What kind of questions/topics are off limits to you on a first date?

[beebella]

If any at all.

Some kind of questions/topics are off limits

No kind of questions/topics are off limits to me, tbh

I don't date

[NathanDavis]

for me to be asked... I don't consider anything off limits, as long as I don't mind the questions asked, I mean yes... there's such a thing as "too soon" but I would consider a question/answer just a conversation, right?

and not a decision-making time, for example...

if she were wondering about marriage, having children... things like this that would matter to her, I would be fine if this is a conversation to know about the other BUT I would not be okay if she were making about "decided now" lol, that would be too much... and too soon

[OtterMan68]

"Can I see a photo of your mom, so I know how you'll turn out?"

"Do you have a hotter sister?"

"Are you pregnant?"

"What's your social security number?"

"Will you marry me?"

[petitedollbabee]

Sexual topics. I date to find a partner, not a hookup. Asking me sexual questions on a first date tells me that you’re not looking for something serious. Trauma topics are also off limits for a first date. I don’t want to end up trauma bonding with someone, so I don’t disclose personal info like that until much later on when asked.

[IslaTheWitch]

As in conversation, I'm quite open. Maybe talking about very personal stuff could make me feel a bit uncomfortable. I like to take my time.

[Somoneelse]

Questions about sex, my previous bedpartners or experience included, questions about who else I talk to, those typical trap questions like "would you move to the other side of the country if I decided to move there?", Trauma topics. Actually everything that's private, is about my trauma's/darkness or gives me a feeling the person only wants a cheap-sexhookup are a big no-no.

[Titanic1912]

Quite a few questions are off limits. What I usually ask a woman on a first date is a lot of questions about her interests and if she likes what I like, it breaks the ice and we begin to talk about it intensively.

[DizzyDesii]

“Do you want to go back to my place?” Sex or not, im not going back to someones house that soon

[DizzyDesii]

And by that, im saying whether he's suggesting sex or not. I highly doubt he wants to go play video games

[loveslongnails]

I think getting "too personal" or intimate on a first date is risky. That said, it's important to understand each other's basic core values so you know you're both not wasting one another's time.

[TadCurious]

Bella, definitely for me would be any questions or discussion about the woman's dating/romantic past including anything sexual.

[andreasderjuengere]

I don't see a ''first'' date as some kind of interview.

So I have no specific questions/s. Just see who she is at this point.

[spartan55]

@beebella 🐝 I won't ask certain questions or bring up certain topics on a first date.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Asking me how much do I make / what kind of income that I have, this means they're snooping around.

[SweetDripp]

For me, anything sexual or about past relationships is something inappropriate for a first date.

[Nikki1989]

Anything personal or invasive. Your past is nobodies else's business.

[Fireguy17]

I will answer any question, but don't ask if you aren't prepared for the answer.

[Still-alive]

Im ok with anything but i tend to keep my political and sexual opinions to myself until a few more dates in or if she brings it up first.

[RedInnocent68]

None. I’m well known for having very few boundaries.

[Sparkie460]

I don't date anymore since I'm married but I've always been an open book. I'll answer all questions

[Squatting_Slav]

Sexual stuff, I prefer to get to know her as a person and focus on what's important

[Fuentes]

I don't date I smash so we can meet up and skip all that lol

[dolemite58]

Nothing too serious about like marriage or having kids that’s just a mood killer 😂

[Kaneki05]

Anything can be asked

[KittygosMeoWW]

My child and anything sexual

[Slim57]

How much money I make

[IloveWinters]

Sex topics on first date is a no go

[Roudyrebel8]

I try to be open

[Anonymous]

Used to be age. hahaha

[riverrat3]

Ask me anything