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We talk for hours, almost every day. She already defined our relationship as friendship only, which is dissapointing because we get on soo well with each other and I've never felt this spark with anyone before, but that is fine because I'd rather have her as a friend than not at all. We share the same hobbies, opinions, and values, except on this occasion. I'm sure there was a mutual attraction to start, but I wasn't quick enough to action, and after a year of talking, the sexy facard which we put on when trying to attract someone has dropped, and she saw the real me, which isn't so appealing. But I found a smart, funny, like minded friend, so still a win.

We've been calling for about a year, mostly for work but the calls always became personal. Within the past few months have we been talking every day for hours, outside of work.

We live 120 miles apart, so although we've talked about doing things, it never happened. But she talks about visiting her other friends who live as far from her as I do. When I asked if we could meet for lunch in her town, when she was free, she nervously laughed and refused. We carried on awkwardly for a few more minutes, I asked why, she told me meeting in person isn't a criteria for a friendship. And if we met once, why would that change things. I told her meeting should be the next phase of our friendship.

I don't understand. How do I differ from her other friends? It makes me feel like she dosent value me as much as the other people in her life, or like I was just an ear to listen for the past year. Its worse because I really care about her. I want the best for her and for her to be happy, but what she wants isn't what I want

I will obviously respect her wishes and not bring up the topic again. But it saddens me that this is as far as we will go, or even if our relationship will remain after this.

Before it's suggested, she's not a catfish.

Am I in the wrong? Is this kind of relationship common?

Why would she object so strongly?

Hi, I’m a shy studious guy aged 20. And there’s a beautiful lady teacher at my college aged 30, unmarried. At first i didn’t had any feelings for her. Then I started noticing, that she was getting nice and frank with me. Like are you bunking classes? It’s okay, I’m fine with it. Seeking approval, wanting me to stay pleased with her. Sometimes talking more sweetly than my mother did. She gave me undivided attention, without even blinking eyes. Not even my best friends gave me that level of attention. I started developing feelings. Whenever she saw me, she gave me an intense eye contact stare, which was intimidating sometimes. And when I try to run away, she stops me and tries to initiate a conversation which can be as dumb as, what is the time? even though she’s wearing a watch. Every single time she sees me, she find ways to talk to me.

One day, I came to her instead and initiated by saying I want to ask few things about the home work, she replied with high anger and disgust that not now, come later. She almost screamed on me. From that day she started behaving weird and irritated, don’t know why. Some other day, she screamed on me again saying your work is incomplete, you might get fail/backlog. Again one day she avoided me saying I’m busy, come later. Since then she’s always been very angry with me saying it’s not my responsibility to remind you to complete your work on time, while you are just chilling here and there. I then left the college for some reasons. We never saw each other after that.

I just have two questions:
Q1) Did she had feelings for me?
Q2) Why did she started behaving angrily with me?