What kind of questions/topics are off limits to you on a first date?

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If any at all.

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

for me to be asked... I don't consider anything off limits, as long as I don't mind the questions asked, I mean yes... there's such a thing as "too soon" but I would consider a question/answer just a conversation, right?

and not a decision-making time, for example...

if she were wondering about marriage, having children... things like this that would matter to her, I would be fine if this is a conversation to know about the other BUT I would not be okay if she were making about "decided now" lol, that would be too much... and too soon

OtterMan68 · Accepted Answer

"Can I see a photo of your mom, so I know how you'll turn out?" "Do you have a hotter sister?" "Are you pregnant?" "What's your social security number?" "Will you marry me?"

petitedollbabee · Accepted Answer

Sexual topics. I date to find a partner, not a hookup. Asking me sexual questions on a first date tells me that you’re not looking for something serious. Trauma topics are also off limits for a first date. I don’t want to end up trauma bonding with someone, so I don’t disclose personal info like that until much later on when asked.

IslaTheWitch · Accepted Answer

As in conversation, I'm quite open. Maybe talking about very personal stuff could make me feel a bit uncomfortable. I like to take my time.

Somoneelse · Answer

Questions about sex, my previous bedpartners or experience included, questions about who else I talk to, those typical trap questions like "would you move to the other side of the country if I decided to move there?", Trauma topics. Actually everything that's private, is about my trauma's/darkness or gives me a feeling the person only wants a cheap-sexhookup are a big no-no.

loveslongnails · Answer

I think getting "too personal" or intimate on a first date is risky. That said, it's important to understand each other's basic core values so you know you're both not wasting one another's time.

Titanic1912 · Answer

Quite a few questions are off limits. What I usually ask a woman on a first date is a lot of questions about her interests and if she likes what I like, it breaks the ice and we begin to talk about it intensively.

DizzyDesii · Answer

“Do you want to go back to my place?” Sex or not, im not going back to someones house that soon

TadCurious · Answer

Bella, definitely for me would be any questions or discussion about the woman's dating/romantic past including anything sexual.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Anything personal or invasive. Your past is nobodies else's business.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I don't see a ''first'' date as some kind of interview. So I have no specific questions/s. Just see who she is at this point.

spartan55 · Answer

@beebella 🐝 I won't ask certain questions or bring up certain topics on a first date.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Asking me how much do I make / what kind of income that I have, this means they're snooping around.

SweetDripp · Answer

For me, anything sexual or about past relationships is something inappropriate for a first date.

Fireguy17 · Answer

I will answer any question, but don't ask if you aren't prepared for the answer.

Still-alive · Answer

Im ok with anything but i tend to keep my political and sexual opinions to myself until a few more dates in or if she brings it up first.

RedInnocent68 · Answer

None. I’m well known for having very few boundaries.

Sparkie460 · Answer

I don't date anymore since I'm married but I've always been an open book. I'll answer all questions

Squatting_Slav · Answer

Sexual stuff, I prefer to get to know her as a person and focus on what's important

Fuentes · Answer

I don't date I smash so we can meet up and skip all that lol

dolemite58 · Answer

Nothing too serious about like marriage or having kids that’s just a mood killer 😂

Kaneki05 · Answer

Anything can be asked

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

My child and anything sexual

Slim57 · Answer

How much money I make

Roudyrebel8 · Answer

I try to be open

IloveWinters · Answer

Sex topics on first date is a no go

Anonymous · Answer

Used to be age. hahaha

riverrat3 · Answer

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