What do you think about this?

[Anonymous]

OK so my best friend she is dating a guy..
So I asked her what if I start dating would you mind..
And she said why do u even want to date.. and no I would not be okay with that.. I like your attention..
And she doesn't want me to date..


Also quick background her and me had this mutual feelings towards each other.. and she couldn't wait so she started dating someone else
But still I have a lot of feelings towards her maybe I think I love her..

So what do you think about this?

[Guy13]

You guys may share these sexual tensions as described but clearly, you are not her priority. You treat her more like a girlfriend than she treats you like a boyfriend.

She sounds a little controlling to me, however, you have given the control to her by asking for permission to date from her. Date, live your life, and find someone who cares about you. YOu should expect her to get involved in your Business and try to influence your thinking and doing.

You ought to think this through carefully step-by-step BUT do not run to her for advice.

[Asker]

I get it

[Wise4myage]

She's interested in you in my opinion.

[Asker]

But she says that she likes her boyfriend a lot and maybe I love him

[Asker]

She*

[Wise4myage]

Id straight up ask her why she said that.

[Asker]

I asked her why... and she said that I like your attention

[Wise4myage]

Then establish boundaries with her and look to date other girls.

[Asker]

But I really want to date my best friend

[Wise4myage]

Then either tell her, or wait till she's single.

[Asker]

I guess wait