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Alright so I have a date in a few days with someone I matched with on a dating app and she hasn’t been the most talkative person BUT when I asked if she wanted to go out so we can talk in person she seemed to like that better. Anyway-

I’m 23 she’s 22
I have a few questions. Is mini golf too cliche? There’s not too much to do in our area and there’s only so much interactive date options ya know? I figure it’s a classic and it’s less pressure on us both than like going out to dinner. Holding hands is fine right? The only thing I’m really worried about is if I should kiss her at the end of the night when I take her home like- I suck at reading people in general! What if any signals should I look out for? Should be a quick peck right? But not too quick?- I need help😭😂 please and thank you

SueShe · Accepted Answer

Minigolf is perfect. It is a public place and the time of the day is usually during daytime. All the ingredients to make her feel comfortable.

Dinner on the other hand is usually an evening activity and probably ending when it is night. Therefore, it could be a little more delicate for her. Furthermore, usually, you have drinks with dinner and that may be a little conflicting because of the risk of being intoxicated. Also, depending on where she lives, she may need a lift back to her place. It is better for her to home alone.

Holding hands on first date is okay but not more than simply holding hands.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

Cliche is only bad if you are choosing entertainment or using generalizations to make a miscalculated decision. Social activities do not have to variegate from a common denominator to be strategically valuable.

Chazmatazz269 · Accepted Answer

Ask her what responsibility she bears for the failure of her past relationships.
If she utters any of the common classics “i picked the wrong guy”, or “he….”, throw her back. Most women lack accountability in relationships. They really do think it’s always the man’s fault. You can cut to the quick with one simple question that she’ll never see coming.

RedInnocent69 · Accepted Answer

Dinner. Have something to do, something to talk about, and a natural end point if it’s not working out.

Iron_Man · Answer

How about mini golf and dinner? I wouldn’t to kiss her on the mouth on the first date give her a kiss on the cheek

Harris2294 · Answer

Do what she likes. arrange a date as per her interest.

In_Trance · Answer

You're overthinking this

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