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First Date Questions Part 2: The Questions Not To Ask

First Date Questions Part 2: The Questions Not To Ask

So, I recently posted a mytake about questions you could ask on a first date. But more as a way to get a conversation going or steer the conversation if it's going into uncomfortable territory(not meant to mean just fire questions at your date like an Inquisition)

First Date Questions/Conversation Starters...

The reason I posted that take was after posting a question about weird first date questions and the responses to that post:

What was the weirdest question a date has asked you and how did you respond?

First Date Questions Part 2: The Questions Not To Ask

Which is also the reason I'm posting this take. You'd think it would be common sense but as these questions are taken from above linked post, these are actual questions users have been asked on a date...

So, this is just a sample of some of the questions you may not want to ask on the first date if you want a second date(or a good way to sabatoge the date if you don't want there to be a second date🤣)

I had to start with this one:

She asked-What would you say if I was married?
This one got me. Why would you be on a date if you're married. And why would you think it was okay not to disclose that fact before the date but spring out on your date during the date?

First Date Questions Part 2: The Questions Not To Ask

As you will see, most of these questions involve sex in some way. I get being horny, lonely, longing for or wanting sex. But if you come off too strong too soon, not only won't you most likely not get sex, you most likely won't get a second date. People that start to fast out of the gate rarely make it to the finish line....

He asked-How are you in bed?"
Me - "That's none of your business

She asked-Do you like giving oral?

He asked-If I wanted to see his semen under a microscope.

First Date Questions Part 2: The Questions Not To Ask


She asked- I was asked for permission to be jacked off into a specimen cup


He asked-How many times have you fucked on a first date? To which i replied..."not enough times for you to feel confident!"


She asked-Have I ever been with a prostitute? And I responded with, "No, Why have you ever been one?"


He asked-are you up to being filmed doing a lesbian 3some and maybe a 4some

First Date Questions Part 2: The Questions Not To Ask


She asked-“would you ever fuck a girl while her little sister watched? And would it make you harder?”


He asked -If I can fit my fist in my mouth

She asked-Do your parents have sex?"

He asked-asked if I shaved, what dimensions were my who ha, do I least wash myself daily

She asked- "how often do you manscape?"

She asked-Do you have clean boxers on?"


He asked-Your tits are huge do you suck your own nipples when you masturbate?

She asked-would you beat up my ex boyfriend, if I give you " something in return" ( we all know what )?"

First Date Questions Part 2: The Questions Not To Ask

He asked: What's your credit score?

She asked-how much money I had

Asking someone about their money or financial information on a first date not only is none of your business, but makes it look like all you care about is how much money they have our don't have.

It is important to know people's kinks, sexual habits, and other important information, but the first date isn't the best time.A first date should be more to see if there's any physical appeal, if you like their personality. If it's someone you have an interest in getting to know better. When you move too soon, you ruin it before it even has a chance to get started.

First Date Questions Part 2: The Questions Not To Ask

Slow down, get to know someone, have fun, let them get comfortable with you, then have those discussions about sex, money, etc ..

If all you're looking for is sex or a hook up, you should be upfront about that before the date, not during the date. If you want more than that, then let the way you treat them on the first date reflect that. Some people may be okay broaching sex topic on the first date, others are not. But when ñ doubt, just don't.

First Date Questions Part 2: The Questions Not To Ask

As always, thanks for reading💛💛

"Brainsbeforebeauty"😘

First Date Questions Part 2: The Questions Not To Ask
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