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As the title stated, can career and marriage goes hand in hand?
Or you can’t? Because you have to be super focus on pursuing your career so you can’t get married yet. I’m asking to everyone here. Not just men but women as well. Maybe you can share your story? I’ll start with mine..
My boyfriend told me that he couldn’t marry me yet because he’s still pursuing his career. He’s a CFO of an investment company. I’m working as well and never asked him for anything because I’m making enough to make myself comfortable. In my life, career doesn’t mean everything. Maybe because I’m not super ambitious. I was. But now, I’m content. I will even say, even if my boss gonna give me a higher position with double salary, I will say no to that. I don’t want extra burden.
My boyfriend and I been in this relationship for more than a year. We are 31 (me) and 33 (him) y/o. That’s a good age to get married and in my culture, I’m a bit over time already. When you’re 31 and single, a lot of people will be giving you the look. 👀
We lived together already and I thought he will pop the question some time this year or next year perhaps. But I’m in so much surprise that I lost my voice.
He said that he couldn’t marry me yet. He wants to focus on his career and doesn’t know when he wants to get married yet. Maybe when he’s 35,37 or even 40. He just don’t know yet. So he decided to end our relationship because he knew at some point, I want to get married. I don’t wanna waste my time waiting for something that uncertain.
So, here I am, asking your story.

I have already met my soulmate who i can never be together with and we aren't in contact anymore. He helped me and i helped him and our roles in each other's lives are over. So i don't have to worry about "the one"
The biggest deal breaker in a relationship for me is cheating and i have always advised a break up if your SO cheats. Cheating is the same reason why i am scared to be in a relationship too. It seems that many people here and irl supports cheating too. I had a guy tell me he will pour sulphuric acid on to my face because i asked a girl to break up with her cheating boyfriend. I know a female user here who everyone compliments on how she's such a submissive good girlfriend while she's flirting and sexting her guy friend. Even some of my friends in committed relations talk about new crushes and flirting with hot losers.(They say it's for fun)
Whenever i express my hatred towards cheating, people ask "Did you get cheated on or something?". Obviously i did not. But i feel like what they're saying is i don't have the right to be upset about cheating.
Anyway i got a player guy who have always wanted to "date" me since i am not easy and i am 99.9% sure he will cheat. So if i date him and when he cheats, i may finally be able to get rid of my fear. Once i become immune, i believe that i won't be always thinking if my future SO (someone i love) is cheating and even if he is, I would be used to it.
You would feel like i am being a hypocrite rn so i will stop expressing my anger towards cheating and such questions from this moment onwards. And yes i am alright being a miserable girl who would probably be pitied on (Ik i need help🤷‍♀️).