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Long story short, my dad gifted me a car. When I was working, he took my car to work every day and go out like the car was his. He tells his friends it is my car. I was fine with it at that time because my work was actually easier to get to by bus. Plus, there was no parking space at my work. The only agreement was, he would have to pick me up from work or drive me to work when he can. Most of the time, he does drop me off at work but, at the end of the day, i get surprises like, "i'm going out with my buddy can't make it, i'm already home and tired, or, i had a beer at home can't drive". He was making up excuses. It was not his priorty at all. He also asked me money for gas when he was broke. He also supposed to pay half of the car insurance bill but around 80% of the time he can't even pay me off.

I recently got a new job. I told my boyfriend that I will be driving to work. He instantly asked me where is my work and told me that I can take the bus. I asked him why when my dad gifted me a car so I can use. He said we have to figure something else so we both can use the car. I told him no, im taking my car to work and there is nothing wrong with that. He said I'm not making "our" lives easier. He was pissed off and told me sure you get what you want. He said he won't drive my car and i will pay for my own gas.

Ever since, his attitude has been different towards me. He seems disappointment at me for using my car 100%. I can tell he is really not liking that he now has to bus.

I couldn't help it but told a few friends. They all said the same thing that he is crazy. It is your car and he has no right to be mad at you taking your car to work. He should work hard and buy his own car if he really hates taking the bus.

I had an asthma attack lastnight. Whenever it happens, I am terrified because wake up being out of breathe. I used my puffer and it helps me to open up my lungs but side effect is coughing. You will cough out all the stuff so you can breathe.

I was coughing and coughing. My boyfriend woke up. It is not like somethig can be controlled by me. I kept coughing and he told me to go get some water. I know that water doesn't really help because you will end up still coughing the stuff out. I told him I just need to cough it out. Instead of being caring, he got so annoyed at my coughs that he started swearing and used his pillow to cover his head. I was still trying to catch my breathe and I got so upset at his rude behaviour. I started crying. He asked me very rudely if I want a glass of water. I was angry at that point while being sick and told him I don't need his help. He got so annoyed at that point. He ran down got me a glass of water. He slept downstairs and locked the dog in my bedroom. The dog woke me up from scratching the door so i let the dog out. I went downstairs and he was sleeping on the couch. I was like, seriously? He yelled at me saying how annoyed he was at my coughs and not doing anything about it. This morning when we were having a conversation, at first he wasn't even being apologetic. He stood hard saying that he only reacted the way he did because of my poor attitude? He also said I need to apologize for being rude to him when I wasn't feeling well. I didn't apologize because I stood strong that I did nothing wrong. I had to start a new conversation with him telling him that I am so hurt because how you reacted when I was coughing due to asthma. I was crying. He then admitted to me that his behavious was not acceptable and said sorry. But he is not doing anything about me feeling hurt. He just said moving forward eitheir I walk out of the room to cough or I cough into a pillow so next time argumentd won't happen.