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I have been on and off the dating apps. Over a week ago, I spoke to someone briefly that I realized I spoke to about a year ago on the same app. We didn’t talk long at all, we added each other through PlayStation. On the dating app this time around, he had on his profile that he was open to non-monogamy which made me questionable, he said that his last two gfs cheated on him and he put that there in case another woman he saw was open to that, to prevent from being dumped (sounds like bs).

But on the app this time around, he took forever to reply to my messages. At one point, he took two days to reply so I figured he ghosted and removed him from PlayStation. And when he messages me, he adds me back and asked why I deleted him. I told him it’s because I thought he ghosted and he acknowledged what I said, then went back and forth for a little then stopped replying. I deactivated the dating app and removed him from PlayStation, he adds me back today but I denied his request.

I don’t understand why you’re wanting to keep the communication going if you’re not interested, thoughts?

We were playing a video game last Friday and talked through voice chat. We played about 4 hours, he seemed talkative but mentioned he was nerdy and did not have success with the dating apps. He seemed nice and genuine, last Friday he asked for my phone number. I ended up giving my Instagram instead, he added me and I followed him back. But it’s almost a wk since we last spoke and he hasn’t reached out since. He seemed interested, was he just playing me?

My boyfriend and I are in LDR. We were happy and sweet before. But lately we argued a lot. Sometimes it made me want to break up with him.

For example, He didn’t talk to me in between the day and just messaged me only two times a day for a week because he was playing video games with his friend.

He said terrible things to me like “ I’m gonna dump you if you won’t let me fuck enough.” and like “you’re boring”

Recently he promised me to send me a birthday gift since April. Now September, he hasn’t even shipped the present yet. He said he’s been busy. But he went to the amusement park, the zoo and went on mini trip on weekend. And he was on vacation for 2 weeks. And he just went to the amusement park again!

It made me feel like I’m not that important. If I am, he would have sent the present sooner and wouldn’t have made me wait for 5 months.

I haven’t talked to him for a while now. He’s asking me for forgiveness. But I really hesitate. I don’t know if he’s gonna treat the same or not. But I need a caring boyfriend.

What should I do?