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A common thread in mass shooters... grievances... leading to resentments. They become consumed in their negative emotions and plan and punish anyone and everyone. Makes them "feel good". What I wonder is why some people overcome grievances and others give into them.

"Grievance is not an emotion itself, but rather a feeling of resentment or complaint about a perceived wrong or hardship. It often involves emotions like anger, frustration, or sadness related to that perceived injustice."

I've felt that long ago and overcame it. Getting a good world view helps to see things clearly.

If you have wrong expectations of this world, feel powerless, leads to big problems in relating to the world.

I suspect grievance can turn into other social, subvertive ills as well...

https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/world-news/man-reveals-spine-chilling-question-33059836

60% of mass shootings are due to domestic disputes. Firearms are used in 2/3 of intimate partner homicides.

Another example: https://nypost.com/2025/12/14/us-news/6-teens-wounded-in-nyc-mass-shooting-at-event-hall/

A large number of relationships fail, from selection, to a few dates and few years. Our society is bombing out a lot. Something is very wrong in some cultures. Other cultures and sub groups, are doing very well.

Yea, that is how ridiculous things can get...

It ended up being too dry and salty, with not enough sauce. I've cooked before but it's been years since I did so when I was still studying. Based on what Grok told me, going for less than 4:1 ratio for water:pasta was my biggest mistakes, unless I planned to add more sauce (I didn't). Then of course I used a smaller, more narrow pot, which my dad told me to use a larger and wider pot next time. And of course I suck at measurements, so I ended up adding a bit too much salt (not so much that it overwhelmed the sauce, but enough for it to have a salty flavour). I intentionally overcooked the pasta past el dente because that's a personal preference, although the pot I used if I don't use oil the food will stick and burn at the bottom.