This guy kept staring at me, then approached me, then tried to follow me home and he was 40 years old! Wtf.
Do decent guys not bother with many girls?
That is something I can't answer fully. However, they are usually the single ones looking for a girl anyway :) all the decent men are probably taken like all the decent women :) except you of course or they might be so decent that they respect your privacy and space too. Just some theories and assumptions
"Do decent guys not bother with many girls?"
No, I am sure it is not like that.
Well, the reason you might be attracting certain type of men only could be because of the way you act, or the way you think and when you express your thinking etc. It is tough to say why exactly.
I don't know I have a boyfriend now and he’s the one that approached me. Before it was mostly creeps/guys I don’t like that approached me... sometimes you just have to wait for the right outgoing guy to come along lol
It could be in the energy that you give off or the way you dress. But honestly, that is just how some guys are and you happen to be near those kind of people.
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I think creeps can approach anyone , it's shame that all the Decent people seem
to be gone and you just never know who to trust , I would report to the police any
older Men that try to follow you home , take a picture of him with your phone and
keep it and give to the police , older Men shouldn't be doing that stuff to younger
Women that is crazy and sick.
You reap what you sow. If you really attract creepy guys a lot there are two options:
1. You have warped standards of what you consider creepy.
2. You do things that somehow attract creepy guys.
I agree with luvash, it's the energy you give off. you are a bit unique, but need to see more how you interact to sort it out. Somewhere in your sub conscious is the answer...
Probably because you look nice, soft features, compassionate and you’re attractive
So that combo makes the creeps feel they can approach you without much fuss and that you’ll probably be as kind as you can because thats the impression they got
A good amount of the men that aren't creepy are more cautious about approaching women because they don't want to get #Metoo'd or get accused of being creepy, so either they don't bother or they only approach women via dating apps.
Same reason why I seem to attract unattractive, crazy, or fat chicks; bad luck.
Oh look, I got downvoted, what a surprise
I'm sure you didn't, but some other female GAG user did, as you can see
It may be the places you frecuent, or just the fact that there are a lot more creeps than decent guys...
I think that happens a lot more then people think. This is why I have always told my female friends to not be out alone especially at night.
You should have called the police on him.
So if a guy is 40 he's creepy... got it. I think we discovered your problem.
I'm not saying this guy wasn't a creep he might have been i have no way of knowing. But why do older guys approach younger women? It's because they are jaded yet. As qomen get older the laundry list of what they EXPECT from a guy grows. The drawback to this the women are young and very immature. It's pick your poison for a guy.
@slatyb it is very unusual i'll admit there aren't many 18 year olds with the wherewithal to keep up with a 40 year old
But just curious do you hold the same view of a 30 /52 difference? How bout 40/62? Because when you come right down to it it's just age difference.
Anyone with a more than 10 year age difference the odds are stacked against them.
@slatyb did you even read what i just wrote? I said most 18 women don't have the wherewithal to keep up with a 40 year old guy. And based on the way that guy approached her he was a creep. That doesn't mean she gets to call all 40 year old guys creepy. And the fact that she repeatedly posts having this problem kind of tells me it's more her than them :) She doesn't have to listen nor do you. But reality doesn't change. Sorry.
Heck do I know, there's some weird people out there and yes I do see the irony with my name here but you get my point.
I personally never just talk to a random person unless the situation calls for it. Why would I disturb someone's day with trivial bullshit? 😂
Most decent guys don't persue every woman they ever see. And your idea of a decent man is probably what every single woman wants. So there's competition for you.
How do you know he wasn't a decent guy? Did you give him a chance?
LOL, but realistically, where do you go to meet guys.
I'm not sure what to tell you. Creeperz gonna creep, I guess. Don't you ever get approached by hot hunks?
I like telling people trivial stuff, I mean, isn't that what gag is now, trivial bullshit?
Same. I only attract old men and creeps
Creepy guys don’t really care what they say or do
A sounds plausible.
Dunno
Creep creep
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