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So I've never attempted an older girl before. But I kinda got interested in this chick before I knew how old she was. She's 21 and I'm 20 and I feel like since she can drink and I can't she's not gonna be able to take me seriously.

Is that a stupid way to feel? I'm still gonna try, don't get me wrong. But what do you think. Any advice on how to get an older girl? If your an older girl what would stop you from (or get you to) dating/fucking a younger guy.

I don't know if i want to date her or not, probably start of casual and see if we like eachother.

I dated before but never have i gotten too close to a girl while dating, something plenty of girls seem to be doing around campus, they find themselves an attractive guy and glue themselves to him...

Of course some girls are 100% content with having girlfriends and not trying to catch a hot guy to orbit around him, which in my opinion is the right thing to do, its cool to be friendly and talk to everyone but the moment hanging out with that person becomes part of your daily routine and you are taken, iam sorry but its very inapproriate and flat out desrespectful to your partner.

Guys do it too by the way just a little less... iam not really into boy/girl friendships, lots of things can happen and do sometimes happen that are uncomofotable for both parties and their partners, and befriending the hottest guy/girl you can find while dating someone else is a big no no, at least to me, cause it sends the wrong message.

I never thought of myself as good looking, but a neat beard, new hair style, cool and laid back personality and good style and being 6'2 apparently does make me really good looking (According to every girl i know), so based on everyone i know, it seems iam very good looking, but that doesn't serve me well in the dating world, sure i've dated before, i get looks a lot, i have very attractive women eyeing me and smiling at me sometimes, and the compliments, they're there. especially when iam at college and among college aged girls.

but the girls i always attract are either : 1- unattractive, 2- really hot but taken, i haven't attracted a hot single lady in a long long time... not to mention women seem much less likely to talk to me than to my average looking friends ( again what people say not my own opinion) .

Hot girls though... they dont seem to have a problem getting a man, and no guys aren't intimidated enough to stay away from them it only exists in fantasies and on this site, there is no such thing as "she's single because men are afraid to talk to her" it doesn't exist there is always a guy who will, heck i will if i know she's single and i've tried before (but turned out to be taken ) .

So iam asking a simple question : who has dating easier attractive men or attractive women? (easier as in more likely to be approached and talked to and not just stared at from afar )