Ever been wronged and felt grievance towards others?

[lightbulb27]

A common thread in mass shooters... grievances... leading to resentments. They become consumed in their negative emotions and plan and punish anyone and everyone. Makes them "feel good". What I wonder is why some people overcome grievances and others give into them.

"Grievance is not an emotion itself, but rather a feeling of resentment or complaint about a perceived wrong or hardship. It often involves emotions like anger, frustration, or sadness related to that perceived injustice."

I've felt that long ago and overcame it. Getting a good world view helps to see things clearly.

If you have wrong expectations of this world, feel powerless, leads to big problems in relating to the world.

I suspect grievance can turn into other social, subvertive ills as well...

https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/world-news/man-reveals-spine-chilling-question-33059836

I've had grievance and feel better now

I still hold grievance to the world, and here's why

Never felt such a grievance that I'd want to hurt others

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[FreyaRed]

I experience rather short emotional phases, do I know how those emotions feel but their long term symptoms of emotional influence are rather clinical subject for me.
I think grievance is an obsession. People project in subconsciousness some kind of inferiority of themselves, then try to compensate it with aggression and disdain to the group they feel that occupies their mind.
However violence or hatred isn't always escalation of grievance. It's often a reason to suppress moral, like Jews do toward Palestinians. They just want to get rid of them and take the land Palestinians are living on. Of course Palestinians feel inferior because other Muslims don't really help the and Palestinians are incapable to hurt a nerve of Israel to destabilize them. That's why their actions look like uncontrolled rage outburst, like escalation of grievance.
The best solution to prevent terror is to stop importing and deporting potential terrorist. However western elites don't want that because a little bit terror causes fear and fear is good tool to control their own population.

Of course other mass shooting have different backgrounds but there is a pattern.

[lightbulb27]

good thoughts on what's going on inside.
Deporting is good, but terror is global as we see. that's why bush took the path he did, which is likely I suspect, where we go again as those behaviors spread.

[Snowman84]

School shooters are nothing but spineless cowards, a bunch of weak incel boys who do nothing with their lives except pull on their pathetic peckers, doom scroll and collect assault weapons.

[lightbulb27]

a lot are aren't they... could probably chock up a 100+ deaths to guys failure to be socially accepted by girls. a few just gone nuts. one dude in 70's had a tumor in his head.

[Sal_Monella]

My ex-wife, AKA Beelzebub, is a monster. I must have had my head up my ass when I decided to marry her.

[lightbulb27]

yea the hormones can distort the thinking, and some are skilled MANipulators.

[noohair]

I have been f**ked over and I let it go so I can grow moving forward.

[lightbulb27]

sorry to hear that, better days ahead.

[NathanDavis]

I've never wanted to shoot up a place... no