If any at all.
Some kind of questions/topics are off limits
No kind of questions/topics are off limits to me, tbh
I don't date
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for me to be asked... I don't consider anything off limits, as long as I don't mind the questions asked, I mean yes... there's such a thing as "too soon" but I would consider a question/answer just a conversation, right?
and not a decision-making time, for example...
if she were wondering about marriage, having children... things like this that would matter to her, I would be fine if this is a conversation to know about the other BUT I would not be okay if she were making about "decided now" lol, that would be too much... and too soon
"Can I see a photo of your mom, so I know how you'll turn out?"
"Do you have a hotter sister?"
"Are you pregnant?"
"What's your social security number?"
"Will you marry me?"
Sexual topics. I date to find a partner, not a hookup. Asking me sexual questions on a first date tells me that you’re not looking for something serious. Trauma topics are also off limits for a first date. I don’t want to end up trauma bonding with someone, so I don’t disclose personal info like that until much later on when asked.
As in conversation, I'm quite open. Maybe talking about very personal stuff could make me feel a bit uncomfortable. I like to take my time.
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Questions about sex, my previous bedpartners or experience included, questions about who else I talk to, those typical trap questions like "would you move to the other side of the country if I decided to move there?", Trauma topics. Actually everything that's private, is about my trauma's/darkness or gives me a feeling the person only wants a cheap-sexhookup are a big no-no.
Quite a few questions are off limits. What I usually ask a woman on a first date is a lot of questions about her interests and if she likes what I like, it breaks the ice and we begin to talk about it intensively.
“Do you want to go back to my place?” Sex or not, im not going back to someones house that soon
And by that, im saying whether he's suggesting sex or not. I highly doubt he wants to go play video games
I think getting "too personal" or intimate on a first date is risky. That said, it's important to understand each other's basic core values so you know you're both not wasting one another's time.
Bella, definitely for me would be any questions or discussion about the woman's dating/romantic past including anything sexual.
I don't see a ''first'' date as some kind of interview.
So I have no specific questions/s. Just see who she is at this point.
@beebella 🐝 I won't ask certain questions or bring up certain topics on a first date.
For me, anything sexual or about past relationships is something inappropriate for a first date.
Anything personal or invasive. Your past is nobodies else's business.
I will answer any question, but don't ask if you aren't prepared for the answer.
Im ok with anything but i tend to keep my political and sexual opinions to myself until a few more dates in or if she brings it up first.
None. I’m well known for having very few boundaries.
I don't date anymore since I'm married but I've always been an open book. I'll answer all questions
Sexual stuff, I prefer to get to know her as a person and focus on what's important
I don't date I smash so we can meet up and skip all that lol
Nothing too serious about like marriage or having kids that’s just a mood killer 😂
Anything can be asked
My child and anything sexual
How much money I make
Sex topics on first date is a no go
I try to be open
Used to be age. hahaha
Ask me anything
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