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So basically, I've been recently hearing everywhere that studies have shown that a man who smiles is likely to be less attractive to females. Smiling is perceived to be a feminine trait which makes a man appear to be less dominant. This is a huge problem for me because I'm usually an energetic positive guy who can't help but smile when talking to a beautiful lady. But then, I have heard some females say that nothing is more sexy to them than a nice smile. I do not want to become someone I'm not and try and act like a badass mysterious macho man with no feelings. But anyways what do you women think? Is smiling a turn-on or turn-off. Honest opinions please.

I can tell from a guy's POV that we guys think you girls care more about height than (mostly) anything else when it comes to romance. We think (if this is correct or not, is something I want to find out here) that a guy that is either smaller than you or below 5'5'' doesn't have any chance with you - no matter how good looking, talented, well behaved, or having other super personality traits. Heck we even think if we are small then we will even lose even if we were filthy rich. Simply, we are thinking we don't have a chance with you if we lack in the height department.

When asking/creating a pool about it, girls would usually vote against height and for personality. And we - or at least I do - find it very confusing. Did I miss something when you girls go for taller guys but when asked you say it is not important? So, how important is height for girls, now really?

I have a condition that causes me to lose hair diffusely at 19, meaning no bald spots but very thin all over the scalp, there is no treatment and I opted to shave my head bald, I'm taking Howie Mandell full on skin uptop. No shadow no hair whatsoever, I pull it off alright (surprising as I'm a skinny paler guy) my head shape and face work well it I will say, and I know it was just hair doesn't make or break me personally. But I worry that attractive young women in late teens or early 20's will be much less attracted to me. I didn't have much experience to begin with 19, and never had a serious girlfriend (grew up in a small town with very limited options) and I can be honest with myself and say I need to find my partner physically attractive. I have high standards but I'm not some player in the end I want to be happy with only one girl so I'm not ashamed of the standards, and I understand and respect a girl having the same ideals, so I want to know if having a shaved bald head is seen as attractive or an unattractive trait in young women's eyes, and give personal opinions on what you would do if a young bald guy showed interest in you at a party or on the street etc. Or your opinions on if you think it'll put me at a bad disadvantage compared to 'hairy' guys. Please be honest, I appreciate honesty even if it's not what I want to hear.

Girls say they want a guy who makes at least $X salary. I have no problem with this and wish to join; I want a woman, if I were to take one, who made at least my salary or better with the reasoning being that this means she's ambitious, frugal, intelligent, and practical.

Is that incorrect thinking, that a person who is of some wealth would hold those traits? Mind you, she had to make that much annually; a wealthy female who inherited the estate is of no use to me.

I love my girlfriend and think she is the one who I want to spend the rest of my life with. Even I told her how good it could be me and her as husband and wife with children and a home full of love I saw tears in her eyes she loves the idea too.But I have a friend who says its a femmine behavior and sign that I'm not a complete man cause I rather to be with just one girl for the rest of my life than go and date more girls. He says at least I shouldn't be loyal to my wife then and must have a mistress! I don't like the idea of having mistress.
I really love my girlfriend and want to have future with her but being a real man and have masclunie traits is very important to me.