What should I know about dating a Muslim guy (as a western non-practicing Christian)?

I met this guy and he's heads over heels for me. We're moving a bit too fast for my liking when it comes to this whole feelings thing, but I'm giving it a try. He's Muslim but he drinks/isn't a virgin, though he seems very serious about everything else. I wish to know what you (even better if you are a Muslim or has dated one) thinks I should know now, before I get in a relationship with him and get shocked/surprised or end up disrespecting him for some reason.


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  • Well it all depends on how open minded he is. Some easy ways to tell if he is open minded is asking your self, "Is her serious most of the time or does he joke around a lot?" If he's serious most of the time that often he takes life in general pretty seriously but that's a simple question you can ask yourself and it usually is in the ball park. They are also very, VERY controlling culture when it comes to their wives and by the sounds of it, sounds like you're living with him already I assume? Probably relatively quickly after beginning the relationship. Chances are within five to six months will be the earliest, he'll propose a year at the latest, they don't normally date for fun they date because they can see themselves being married to them. Depending on if he is a dominant guy and how dominant he is will also depend on if he "allows" you to leave and go do things when he's not home/working etc. But that's normal to their culture he more than likely allow it but the manners and politeness to them is often shown by asking permission since women don't have a whole lot of rights because keep in mind Muslim wives whether you convert to it before or after you get married is something you two will need to talk about together and if he's leaning more towards close minded he will definitely have you convert. He was more than likely raised in Lebanon and not here in America so Muslim wives typically need to ask for permission to leave the house out of respect here in America but out of law back in their homeland. Also if he chose to come to a specific state other than because of family could also help determine how open minded he is if he's into politics. More conservative voting states will incline him to act more conservative because like all humans we adapt to our environment within reason to our own beliefs and morals. I know here in America it's normally ok to court with more than one person at a time if you take it at a normal pace but they all typically move very fast over there, same as here though I suppose. The guys who end up saying I love you very quickly can see themselves marrying you and for someone like myself, only the right girl got me to do get my shit in order. Soul mate's encourage and motivate each other to do what is in their best interest even if it means parting ways with them forever. But Muslims are a lot like Catholics, there are always exceptions and some do get divorced but if he's already saying I love you and you do get married

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  • Well. I am Muslim myself, I dated Arab Muslim guys and western guys I have a question, WHERE IS HE FROM? that makes a huge difference, because it is not only the religion that is restricted, it is their way of thinking and calculating things culturally depending on where do they come from? if he is an Arab that would make a big difference than maybe anything else.

    My Muslim Arab brother is married to a Russian girl, and I can tell you, he was honest with her, loved her, and married her, BUT, he just changed her, she can't smoke on the street, talk to other men, go out alone, no more clubs, she really loves him, and he does her, but you will need to adapt to his cultural boundaries IN HIS HEAD not even only being at his home country..

    In the Arab world, the man has the authority and the power, and he will make that clear just when things start to get serious, they dont like being yelled at, or even argued a lot, because THEIR women from their own cultural do not do that because they are used to the male dominated kind of culture (Even me) ,, so from my experience, many non Arab women can not translate or get that.

    Take what I said in consideration, I know better, I am Arab Muslim, and I am more reliable on that!

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    • Yes exactly what I was saying. If he was born here he's not going to have a problem where as he would have a problem with you going out alone or without him or a man to accompany you if he were born in Lebanon, but like I said they always get married very fast compared to the standards here. So you said things have been moving very fast all you need to do is confront him and tell him how you feel ahead of time before he gets embarrassed for proposing and you not feeling ready because it could also cause him to think you didn't want to hurt his feelings by just flat out saying no.

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    • True. Arab muslims are the strictist. What is universal among muslims though is that you MUST raise the kids muslims. Even if he is a very westernized muslim that grew up in the States, that is the one thing they will not compromise on. After all, islam must dominate. So if a girl has concerns on that front, better avoid.

      And if the muslim says that she can raise the kids in her religion, don't believe it for a second.

    • You're 100% right. This is the arab culture.

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  • First of all you need to be open minded and understand that there will be a huge cultural difference whether he's more westernized or not. Also typically Muslim people are recommended to marry other Muslims so if you're serious then talk to him about your future and how your religious differences will play out. If it's not serious relationship which it doesn't sound like it is then it's not a big deal just be chill. I'm a Muslim man myself and my woman is Muslim because it's important to me and we both have the same values and are compatible in every sense. At the end of the day you need to make sure this is really what you want as it won't be easy for either of you to adjust especially when it comes to meeting the family (this goes both ways - I doubt your family would be excited to meet your Muslim man because let's face it western society believes in the stereotypes that we are bad and just look at the responses to this question to prove my point further) anyways just have a talk with him and establish your boundaries early on and what you both want from this relationship.

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  • If you get in a serious relationship with him then you better hope he stays lukewarm about his religion because if he doesn't and becomes serious about his religion he might start to be controlling and demanding you to dress like a ninja in wheather of 90°

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    • “Dress like a ninja” 😂😂

    • Do nuns wear bikinis?

    • @Ephemera1 yea but nuns are a special case because they are very few of them and nothing in enforced upon a women wanting to be a nun... you generally don't see nuns just walking around the streets casually... they live and function in very specific areas...

      I don't care for most religions but christianity doesn't enforce women to be nuns...
      But many muslim families enforce coverage... not all but many

      just some minor differences though

  • Well ask him, he is the one who is interested in you. According to islam a muslim can marry any one "of the book" i. e. Christian, jew, or mulsim without issue. However it depends on what kind of muslim he is and where he is from, if he is Turkish they tend to be more lax then in the middle east (I know a Turkish muslim and he was much the same way he drinks and he did not wait for marriage to have sex) so that will also determine what he is more likely to believe. But its best to ask him find out what he wants what he expects from the relationship etc. also let him know that you want to take things slow as their are cultural religious differences and you don't want to do something wrong and you don't want to feel pressured into things etc. (but let him know your interested and willing to try if he is willing to let you go at your own pace). The fact is him being muslim isn't really that big of a deal, its more culture, how long has he been here (the longer he has been in the west the more likely he will have taken on some of its culture and practices) and him personally (not all muslims are alike obviously) so its something you should sit down and discuss with him, communication is the foundation of a strong relationship after all so why not start with that.

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  • a lot of Muslims asnwers here hahaha. I'm one of them. For me see from what country he came from? We are Arab we can say and do a lot of flowery things if you like make fall inlove and things I've seen that a lot. You really need to know him so well before doing anything don't hurt youself if you are not sure but if you are sure about him go for it.

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  • Avoid. He will be cute in the beginning but then he will try to control you and if you get baby's (sons in special) he will not accept other things that they go to Muslim school 🚸 they have to be religious etc. Dangerous world. Avoid. 😊

    Many people would maybe say that I'm pregudist but I have talked to Muslims "off camera" (when nobody is listening) and they tell you the fanatic truth about things. Would be to long to explain in detail.

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    • Oh shut the fuck up you lying sack of crap.

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    • Thank you. 😊 I'm. Not here to lie... Would never say things that aren't true does not make sense write 📝 in a forum if you lie

    • @thatguyfromtoronto you don't need to be mad she is right and if you are an arab you know our people , well there are that bad and the good guys she needs to know that guy she talks about a good guy or not.

  • Hi. I suggest you find out which branch of the Muslim religion he follows and then go online and do some research. I've learned that the Muslim religion is very male-centric. Is he Eastern or Western Muslim? That may impact how he treats women. I haven't heard many good things about that. Also you may want to do a Google search on him. I'm not saying that because he is Muslim, I Google every woman I get involved with, it will give you some idea of his past.
    And buy yourself a copy of the Quran. If you decide that this is the person you want to be with your going to have to learn to read, write, and speak in the language of the Quran. As well as convert to his religion. If he is as committed to his beliefs as you say, your life is going to change. For now you probably should just be yourself. That seems to be the person he likes, so don't change it. That is my nice advise.
    Deep in my heart my advice for what you should now about dating a Muslim guy is DON'T. Go online and see what other ladies experiences have been.

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  • he might cheat on you with a goat
    i.pinimg.com/.../...-funny-pictures-funny-pics.jpg

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  • Well he drinks, Not a virgin, so there's a high possibility that he's not much religious. Since im a muslim, im gonna say, it depends on the guy actually, not every muslim guy is the same. but i think you won't have any problems with him, regarding to Islam or any thing like that

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  • Be prepared to slowly lose your personal rights as the relationship evolves:

    •begin wearing a hijab and covering up
    •not having contact with other men, including family and friends
    •receiving permission from him before doing anything
    •be prepared to convert to Islam if you want to end up with him (even though he may deny this)
    •he's likely to engage in new relationships with women once yours has been cemented.
    •if you've never been hit by a man before, that may change in the near future.

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  • Theoretically muslim men can marry non-muslims. Practically he will either see you as a good lay or want you to convert. Many muslim men in the west bump&dump white girls behind closed doors. And if they are really willing to be serious, they will demand converting.

    Your guy might or might not be that way. So it is best to actually bring this topic up before you invest yourself too much. Ask him what he wants, what he is planning and what he expects.

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  • Find out what his parents think of the relationship and what his views on your religion and what religion potential children will be before you become serious with him. That will help determine whether or not you should continue pursuing the relationship.

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    • Yeah, there's definitely been stories in the media about muslim men being very assertive over what happens to their children, to the point that they'd even murder them. It was a really weird story that I read.

    • yle.fi/.../9928469 - This is a crazy story

  • Well I’m an Atheist and used to be a muslim 12 years ago.. the problem is not with him being a muslim it’s about his culture I’m from Jordan and Arab guys there look for an easy sex.. the won’t even dare to have sex with an Arab christian girl because her father would mostly shoot his ass... so they look for western girls and women... too much movies and porn gave them a lot of ideas..

    And believe me in the end he won’t marry you.. so dumb the guy and have an easier life

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  • 1. Might just be in it do sex you up. Lots of muslim guys go for non muslim girls to bang but marry muslim girls at the end. And it shows since you're moving too fast lol
    Ya right he's really in it. Don't buy it

    2. His religion over you. Always
    3. can't eat at normal places. Always muslim inspired places cause it has to be halal meat lol
    4. He might as you to convert
    5. If he follows it. Then he must feel he is worth more than you
    6. His family might reject you

    Good luck lol

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  • I was the boyfriend of a non-practicing Muslim woman, so the situation is different (I also know several families where a Western non-Muslim married a Muslim), but I would say that you should expect that either he or his family may want you to convert to Islam. I've seen this even where the Muslim did not practice their religion, or ony superficially.

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  • I'm a Muslim ok , but I really can't tell you about him , it's like asking Americans about your American boyfriend just because he's American
    No one can really help you , you should see for yourself if he's a good person or not his religion means nothing tbh

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  • Are you prepared to be bossed about and share him with other women. Plus having to give birth to his SON after a year of Marriege.
    My friend had to give up her religion and dress how he wanted. Muslim mens have a saying. You beat a dog, a donkey and a woman. Say no more.

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  • @cth96190 It's true. There are a lot of people who claim to be Muslim but in action do the exact opposite of the teachings of Islam. World is full of hypocrites.
    I appreciate your views of life mate 👍

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  • Your rights under Islam don't exist and you should also be aware that as a non Muslim you can be raped according to Islamic law. Your future kids will also likely be sold in a "marriage" to a much older man aka a paedophile.

    Seriously how can you not know this?

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  • One day he'll beat the crap out of you for talking back at him. They're EXTREMELY arrogant. He'll bury you in a hole and STONE you!! He'll rape you because he was horny and you only exist as a sexual object to him. You're only worth is that of a half of a man. They guys are SAVAGES!! They literally live in the 15th Century.

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  • Hey it's the same thing as dating a Christian. The difference is he believes Jesus is the "mightiest messenger" not the son of God, but Christians are considered the older brother to Muslims.

    Just don't eat pork, but if he's western cultured than you'll be fine... communication is key here... don't ask idiots they'll lie to look smart, ask him directly Coz you'll be dating him right?

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  • Is he mostly non praticing? you said he drinks.
    Does he pray 3 times a day.. and does he eat pork?

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    • Moslem prays 5 times a day

    • We pray 5 times, Fajr- dawn prayer, Dhur-noon prayer, Asr-afternoon prayer, Maghrib-sunset prayer, and Isha-the night prayer

  • Just because he is drinking or having sex now, does not mean that he will put you or anything else before his religion and family. I've dated even lived with a muslim.

    I also have muslim friends and have heard the things they do and say about the non muslim girl they are "dating." To him you are just a sex object to keep him company. Nothing more nothing less. They will refer to you as "the slut" or "the whore" to their friends.

    As soon as he is ready to get married and be serious you will be thrown away as if nothing ever happened. Doesn't matter if you were with him 1 year or 10. Doesn't matter if you lived together, what he said to you that you wanted to hear, etc. No matter what you do, you will never be a woman of his heritage and he would never actually marry you bc his family will never accept you.

    He will act "head over heels," so in love," and tell you everything you would want a man to say, but it means nothing. They are taught that women are different and they learn what to say to make women feel good. That makes it that much worse the day he throws you away to marry another muslim when you thought "he loved you so much."

    No amount of love will get him to marry and introduce you to his family. No amount of love will ever come before his religion. The lies will sound so true and sweet, but they are simply lies.

    Run away. Run far away. Just google what happened to other women if you don't believe me. I personally know two women who even made it as far as marriage thinking they were "so in love and happy," only for them to wake up with divorce papers and see their husband immediately with a new wife. One that their family and religion will accept. No one can crush your heart more bc they lie and tell you what you want to hear so well

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    • Considering how you think he is head over heels and moving too fast tells me 100% that you are being used. You will wind up very hurt if you try to stay with him

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    • @eph even in your answer you say you would only marry another muslim bc you probably wouldn't even consider otherwise

    • >no experience or knowledge
      >Muslim, lived around Muslims, family of Muslims, been to Muslim countries, lived in muslim countries, lived in the Western world, westernized Muslim.

      I'm sorry but you're delusional if you think your one experience comes close to mine. You're misinformed and undereducated, which is why you have such opinions.

  • I can't simply answer this question like that. You have to tell me how he thinks, how his family is, how he acts etc.
    There are many things that can come into play, and they all can lead to different things.
    Islam allows men to marry Jewish and Christian women AND NO he isn't supposed to force you to convert to islam. BUT this is the islamic theory of course. I don't know how it will turn into practise, because many Muslims violate the principles of islam, including the ones who will force their wife to convert.

    Personnally, I have a few family members married to non Muslims. My uncle has been married to a french woman for more than 15 years and she is not Muslim and he never forced her to convert.
    My Dad's cousin has been married to a french woman for 40+ years and she isn't Muslim either (but her, who are now over 25 kids are).

    I personnaly have never ever come across families that forced the non Muslim woman to convert. I come from a conservative Muslim family, but my family is educated and not poor. So I think those factors are very important to determine how your Muslim boyfriend will turn out.

    Just one important notice: Don't give him sex easily, pleaaaase. Some Muslim men in the west sleep around with white women because they are easier to smash than Muslim women, but then they leave them for a Muslim woman when it comes to marriage. Of course, this is not systematic at all, but there are many fuckboys around so be careful.
    I would even advice you to delay sex as much as possible to be sure. Don't be easy.

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    • Soooo trueeee, couldnt say what is in my mind in a better way as a muslim girl.

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    • I agree with you

    • Yep, lot more eggshells to look out for. Almost like it's not worth the trouble. But then again, being a man, I tend to use that hunter instinct and think more long term. Women are different, I suppose.

  • Listen if your not looking to follow God, then don't claim you're a Christian it gives the rest of us a bad name. He's going to want to have sex with you before marriage, and possibly might be forced to make you convert if marriage. That is what happened to a close friend of mine and she went through hell with him. You do NOT want to get involved with a non-practicing Muslim. Because intentions from what YOU are looking for is far more important than what he is looking for. Because that is how she ended up in that trap in the first place. You need to have a solid foundation in God. It's is imparitive. Know your Bible. Know what God commands for us to live in our lives. He should not be having sex before marriage. But many non-practicing Muslims sleeps around. But expects a virgin wife, or they are forced to an arranged marriage to a Muslim woman from the counrty their families come from. And yes, she is expected to be a virgin. Some of them have a twisted thinking that Western women are good for sex and are whores only, while Muslime women are expected to be pure. Don't know why you aren't focused on the Lord, but if you have no desire to be Christian, just be honest and don't pretend. But if your backsliding, you better get back to God. Or else you will face a lot of wishy-washy answers, and those sweet nothings being told in your ear, you know like a lot of men do today to get you open for sex and desire them. And that's what you will deal with. But somebody who is like him, non Practicing, not a virgin and drinks is extremely risky, just like those professing Christian and does every single secular things are risky. Because not only are they not focusing or showing care for their salvation, but their also putting your salvation at risk. It's not worth it.

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  • Okay listen to me love. What Im going to say could be important, or it could be very against your opinions and what you were looking for, so if thats the case, feel free to throw away what Im about to say. Its ultimately your life and as an adult, you hold the choices and decisions to make to shape up yourself.

    I am an arab girl who lives in the US. I have both cultures embedded in me, and I have seen both cultures.

    Muslim men - of all types (the ones who follow religion, the ones who dont, the ones who do sometimes and other times forgets it) are culturally bound. They were brought up with it (more likely than not) in their households, even in countries abroad. a lot of arab men are very good at romanticizing a woman and show her how much of a gentleman he can be. This can be very deceptive though.

    They are allowed to marry 4 times, so the chances of being cheated on significantly increases, and you can't say anything about it. Arab men like to be dominant... and no this is not a generalization for a few... it is the stigma and culture we are brought up with. Men, are dominant in everything, and what they say goes. If you happen to have found one who lets you make decisions and lets you be free, then you may have found a good guy. But you need to be careful when it comes to arab men, love. Not all of them are honest. And this goes for any religion or race, but I just want to stress that you have to be a bit careful about what his true intentions are. Asking won't lead you anywhere. He can lie, and act, and be deceptive. So you have to pay attention to his actions.

    As for how for how to not offend him... dont bring up religion... no matter what. It will make him go into defensive mode if you bring up christianity. Respect his views about his religion. Dont insult his views.

    I am a christian arab by the way.

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    • Well said in deed.. but why go through all of this trouble.. dumb the guy

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    • she deserves to be happy god knows she must have had shitty boyfriends who beat her or something because if she was willing to move this fast with a guy she doesn't know anything about the culture that is extremely dangerous. I hope you knew him a while before moving in with him even if it was just as friends. But seriously listen to these extremely carefully, one way you can tell he either wants to be strong and be able to handle himself and also give his wife a rough slap if she does or says anything he doesn't like it won't leave a mark really so no evidence of abuse but like the others said they usually just trying to hook up with white women because they are easy. Americans are one of the top that have sex the soonest out of any other culture or country. So him being married to you is a quick solution or he wants kids. But if he is tall or muscular and you have been dating him for three months or less tell him TODAY you aren't ready for marriage until...

    • If you have your own car I suggest you move in with a friend or hell even mom or Dad temporarily. I had to watch a very close friend of mine marry a Lebanese guy who was born over there and came here. He worked out everyday and was muscular as hell. But he's also very lonely I'm sure, they always move fast but not with white women, white women are considered disgraces to be with to some families because they are consider loose, immoral women. And he might smoke and drink but honestly that happened to my friend, took her out to dinner 3 nights a week, even cooked for her, rolled blunts did the occassional bag of coke with her when they were drinking. She ended up in an abusive relationship with him for five years until he found out she had cheated on him with her ex. Beat her up so good he wasn't thinking to hide where he hit her. The only reason he didn't kill her she told me was because her ex told him and was selfish and didn't think about if she was even happy with him

  • That most likely he'll play with you for a while but he'll marry a Muslim woman to appease his family.

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  • Save yourself girl. Please. I have dated 2 Muslims. I am telling you horrible experience. They emphasise on marriage kids. They just wanna make you muslim. Save yourself save yourself. They are just so bad people & bad religion.

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    • you are stereotyping. That's like saying all kids who listen to Marilyn Manson get picked on and end up shooting up their high school. You don't even know him. What if he saved her life? Would you say he deserves a chance then?

    • @abarker That's a crazy what if. Not very nice of you to ignore her lived experience.

  • Leave! Run! BREAK. UP! NO DON'T DO THIS TO YOURSELF! I'm a half jamaican-half Caucasian Catholic. And I've dated a few Muslim guys before, and trust me, the. Experience. Was. Bad. I can't handle them, my views are taken by granted, I'm given no right to go out alone or have an alone time. Just- nope. Don't. For your sake, don't.

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  • These men can be highly manipulative of western women. It's happened quite often where the woman ends up in quasi slavery under her man, not being allowed to leave the house without him and not being allowed to choose her own clothing. They can be heartless, emotionally manipulative bastards and it wouldn't be a seldom case of this happening. If I were you, the fact it's moving so fast should set off alarm bells for you.

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  • watch the movie not without my daughter. it's about a woman who is in very happy with a Muslim man in America but when they go back to the middle east to visit his family he falls into abusive and controlling behavior. I'm not saying don't be with him but be careful about which parts of his life you step into. You can get away from abuse here but you can't if you're over there. Definitely, try to check it out.

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  • As a Christian, you should be dating the someone the same faith as you. God says not to yolk with people who do not follow Him, you have two different views that will clash eventually. Then again he doesn't seem very serious about the his faith if he's not virgin, drinks, and just seems like an everyday western type of person.

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  • Honesty. Muslims that respect their religion really are good future partners and maybe future husbands. They really do respect woman unlike that bias news that everyone hears. I think you should leave.

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    • Thank you for saying the truth. Islam is the only religion that respects the woman as she truly deserves, in our religion making your wife happy and satisfied is immensely rewarding and obligatory, respecting her needs and thoughts is a natural thing within the relationship, and I think a lot of muslims in foreign countries do not follow the religion, only by name though

    • Yeah. I've have many Muslim friends and they really treat people well

  • This would not be the right place for advice with that. People know nothing about Muslims and act like they know everything. The media also acts like they know everything and try to make them look bad. Just be carful what you'e believing. Just wanted to warn you🙂 And if you want to know anything about them the best place to get info would be from a Muslim themselves

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  • Be wary of this Fast Acting, Fast Talker, He probably Wants... Marriage. They will also tell you their own
    Kind of girl" is Not for them.
    A Muslim Man had Once Found me on Facebook and the Next thing you know, This "Practicing Christian" was Off and Running to Cairo, Where on my next Trip, We tied the Knot at the Ministry of Justice. I resided there for Awhile, but I seldom did Smile. A lot to Endure for Sure in their own Family Here, dear.
    Think Twice about being so Nice, Eventually Controlling.
    PS: When any problems, That is when they throw it up to You "You American girls are not Like the ones here."
    Arse backwards.
    Good Luck. xx

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  • Ask him if he is married. You never know. Muslims can marry up to 4 wives.

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  • If he doesn't practice his religion then he's pretty much like any other guy, but keep in mind that his parents may be more strict depending on how religious they are themselves.

    Also make sure to respect his beliefs/religion and don't make fun of them/disrespect them. Which is what u should do with pretty much any person with different beliefs than yours.

    A big factor can also be the place where he comes from and whether he's lived (or studied) in a western country and the amount of time he's spent there. Cuz Muslims that have been in a western country can be more open minded and have a different lifestyle and way of thinking than Muslims who have spent all their lives in an Arab country. *assuming he's from an Arab country*

    Another thing is be prepared for a huge cultural difference
    There are traditions and values that are to be met in the Arab and Muslim culture and those are not too strict on western women but if he's more of a traditional person then be prepared for it

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    • And by the way.. him not being a virgin as a Muslim guy,, it's a red flag

  • Well, i used to have a boyfriend that muslim and i think its kinda hard for us to be together. His family didn't really like me because im christian and i didn't want to change my religion if i get married with him. And im kinda wear clothes that "short and open" for their taste. But i think its actually not really open when im just wearing a casual shorts. So I don't know, maybe he's different. But my ex boyfriend was nice but kinda strict. And his parents more strict and kinda pressure our relationship thats why we broke up

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  • Well, a good place to start is where does he or his family come from. Islam varies considerably depending on culture. Muslim from Albania, Russia, Saudi Arabia, Palestine, Iran, India, Indonesia etc. are quite different.

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  • Well Muslims especially muslim guys from my country ( Tunisia) they drink and they sleep woth women , which is haram but people here do it anyway , just be yourself , don't think about it much. Dating a Muslim is like dating any other guy. I don't think he is too religious anyway

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  • I've met two muslim guys while on vacation. They drank and smoked cigarettes. One of them showed me a picture of his mum in hijab. They are family oriented and in the end, marry their own kind. Also, they only marry virgins. At least 99 percent of them.

    So if you're sleeping with them, forget it. They will be nice and romantic but they don't love women who don't wait until marriage. They emphasized that to me. One of them told me he was in relationship but broke up and lived with that girl. HE didn't take her seriously.

    I told one of the guys that I was waiting for marriage and the whole time they were very respectful to me and kept their boundaries. So i can assure you, they hunt for easy prey but in the end they marry of their own race, the good girl from back home who's never known a man. I hope this helps

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