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Ok so think with me , anyone can be replaced, the world is full of men and woman and during our life’s we can have many relationships until you decide to get married. For me the getting married idea is very confusing because you are not choosing that person for being special you are just choosing it because the relationships that you had before didn’t worked or now you are old and worried about being alone or maybe now you have money for it but it doesn’t mean you are marrying someone special , doesn’t mean you will not be happy but

you are just marrying someone it could be anyone !

you will still being sexually attracted to other people after marriage but now you can’t be because you have a “special” person you still admiring other people and thinking about them romantically but now you can’t because you have someone “special”If the person is so “special “ it should not exist the rest of the world ! The other man and woman should be aliens to your eyes ! they basically should stoop existing and no one else would be able to attract you
But
that is not what happens...
tell me your opinion

Or is it because creepy guys just approach and follow EVERYONE around? 🤮

This guy kept staring at me, then approached me, then tried to follow me home and he was 40 years old! Wtf.

Do decent guys not bother with many girls?

I’ve seen young guys and older guys say this crap. Imagine how ugly and desperate you have to be as a person to need money to get someone to date you. You guys tell each other to get used for cash. Yet complain about gold diggers. Yet y’all complain about the divorce rate. Money only attracts gold diggers. It does not make the woman want the guy himself. Its literally the money that they want. They will date and do anyone. If you can’t get the women you want with a regular damn job, then obviously they don’t want you. Then when those type of women finally marry the guy, divorces his ass, and takes all his stuff, guys complain. Makes no sense. You guys don’t see women giving each other such stupid advice. Many guys are gold diggers who can be gotten with money as well. Yet we are not telling each other to be used for cash cause we are Not Dumb! There are lots of poor men with gfs and families. I’m sorry, guy or girl, if you need money to get someone of the opposite sex to date or fuck you, ya lame.