Why would a guy ask me this?

[Anonymous]

I just started talking to this guy for only 8 days we know we like each other we want to get to know each other for a little more before we start dating. When I was FaceTiming him he was asking me questions he said “ I wanna ask you this question but it’s too early “ I asked him “ what do you mean” he later on said “ well do you like it when it’s shaved down there?” I was pretty surprised because I don’t know how this question could come to his mind already? Does he just want to have s*X considering it’s too early or was he just morbidly curious? Is this a red flag

[eternal_heck]

It is possible that he just wants sex, yes. But really it’s hard to say for sure. Just be up front with him and ask. If that’s not something you want, tell him. Or if you’re not ready, tell him. Don’t just make him guess because it may end up frustrating you both. He could get mixed signals. Etc.

[Summeroflove]

He shouldn’t have asked the question. He’s probably trying to visualize you in his mind. Even if he was simply curious it’s a inappropriate question do ask, and he knows that based off saying “it might be too early for this”, so I don’t understand why he asked anyways.

If you feel uncomfortable then don’t answer the question and tell him to leave you alone. I can’t read his mind but I can assume there is a good chance he wants to use you for sex.

[Anonymous]

Yes he just wants to fuck. He’s a man. I’m sure waiting that long to broach the subject was difficult for him. He wanted you to respond in kind and he’s likely frustrated that you didn’t just like you’re frustrated that’s all he wants.

[BigDog1989]

Have you gone on at least three dates?

[pickles77]

He’s probably trying to disolve that barrier yes