I (15F) got in a relationship with a guy (16M) two weeks ago. We both liked each other for 7 months, and he recently confessed to me. Before that, we weren't friends and just had a few casual conversations. He's done a lot of stuff that annoys me. First of all, he told me that a girl who spread a lot of rumours about me looks pretty without her glasses. Of course, i was mad and I honestly told him that. He just dismissed it as nothing and when he realised that I was actually serious, he said that he was testing me to see if I'd get jealous. Whenever I bring up a girl, he'll always call her pretty or cute. I understand that sometimes your partner can tell you that they find someone good-looking, but he does it with every single girl I talk about. He keeps telling me that he likes me for my personality not my looks making me feel like I'm ugly. I told him how I feel, and he just simply tells me that I'm just insecure and he finds me cute.
Today he told me that his best friend was like "why tf do you like ananyak, she's flat" and it made me feel hurt. I told him I was offended and he made it seem like I was making a big deal out of nothing. I kinda wanna break up with him now, but I'm unsure, especially since it's just been 2 weeks of dating. One of my best friends was in an unfulfilling relationship for 8 whole months, and I don't want to end up in the same situation as her. I also feel like I'm simply too young to sustain a long-lasting relationship. At this point, he's just becoming more of a friend than a boyfriend, and things have been awkward. I've prioritised communication and I express what bothers me, but he doesn't take me seriously. We have an important exam coming up next month, and he told me he wants to take a break to focus on studying. I think it's a bit too soon in our relationship to take a break, but he tells me that it won't affect our relationship if we "truly love each other". I honestly don't know whether to stay in this relationship or break up.
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