Girls, How do I get your attention instead of guys?

[Anonymous]

I'm a single guy in his early 20s and I have always been too shy and anxious to approach women, so I thought that going to the gym and gaining some muscle would help me attract their attention; it only made an already existing (but rare) issue worse... guys stare, comb their hair (like they're going to approach a girl) whilst looking at me, and sometimes follow me around busses (forcing me to go out of my way to avoid them).

It's gotten to the point where I was just sexually harassed on the bus at night by an older guy wearing ear-rings, making hand gestures and grabbing motions towards me... the bus was taking me home from the gym, but I was being looked by guys even at the gym.

I saw this a while back, I think I'd experience it

I've got a masculine jaw, voice, wide shoulders, etc. The only "feminine" features you could say I have is a below-30-inch waist, toned abs and glutes - which I have no reason to believe they can see. As for clothing, I was wearing shorts and a short-sleeved gym shirt: I actually went shopping earlier today to get shorts specifically because I thought my existing gym trousers were the problem... do I need to get the baggiest joggers I can find?

So please, I'm begging you; how do I attract women's attention instead of guys'. Should I go out of my way to sit next to women on the bus to avoid guys?

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The caption is meant to read "I saw this a while back, I didn't think I'd experience it"

[es20490446e]

Believe me, if you are fit that improves the interest of women a lot.

The point is that woman frequently hide their interest, you shall assume that they are attracted to you to some extend just because of being a guy.

[Asker]

The strange thing is, I've always struggled with my own self image and thought of myself as blemished; but with all this attention I don't know what to believe - but it's coming from the wring people.

I have had instances where I think girls have shown subtle interest in mr, but I always bail or wuss out escalating or asking for their number.

Having a 6-pack doesn't teach you how to flirt... Unfortunately.

[es20490446e]

Flirting is just talking, is just keeping the interaction going.

Not all girls will like you, though. Your initial goal should be seeing if the girl has the kind of interest that you have.

[Anonymous]

Money is all that matters in truth they will lie its not but it's the truth

[Asker]

Well, I got two women interested and a date booked with another in the space of two days...

The catch is that all three might turn up to the same event wanting my attention 😅 so it could all go down in flames.

[Joker_]

Start by impressing other guys