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YES, this is a serious question! 28F, I’ve been on and off dating apps for years. For the times I’ve been on them, a lot of the guys seem off, some seem ok then show their true colors, I don't know sometimes it’s just something I can’t put a finger on. Some are odd right off the bat & I unmatch but this guy seemed ok at first. Then he asks me to add him on the gaming network & when I look him up, it’s a pic of a cartoon cat with muscles & hearts. After a few days, he wanted to know why I didn’t add him & I told him the truth. I said that there’s too many oddballs on the apps & that’s why I use them very casually, I’m not in the mood to have to deal with that (didn’t sound that rude). And he pretty much said it’s from a game, it’s just a pic & not that serious, I said it’s kind of odd & not in the mood to have to figure it out, rather just not deal with it. And he stopped msging for a while on snap, then after he replies to a story every once in a while or send a video of himself & I just left him on read.

28F, maybe you other women my age don’t have this issue. I know I’m not a 10 but I’m told I’m cute/pretty & never get attention from quality guys in person. I get it every once in a while from the guys you don’t want, I’ve been told in the past that I’d get looked at but the guys never did anything about it (and sometimes those were actually the guys I’d consider). I’m on and off dating apps, on there I get the matches & msgs but it just doesn’t work out: I experience the typical ghosting, fizzling out, taking too long to reply etc. There were some times when one of us would admit we weren’t feeling it & while I was guilty of this sometimes, I just figured if I was really attractive I wouldn’t be having this issue. I’ll add that I’m reserved & not very friendly, also on the lower end when it comes to sex drive (which isn’t that uncommon for a woman). Don’t think those play a big part but figured I’d bring it up, I just think it’s kind of unfair & at the point where I’m feeling even less of an urge to try whenever I decide to download the apps again. I can’t help but think it’s not my fault 🤷🏻‍♀️