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When you say "... i love her sometimes", does that mean that you don't love her all the time but only occasionally when you want?
That is not what love is all about. If you love someone, it is either all the time or never but not just occasionally or from time to time.
Also, this MBTI is not really something that is reliable since there is no scientific proof behind that scam. You can text yourself 10 times and you will get a different result each time.
The fact that she is never online speaks in her favor. That simply means that she has other priorities than to waste time online.
What you should do? Simply meet her in person on a face-to-face basis and don't waste your time being on those social media. That is not really productive and staying behind a screen is not really having a social life.
Go out and meet people in person.5
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I'm an infj too. But anyway, yeah she said she doesn't like to text or message on social media and mentioned that she leaves short messages to not just you but everyone.
I'd say your solution is to spend more quality time with her and tell her how you feel in person.1
That reminds me... I wasn't online in social media for over a month now 😅😅😅..
Anyways.. I didn't get your question tbh, are you trying to confess or what? Or do you want to know why she is doing this? ...6
Be an adult and drop the Whatsapp and Instagram nonsense and you might get somewhere.0
Love her sometimes? How does that work? Is that like a convenience thing for you? Just speaking from experience here that I love my spouse ALL the time. Not sometimes. This is doomed to fail if you do not have consistent feelings for her.
What is mbti? Sorry, just not familiar with that term or group of letters. Anyhow, sounds like even though she has social media, she really isn’t into it that much or invests a lot of time into it. Some people sign up for that stuff only to get bored of it quickly.
This is no different with people texting on mobile. Though I’m my experience it is normally guys, maybe she is just not into texting or social media and prefers a real conversation. My husband is like that. Getting him to text is not easy.
So long as there are no indications outside of the short answers on social media apps, I wouldn’t think too much into it. She may just not like spending a whole lot of time on them. Also possible when she does check them, she has so many messages she quickly responds to everyone with short messages just to get responses out.
Ref update: ah, that makes more sense now. Thanks for the update.
I updated my question. Sorry i made a big mistake.
No worries at all. This makes more sense now. I still think she may just not want to spend a heck of a lot of time on social.
Yh even when i with her and her get text she read it from window and don't answer. She like face to face conversations and sometimes like i said i think she likes me back.. We can feel it when someone likes us do we i mean eyes can't hide
Have you asked her out on a date or at least explained your feelings?
The only issue I see is that if you are friends and you end up telling her you like her more than that, she may not feel the same way.
That could potentially ruin the friendship.
That is the issue.. I am not like other people i don't believe in love at first sight thing and i didn't know that i love her and i think she is the same. You there is people who can't fall in love fast but slowly what is the odds that 2 people of this kind met.. I don't know how to tell her she is my best friend and I don't really don't like people i have only like 2 friends and i don't want to lose her. I am waiting there will be a time when i won't be able to hold it inside of me and tell her. I sometimes try to flirt with her.
Does she flirt back or give you any signs she has feelings more than just as a friend?
I don't know. She always make jokes and use my name sometimes there is no need to.. And I she saw me upset she ask how am i and put all her focus on me to make me laugh.