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I told her how I felt and now I feel like I’ve made a terrible mistake. How can I fix it?

I told a girl I have known for nearly a decade that I have developed feelings for her, and she said she’d get back to me despite the fact she was with someone else. We had been keeping in close contact ever since we both...
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Guy who seemed interested hasn’t replied in a couple of weeks and I’m unsure about what to do next?

First of all, this is a guy with social anxiety. He approached me a couple of months ago and was very clear about how he’s bad at texting from the get-go. He always got into detail about the reasons as to why he replies...
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Why do so men try to get in a relationship without taking time to get to know you well?

I’ve been single for a very long time. I’m quite introverted and extremely shy when it comes to dating but I enjoy having conversations with people about mutual hobbies and interests and I like taking my time in getting...
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Dont you find this contradictory from this lady who wants to score dates?

There is a lady who is 35 years and who had been struggling to meet guys and date. She had gone through 2 failed relationships. The first one was with her husband of many years and the father ro her teenage son and...
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The way he behaves is confusing?

I really like a guy and yesterday I was told by a friend who's close to him that he likes me too but doesn't know how to tell me? what is the reason of a man not wanting to tell you how he feels? Outside I tried to...
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Guys, my friend (who is friends with my crush) asked my crush if he likes someone. Crush told him that he likes someone , but didn’t want to say who?

I have been interested in this shy guy for a while now. Since he is so shy we mostly talk on snap. I’m usually the one asking stuff about him to get to know, but he answers and always ask “how about you?”. He has...
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Why do girls think that dating works the same way for guys?

When it comes to dating, let's be real for a sec & not politically correct. Dating is different for men & men have to put in more work. Now this isn't complaining because i already know those kind of comments are gonna...
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What is the best way to end a friends with benefits/situationship with a guy?

He is 25yo and I am 26. A month from now it’ll be a year since this situation started. I don’t know how to end it though, do I just walk away from it and never talk to him again, or sit him down & tell him I am done. Will...
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Alfred Adler [Humanistic] Theory: We All Have One Basic Desire and Goal: To Belong and Feel Significant

So I stumbled across a reference to Alfred Adler today. I decided to do some research. I think I like this fellow. He's my kind of guy. He's a humanist. I think I'm a humanist. Not in any sort of formal or organized way...
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Is it difficult as a single man to meet others while traveling in foreign countries?

I say man because I feel like for women it’s easier since men approach women more and women are just approached way more often than men are. Just wondering for single guys who are traveling in foreign countries, do you...
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I'm never good enough?

I was at my grandpas funeral a few years ago. My sister came back (the really beautiful sister I have) she was dressed up all dolled up in heels and everything, but so was I. My great aunt came in the door and she's...
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First date ended well so. . . now what?

This morning, I discovered a post in which I was tagged and I had not responded. @vladikre posted: "@OlderAndWiser. We had a discussion and I said that after the first date, I wait a week max to send or contact, cause I...
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A guy I like is dropping signals all over the place that he feels like that toward me, but he won’t act on it. What do I do?

So I started working with this guy earlier this summer. Initially I didn’t think very much of him at all, but as we’ve worked together, we’ve gotten closer and much friendlier. I decided that I’m crushing hard- and I...
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Girls, How do I get your attention instead of guys?

I'm a single guy in his early 20s and I have always been too shy and anxious to approach women, so I thought that going to the gym and gaining some muscle would help me attract their attention; it only made an already...
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Have you ever been too intimidated by someone's looks to approach/talk to them?

Is this really a thing? Nowadays, I assume most guys don't approach me because of how young I look (although, I'm sure there are other reasons), but when I was a teenager I always thought certain boys who might've had...
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Is this really a thing? Nowadays, I assume most guys don't approach me because of how young I look (although, I'm sure there are other reasons), but when I was a teenager I always Show More
Some people are just that devastatingly gorgeous
That's an excuse that some shy people use
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Would you vote for A. I. for president? Why or Why not?

I would. Now, hear me out, before getting scared of what you don't understand, because I'm assuming most of you don't have the foggiest idea how artificial intelligence works. Let's analyze the way that Joe Biden...
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Is this a normal way of thinking with being single in your mid twenties?

Ugh I’m such a negative mess. Do you know deep down when you’ll end up alone? I’m going to be 27 this year and never had success with the dating apps. I was on and off for years but it just doesn’t work. I was skinnier...
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Ugh I’m such a negative mess. Do you know deep down when you’ll end up alone? I’m going to be 27 this year and never had success with the dating apps. I was on and off for years but it Show More
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How to confess to your crush without really confessing it?

This guy is really different from the others. I love to observe his behavior and he's unique in his own way. Sadly, we don't have any single chance to talk. He seems like an introvert person but his posting does not show...
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Why this girl is not answering my texts or calls after losing the game she challenged?

So I met this Thai girl in a cafe. She was with her friend a Korean girl. They both were talking about being sapiosexual. They were ranting about the awkward failed dates they had been on and other stuff. She seemed an...
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Do you think women get way too much attention for what they’re worth?

I never show interest in girls, because they don’t deserve it generally. Unless I meet a special one. Most 7/10s act like they’re 9/10s. They even shoot their shot with me. By trying hard to get me to approach them....
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I never show interest in girls, because they don’t deserve it generally. Unless I meet a special one. Most 7/10s act like they’re 9/10s. They even shoot their shot with me. By trying Show More
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