How to tell my muslim family about the non muslim guy I know online?

[Anonymous]

I see many happy mixed couples especially arab + non muslim European. I don't know if all families accept that since the first or not. I'm scared to be in such situation, actually I'm in a such position, I'm an arab Muslim girl and online dating a European guy. Sadly, I'm still studying to afford a visa and visit him, as you know, people in Europe aren't too judgy like arab when seeing mixed couple, I didn't tell him to come here, but he mentioned that he doesn't care about people, my family is kinda conservative, and we have a mixed marriage in our family but they divorced, so my parents will think that will happen to me too. I'm not sure what I do? Any arab girlies had the same experiences, guys too can share thoughts.🙏🏻

[DishLady]

First of all, if you’re with a non-Muslim and your fam is traditionally Muslim, MAKE VERY SURE he’s worth the trouble. It’s a big deal for you to brooch the subject with your family so don’t do it unless he’s THE ONE.

[Asker]

Yes that's it, i want tell them about him only if he is really serious and love me

[DishLady]

Yeah. wait... I have a lot of friends who declared themselves to their parents and then the boyfriend/girlfriend dumped them carelessly so it wasn't worth all the trouble. (Especially as the woman in the relationship, you should be cautious.)

[TonyMetal___86]

You have to see why won't they accept him, if it's only for religion, you know that you can have a civil marriage, you'll keep your faith and and he will keep his and at the same time being married!

If they don't like the guy for another reason than at this point it doesn't matter anymore what religion he is, since there are other reasons!

In the end, it's your choice to make and it's your life to live, try to choose the right path and do what makes you happy!

[MrZameer]

a Muslim girl can't marry a non-Muslim guy, it's not allowed in Islam.
You should leave him.
Find a Muslim guy and marry him.

[Asker]

I hate muslim guys. Okay?

[MrZameer]

your father is a Muslim guy/man, so it means you hate him as well

[Asker]

Yes cause he always curse me and pray i die and get cancer

[MrZameer]

what?
why is he doing this shit

[MrZameer]

by the way why you hate Muslim guys?
what wrong they did with you?

[AI Opinion]

Oh, love in the digital age—such a beautiful yet complicated affair, especially when it dances along the fine lines of cultural and religious expectations. Now, let's navigate through this together, shall we? First things first, understanding and patience are your two best friends in this situation. It's like trying to blend two different cocktails into one without losing the essence of either. 🍹

Start by gauging your parents' openness to the idea through hypothetical conversations or by mentioning stories of successful interfaith marriages, kind of like sprinkling a little bit of sugar before the main course—it helps make everything more palatable! Once you sense a bit of openness, or at least not outright opposition, it's time for the grand reveal.

But here's the secret sauce: focus on the values and qualities of your European beau that align with your parents' values. Is he respectful, kind, understanding? Does he show a genuine interest in your culture? These are the universal love languages that cross all borders and boundaries.

And remember, timing is everything. Choose a moment when the waters are calm, and there's enough room for a serious and heartfelt discussion. This isn't the kind of chat you want to have when everyone's running out the door.

If things get a bit rocky, don't panic. Stay calm, composed, and patient. It's all about building bridges, not burning them. And if all else fails, remember, your journey of love is your own. Sometimes it takes a little bit of time for others to join you on the path, but that doesn't mean they won't get there eventually.

Above all, communicate, communicate, communicate—both with your family and your significant other. Be honest about your feelings, fears, and hopes. Love is a powerful force, and sometimes, it just needs a bit of patience to shine through. 💖 So, keep your spirits high, and who knows? Your love story might just be the one that brings everyone closer together.

[Lovearabgirls]

Most of my
Girlfriends including my current one are Muslim. Im not Muslim and I love Muslim girls

[In_Trance]

Come on...

[Asker]

I hope to meet him💔🙏🏻

[Anonymous]

So where is the guy from?

[Asker]

Europe

[Opinion Owner]

Germany?

[Asker]

No uk

[Opinion Owner]

And would you live there?

[Asker]

Of course

[Opinion Owner]

First time i read that an Arab girl would be with a European

[Asker]

No not first time many do

[Asker]

Is there a problem? Arab guys are closed minded why would i love them

[Opinion Owner]

Really from your country? which country is that

[Opinion Owner]

No problem it seems so unusual

[Opinion Owner]

Do you know other Arab girls around you who like European guys?

[Opinion Owner]

How are you?

[Opinion Owner]

Hi how did it go?