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I have an ex right before I met my wife and after we broke up I deleted every pic I had of her and moved on. A couple months later my ex and I broke up, I couldn't stop thinking about her so I looked at her IG and she posted pictures that I had taken of her. Every few month since our breakup, I get bombarded with thoughts of her and I look at her social media and I see pics of places we've been together or pics I took of her. I don't think she wants to get together and I got over her fairly quick. I married someone this year that is perfect for me and have even stranger and stranger connection. I've thought about my ex twice since we broke up. The first time was on my birthday a couple months after our breakup and an hour later she wished me a happy birthday. The next time was yesterday when I saw a YouTube video showing a destination I went to with my ex and it was all the same places we visited together wo I started thinking about her and the places I visited with her. An hour after watching the video, she messaged me. I don't have the impression she wants to get back together but the connection we have is weird.

My wife and I have an even stronger connection. We've had people over to our house and for some reason I felt the need to food. Ten minutes after I did that, my wife asked me to order food and every time I've ordered, it's been from the place she's thinking of. This happens all the time and it's like we're in sync. But it gets even weirder when she starts answering questions that I've got in my head and before I can even ask, she's already answered my question, When I ask her about this she says that she knew what I was thinking. When we were long distance, she said that she could always feel me next to her. She always struggled being clingy and thought that was why she was single but when we started dating, she felt that I was always there and it cured her clinginess.

I'm curious if anyone else has had someone show up after you've thought about them.

I know some people who won't let you take out their trash cans while they're away on vacation, and I know others who have an "open door" policy where they allow and encourage others to enter their homes at any time without any warning.

So, how much privacy do you like in your own home?

For me, it depends on the person. For some people (even for a few who think I'm their friend), I don't want them to ever know where I live. For others, I'm happy to invite them over. And if we're really close to each other and we're "ride or die" friends, all you need to to is knock on the door and maybe wait a few minutes or give a quick call to let me know you're showing up on my doorstep.

Now, if you're really super close to me (and Raine) and you're one of the few people we share almost everything with, you probably have a key to our house and you're welcome to walk in even if it means interrupting our lovemaking by knocking on the bedroom door. Just don't make the latter bit a habit.