Have you ever regretted treating someone wrong?

[Anonymous]

Yes

no

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes. When I was a kid, there were a few kids in my group that other people used to pick on and make fun of. And I went along with the crowd. That is the greatest regret of my entire life. I was a follower, I showed a lack of integrity, and I was wrong. It grieves my spirit to think of what a weak and easily corrupted person I was. And I was part of the problem. I will never get over this; it will haunt me forever.

Thankfully no one got beat up and no one committed suicide. And they actually all turned out as well-adjusted, successful people. But it could have been very different. And it is chilling to think about that possibility.

[Jamie05rhs]

What makes it worse is I wasn't even cool myself. So I was a traitor.

[FilmGuy93]

Eh... kind of? It's more like I regret the way situations worked out, but usually those situations are ones that I'm in the middle of, but are outside of my control for whatever reason. I tend to treat people how I want to be treated.

[Smashingdoozy]

Of course. Any time I have bad days I feel incredibly guilty after for the shitty things I said

[Asker]

I would have never expected that from you tbh. I'm impressed.

[Smashingdoozy]

I have BPD, prior to being diagnosed I was a horrible person to be around quite often, I lost friends because of it. Now that I'm on proper medication and have been to therapy for it I'm much better, but I still have my bad days. Obviously it's not an excuse for being a shitty person but it does make it harder to control what comes out of my mouth in those down moments.

[OddBeMe]

I have so many regrets. And most probably never happened.

Research shows a good portion of our "memories" are false. No so much all of it, but parts are made up in your mind, amalgamated, etc...

[exitseven]

I have but I have also regretting not giving somebody the beating they so richly deserved so it all balances out.

[CloudMassacre]

I don’t regret it. I’m pretty selective with my meanness

[Blackcupcake]

I can’t think of anyone I have treated wrong…

[Asker]

That's scary.

[Blackcupcake]

lol maybe

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes, definitely.

[Sandeeppingping]

No I don't