Wouldn't say anything is forbidden as long as it's framed appropriately, at the right time and so on. Like I've had girls tell me their weight without me having to outright ask.
Because truthfully I'm good at guessing female weight based on height, build, muscle mass and so on. Every now and then I'll say something like, *stands up straight* "my goodness you're short"
She'll almost always say, "I'm not short!" Or some variation. I'll say a height guess like 5'3. She'll tell me if I'm spot on or correct me slightly. Then I follow with "145?" (If I'm confident that's about her range.
She'll tell me "close" or "YES!" If I'm off I'll say "I can't imagine you're any more than 148 tops. But you look 138-145". Then the girl tells me her weight. But by this point it was a fun little, playful experience where she wasn't getting all insecure or anxious about her weight.
Most girls are caught up in how close you are, if you're good at weight guessing. Similar to guessing astrology, their age, what they do for a living, if they were a dancer or an athlete. Something about them you just seem to know
If it's a first date, keep it light and general. No, tell me about your ex... No mental health questions. No how many children or do you like children. Ask about how they like to spend their free time etc. What's their fave movie, TV show, are they savers or spenders? Hobbies. Where they've traveled to. What college, first job? Let THEM do the talking and let their talking GUIDE you to additional questions. And then, forget all the questioning and go for a walk and sightsee. Don't make it too heavy.
@yofuknutz its not your usual dating situation tbh. 1st time we went out , i thought it was a friendly "hang out" and he thought it was a date. 2nd time we saw each other, he thought it was a "hang out" and I thought it was a date... xDDD rofl. we've only been talking for 1.5 month. And we confessed to each other obviously, but we wanna get to know each other more before saying we want to be together and commit to that. We both have almost no filter though. So that's why its been kind of intense. But i really appreciate his honesty. We both have a lot of character and values we live by
I think a question better off being avoided is asking about past partners/sexual experiences. I understand why people ask that question, however, I don't think that's a super necessary question. I don't think it's very important either. You can't really enjoy your time much when you're thinking about someone's past like that.
Kinjite, forbidden subjects, only exist in Japanese culture, or similar backwards cultural norms. in countries who are socially advanced in other ways, but still behead people caught masterbating, which is a capital offense in Indonesia and the Middle East, if you believe the unsupported, unsupportable misinformation that is circulating the web. That's not to say that none of these rumors are not true, only that it says that they are, in fact rumors, and not established supportable fact by any means, available on the web that I've seen. Don't tell old school traditionalist this, or they may start sharpening their Katanas and Scimitars. In regards too first date ethics, a date is not an engagement for marriage, so discretion is basically common sense, or should be, anyway. If you are dating...
There is a nice mnemonic you can remember, it's a acronym. The acronym is R. A. P. E. It stands for Religion, Abortion, Politics and Economy. That's the most important topics not to talk about on a date. And of course, don''t talk about your ex (es), body counts, heath problems, psychological problems etc.
Things to talk about on a first date, this is also an acronym. The acrionym is F. O. R. D. It stands for Family, Occupation, Recreation (leasure, hobby etc), and Dreams (what are yoru dreams etc). It doesn't matter where you start, you can talk first about occupation and then dreams, or recreaction or family. There isn't an order.
i always say to ask all the deal-breaker questions first so do ask the forbidden questions first. Maybe ask them after some getting to know the basics but i for sure want to know the deal breaker stuff on first date. Cause date 2 would be a waste of time for me and her if we have a deal breaker.
Always a great idea to ask the following questions:
-Ask questions about her ex A LOT -About her sexual preferences and kinks -Personal questions (like her weight and history underneath the sheets) -Ask if she could confirm her age -How much she's making -What she's driving -If she brought her wallet -If she knows how to take care of children -If she likes housekeeping -If she's stupid -If she knows how to read -If she can walk and talk like a normal person -If she's secretly a suicide bomber -If she's ginger underneath that wig -If mouthwash isn't common where she's from -If she had a fight with her stylist recently -If that's her natural skin colour -If she's naked underneath her clothes -If she's also against women rights -If she considered becoming a camgirl
That's stupid but I know it works depending on the girl, YES the majority of this questions it's to know better the girl, but you surely don't need to be that subtle and ask her if she's a suicidal bomber squad! 😑c'mon dude! You can do better🤣
Imagine: "How much you make?" - you "50k this year" - her "Nice! Because I would need some extra ca$h..😈!" She asks "why?" "It's For my health insurance 🚬💊💉🪔🗞💰💸🛒"
I had a guy as part of a group I went out with who asked two girls "So do you have 'Daddy issues'?" And I'm pretty sure that's a terrible pickup line and a terrible first date question. Realistically a taboo first date question for me would be "Tell me your life story?" That takes trust, and this is a first date.
“ do you have room for a dog/cat/ pet ”“ do you own a truck?”“ how do you feel about moving to another state?”“ do you have a spare bedroom you're not using?”“ how do you feel about adopting a pet?”“ do you have any friends not doing anything next Saturday?”
1.) How much do you make 2.) Could you lend me $20.00 3.) Don't take simple calls on your cell phone that is not emergency 4.) I'm not the marrying type
How many men / women have you been with? How much money do you make? Can I borrow a few bucks? If things work out, would you be open to getting married this year?
I'm usually friends with a woman before we ever start dating so I already know everything about her. In one case we even moved in together before we ever dated.
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How much money do you make? Do you swallow? Do you do anal? How many children do you want eventually?
personally i go all out politically which is probably something to avoid. but i almost out of my 20s times to find a wife, so im looking for marriage not a quick fuck, so i want to have similar values and politics say a lot about values
Oh I don’t really care. If I’m into you I’m gonna be into you. Talking about exes is definitely weird though. But I’ve never had that happen. Otherwise I say be open and honest, I want to see who you are.
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