they wanna show off... they'd go for E... eye candy only. and rich people show off.

[Asker]

But isn't F more of eye candy?

[Tdieseler]

She is too... with the big tits and all...
but im an ass man... none of those women have the hips to indicate the presence of ass except for "G"... but im sure that ass ain't round... just big lol...

[Asker]

Too what? Too sexy lol

[Tdieseler]

No i meant that she too is eye candy... with the big (probably fake) titties and all...

[Asker]

How about this?
images.enstarz.com/.../lindsey-pelas.jpg

[Tdieseler]

I stay away from that... hell to the no.

[Asker]

Why? Lol she's BAE

[Tdieseler]

Not to me she ain't... i can literally feel myself crying just by looking at the one pic.
No. can't do it. forget the body... its the eyes and the overall look.

[Asker]

Crying of what? Happiness lol?

[Tdieseler]

No... i smell expectations... with a hint of digger. and yes i know it is judging a book by the cover but i have proof...

[MazeOfLove]

From a relationship coaching lens, when men start making a lot of money they start seeing things (cars, pretty women, big houses) as attainable--things that they wouldn't have seen as attainable before. Hence, rich men's attraction to thin, model-type women.

[Asker]

But big boobs and thin seem more "unattainable"

[MazeOfLove]

I didn't mention big boobs but to men that may not have had access to thin, model-esque girls, yes, they want what they couldn't have before. This also explains why they spend money on excess things that, again, wouldn't have been possible prior. It's like 'revenge of the nerds syndrome'.

[Anonymous]

All I can say is my boyfriend is like me, an impoverished post grad student. Poor as church mice. LOL. I am skinny, with a flat chest, and I know I am lucky as he loves the way I am.

[ScottSummers]

skinny girlz are the best

[Opinion Owner]

@ScottSummers Thanks.

[Asker]

Of course it won't apply to ALL, but rich men are more likely to prefer your body shape thanpoor men.

[Opinion Owner]

Possible, I guess. I wonder why? I do not measure richness by money.

[Asker]

Fine, financially well off men.

[Asker]

images.enstarz.com/.../lindsey-pelas.jpg

[CrystalChild]

What... What for real. Also why are people hating on skinny women so much?

[Asker]

Whos hating on skinny women? I said theyre still pretty, but societal standards dictate that curvy is best, hourglass. Yet rich men prefer slim with very small curves. Which is odd.

[CrystalChild]

I don't see rich men excessively with skinny women but I guess I don't care enough to follow the trend?

[Asker]

Celebrities, and if you work with people, you notice it.
I've been in customer service for a long time, and I notice it too.

Im not saying excessively, just that its more their preference.

[CrystalChild]

Well I guess that's just their preference. No harm no foul

[Asker]

Geez. I didn't mean to offend anyone...

[Asker]

images.enstarz.com/.../lindsey-pelas.jpg

[CrystalChild]

I'm not offended I'm just sort of curious why it matters. And why skinny women can't just be seen as attractive to some people. Also why did you post this sleazy pic? XD

[Asker]

Lol because she's hot

[CrystalChild]

Her breasts are too enormous. I don't like looking at it

[Asker]

Lmao, your replies are having me laugh too much.

[CrystalChild]

you're welcome. but seriously please no more gianormous boobs it makes me feel gross XD

[Roaek098]

I'm a successful older man with friends all over the world. In our orbit, men choose thin, petite and or skinny women. Not anorexic. There's a big distinction. The perfect proportions are somewhere in the neighborhood of 5'7" 120. Thin women are more sophisticated in appearance, look better in basically everything they put on, and are far more manageable in the bedroom. Powerful men want to feel dominant and thinner women make that a physical reality. A man who's wife that starts letting herself go is going to lose her husband. Trust me. Her job is to look good always. His job is top provide always.

[RosesAreRed2020]

I’m a girl but I have worked with really rich men in my industry, since it’s male dominated.
Truth be told, I think they do generally prefer thinner women. I used to weigh 160 and I’m 5’8” and men who are rich actually used to just either ignore me, use me for sex because they thought i was easy while pursuing the skinnier women, or just plain call me fat. Those men have no shame. Granted not every guy is like that who is rich. Usually it’s the younger, insecure ones.
You may be skinny now but what about after you have kids? You’ll easily gain like 40 pounds. He has to love you unconditionally, from the inside out.

[SinghSong]

Thus far, every woman bar two allegedly makes more than $100,000 dollars a year- I'm calling bull. Unless they're voting that that's the preferred income that they'd want their guys to have (and what their own body type is). Which would be pretty typical.

[nohass321]

My dad comes from money and he married my mom who is curvy.

[Asker]

Like which girl?

And I don't doubt that, however, men with wealth seem to prefer slim and svelte over voluptuous and curvy. That doesn't mean it's an exclusive preference, just more likely.
Just like there are poor guys who genuinely like slim with minimal curves (I've personally never met any) but it's not the general preference.

[nohass321]

3.bp.blogspot.com/.../photo+2.JPG

My mom has the exact same body shape as the woman in this pic ^^^ except my mom is lighter and has a prettier face.

[savalisk]

I heard somewhere that proper curvy women kinda represent a motherly figure to low income earners. I can't remember where but I heard it in a live stream and in multiple articles. At this point though I am kinda talking out of my ass.

I earn between 50k to 100k, love me a christina hendricks like curvy body. Can't have everything though. Everyone has their own tastes.

[lord_chilled]

Im broke and i want a girl with a fat ass.
Lol, actually im a student.
I had a friend tell me that the richer men like skinnier women while average and poor men like fuller women.
I didn't think much of it, might be true tough. Something psychological..
I like girls who are thick in the bottom,(ass , tighs) but slender up top

[Asker]

Crap. See that's the problem broke dudes like thick women lol

[lord_chilled]

Well , since we are kinda stereotyping ,, rich latin and black guys seem to be into thick women. Try that

[Asker]

That's true. I guess my only hope are Asian or white guys

[lord_chilled]

Oh, im sorry, i assumed you were curvy. So im guessing you are petite?

[Asker]

Lmao, why would you think I'm curvy? I said the problem is that poor men are into thick women. I'm not thick, slim and petite.
That pic is of Kim K, not me by the way

[lord_chilled]

Yeah i know. Not a fan of the kim k butt by the way..
Iy was a bit confusing, so you want to attract poor men?

[Asker]

Yes lol because I'm broke myself. Why is it so hard for men to believe that I prefer poor guys? I won't date no fufu ass rich guys. Not my style.
But I eat and eat and eat but can't gain weight or curves :/
And it seems like the men around me all like thick, even fat women.

[lord_chilled]

Its not hard to beleieve. Just some girls are like that, and guys can't always tell..
You have a a good metabolism. Thats attractive.
Im sure there are normal or poor guys who like petite women. Everybody is different. Just have to find that guy ;-)

[Asker]

I want to be thick though :/

[lord_chilled]

Hehe, you can get thicker with some good meat, eggs, milk a few protein shakes and the gym. Dont worry, you won't get muscular ;-)

[Asker]

I tried that before, and nothing.

However, I'm vegan now. I tried everything people told me, work out and eat protein. I tried doing squats, which ended up flattening my ass. Hell, I even tried drinking those ensure/meal replacement shakes. Nothing :/
Did not get thick lol

[Asker]

My mom is also thin. She had 9 kids and she's pretty slim.
I think I take her genes. My dad's side is all chubby or thick/curvy.

And here I am, skinny and plain. Some people have all the luck :/

[lord_chilled]

Well, i can tell you one thing, you will live a long and healthy life. Other women will be jealous.
Embrace your beauty, be happy that different men like different things :-D

[Asker]

I'm lazy lol I'm not healthy at all

And sure, but not broke guys. Only in the hood will you get rejected for being too slim :/

[lord_chilled]

Well your metabolism is gonna help.
Really? Well i guess it must be more ingrained for poorer men to like thick girls..

[Asker]

There's few guys who don't mind slim women. But I see mostly big ladies in relationships

[lord_chilled]

I see..

[Danny_dan92]

The phatter the waller the thinner the waistline? I guess, that's the best theory I can come up with

[Asker]

Seems like it. What's your preference? You don't have to state your income range if you're not comfortable doing so, but it'd help lol

Is this too much?
images.enstarz.com/.../lindsey-pelas.jpg

[Danny_dan92]

I'd wife up lindsey pelas ina ❤️ beat

I dated a girl that was thin and honestly I like a girl with more meat on their bones. But I still like it when they are fit

[Asker]

Haha see, that's the type of responses I expected. But apparently lots of the people with money don't see her body as "all that" like we do.

I'm poor af though, and that's what I was taught to be "ideal" for men's standards. Big boobs, thin, blond, green/blue eyes, light skin, big lips and eyes.

[Danny_dan92]

Hey, I'm just honest. Not all guys... just some. She is just held to a higher standard, or her pussy is put ona pedestal if you will lol

[Asker]

I don't think they're being dishonest, just different preference.

And I agree, her lips look weird now. And I don't know if it's the makeup, but recently her face structure looks really weird.. and fake. So I'm starting to not find her so attractive anymore. Because once I don't find a person's face attractive, it's over lol I don't care how "nice" their body is

[Stone_Fizzlebeef]

Medium income, like thin women. Between 12-25% body fat is the sweet spot. And I think rich folks prefer novelty. I think a majority of women are fat or obese (or at least the numbers are skewing that way, hence the obesity epidemic and fat acceptance), so they want the rarity. In times of famine where most women are really thin, the wealthy would likely prefer a bigger woman.