Girls never approach me so I don't feel like I am attractive, but when I approach the most attractive girls, they like me. Why don't they approach me?

[Anonymous]

Just from this info alone, what do you think might be the reason?

Is it just a girl thing to wait? Also, even when I do approach them, they take a little time to start liking me. So not right away but not after a long time either. Does this mean I have some seriously good swag/personality? Do women just need a little time to decipher if I'm attractive cuz I'm just kinda attractive at first glance? Hmmm so curious

[LiamJHayden]

The average woman can pull a lot more attention than an average guy, so the guy has to make an effort.

A lot of guys are wimpy so the conventionally stunning ladies often get approached little because those guys assume they'll say "No."

[Fireguy17]

Most/many women just sit around and wait to be asked, so you end up making the first move.

[Nikki1989]

Most women don't have to approach because men who have their shit together will approach anyway.

[Abbycado]

Most girls just wait until approached. Is it right? No, but that is what happens.

[ForsakenQuill]

Women don’t do the approaching. That’s only something men do apparently. Women wouldn’t be able to handle all of the rejection anyway

[RedInnocent69]

Yeah, girls don’t do that as often as they probably should.