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I find myself curious. I don't know the actual statistics and I feel it would be hard to find stats about gossip but I will share my experience.

Personally I find that lots of guys who actually can cheat easily do openly talk about it with their guy friends. I'd say over 50%. Notice I said guys who can, meaning guys who are at least attractive enough to have options. For me personally, the people closest to me are pretty attractive but devoted to their partners, and I absolutely love them too. I feel I am good at surrounding myself with loyal people, but outside of my closest friends and family, this commitment is lacking. I also work in an environment with lots of attractive people, so it is hard for the guys and the girls not to at least take some glances, and I do not see anything wrong with this, but there are definitely plenty of people guys trying or actually cheating on their partner. I have definitely spoken to girls who are like this too, but I am also careful at work when I am talking to a woman because sexual harassment cases have been an issue here. Some have definitely falsely gone in the women's favor due to the nature of our society.

On Halloween night I hit up a kava bar that I like to frequent. I’m not an alcoholic but I’ve really stayed away from booze in the last few years just for health reasons. The place is meant for recovery.

While I went to order a kava drink I noticed that bartender was dressed in a provocative sexy nurse uniform costume. She was showing cleavage.

I was acquaintances with this girl. Knew her first name. We had briefly friendly conversations in the past. She is cute but I never hit on her. I was always respectful. I am guessing she’s in her mid 20s.

Anyway my eyes instinctively glanced at her body and when I realized I was staring I quickly turned away. Again she was dressed provocatively.

Despite catching myself it was too late. She noticed that I noticed and she didn’t like it. She then gave me gave me the “don’t stare at me you creep” look.

And that really pissed me off. Of course I never did nor ever will say anything stupid. My eyes instinctively noticed for a good second but it’s not like I kept on staring. I didn’t indulge the thought. What right does she have to judge me given she fricken dressed up that way to get noticed to begin with?

Anyway I can’t control how people are going to think. But this is a major hypocrisy I see in women. They dress provocatively expecting to only get attention from where they want it vs. naively expecting not get noticed from where they don’t.

Hate that.

Headlines say not smiling is more attractive and more sexy, especially with photos of guys.

Then I hear girls ask why don't guys smile more.

Which is it?