Guys, what is going through his mind? Will he talk to me soon?

[Anonymous]

there's this guy who is a year younger than me, and since like 2 months ago he is constantly staring at me or trying to make eye contact with me. im a little confused because girls have heard him say he's waiting to high school to date and then 1 saying he said he's not dating for sports. and my friend sees it happening and she's saying he always gets stiff when he sees me and that he's either looking at me or the cieling. I feel that he likes me, here's some examples: I was walking in the hallway w my friend during passing period and he popped up and he was passing us and he saw me and quickly looked away and got all stiff with his shoulders and couldn’t look at me while I was looking at him
I was talking to a group of girls and he was behind me talking to a group of guys towards my left and my friend was watching bc my back was turned from him and she said he first looked over at me and looked me up n down, and the looked away, and then he glanced over at me again, and then looked away, and then he looked me up n down again all while he was having a conversation.

he constantly will pause mid conversation w friends to look at me. he was lifting laying down and he peaked up and this guy was spotting him and they both looked up to me staring while I was walking by through the door window.

he one time passed me in the hallway and out of no where he’s so close to me passing me and and I look up and he staring at me and he looked away and then I looked at him and we made eye contact and then he quickly looked away and then I looked away quickly. he spots me immediately in the hallways and one time we were passing each other and I was with my friend and he was staring at me until we got close and he looked down at the floor.

and my friend and I were turning a corner in the hallway and we cut them off and he was behind his friend his friend like teased me or something made a face and a noise at me trying to intimidate me or mess w me when he was right behind the guy.

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oh and during a game we were on the sidelines and he kept standing so close to me and like hovering

[Alex-Snow]

It sounds like he likes u but is probably nervous or shy. I'm only 19 and I remember being that way. Just smile, be urself and see how it goes. Do u follow him on social?

As u know being a teenager (guy or girl) is weird at times, with everyone getting use to puberty, blending in, trying to be social and liked etc. Hang in there! What r ur thoughts?

[Asker]

I don't have social and neither does he. I know im a year older im a sophomore and he's a freshmen (he's also the qb for our freshmen a team) but im sure that already intimidates him since im older. also I don't wanna be the one to say anything first because I know that that's a mans job and I don't want him to run away or anything from me or thinking im desperate. I def think he likes me I just want him to make a move. but I understand it'll take time. from your understanding from what I said do you think he will soon?

[Alex-Snow]

Hard to tell. It IS on for a girl to initiate the convo or show interest. It does not always have to be a guy thing and it does not mean u are desperate. I think it would be any freshman guys dream to have a sophomore who is a friend or even a girlfriend. But I think he just may be nervous especially since he probably new to girls or even a potential girlfriend.

[Alex-Snow]

I could talk 2 u more about it on chat but I would have to respect ur age and ur anon atm

[Asker]

okay that works

[Alex-Snow]

Well message m if u ever want... but that is ur choice always!

[Asker]

ok I messaged you

[slatyb]

Probably not. He's crushing on you but he's afraid to tell you. He fears rejection or ridicule.

[Wise4myage]

I think he definitely likes you, but he's very shy and that is stopping him from making a move to get to know you better.

[Wise4myage]

Try approaching him and introduce yourself.

[Asker]

my thing here is that I've been taught not to chase guys and I fear that if I were to talk first it'd run him off

[Wise4myage]

Well, you won't know unless you try right? And if he runs off, then its his loss. Introducing yourself does not mea you are chasing him.

[Asker]

hm well does it sound like he'll try soon?

[Wise4myage]

Maybe, but don't wait forever for him. He needs to realize that girls lose interest at some point.

[Wise4myage]

He needs to grow a set of balls.

[Asker]

um he may or may not be a quarterback too but he doesn't talk to girls but I've heard girls tell him that their friends like him and he never liked them

[Wise4myage]

Maybe he's gay?

[Asker]

I don't know but he watches me from afar when I walk by until he can't see my anymore

[Wise4myage]

Listen, here is what you should do. When he looks at you, smile and wave. If he ignores you, then he's beyond help, lol. And its time for you to move on.

[Asker]

I think if a guy wants you he'll make it known, but I think good things are worth while and waiting on

[Wise4myage]

Ok, good luck to you and Merry Christmas.

[In_Trance]

Imagine waiting for someone to talk to you when you haven't talked to them first...
Unreal

And you wonder where communication issues begin?

[Asker]

my thing here is that I've been taught not to chase guys and I fear that if I were to talk first it'd run him off

[jimmy14532]

Yea he'll probs talk to u soon