With us White Queens so much crap online I thought I'd give some of those butthurt guys some advice if they hope to one day conquer the heart of a White Queen.
I'm not talking about the sexual kind, I'm talking about passion & enthusiasm for living their lives. This manifests in their daily lives in their work, their chores and hobbies like woodwork, fixing cars, mountain climbing, gardening, surfing.
A guy who helps his own community and others is so attractive as he's actively doing his part in making the world a better place. A guy who does volunteer work for the salvation army, Habitat for humanity, St Vincent Dr Paul's, Unicef, YMCA, church charities and soup kitchen.
Confidence is always attractive, a guy even if a little cocky or bravado is so sexy to every White Queen.
The dictionary describes the word as, honourable:
bringing or deserving honour.
"this is the only honourable course"
morally correct, honest, moral, ethical, principled, righteous, right-minded, full of integrity;decent, respected, respectable,venerable, virtuous, good,upstanding, upright, worthy,noble, high-principled, fair, just,truthful, trustworthy, trusty, law-abiding, incorruptible, reliable,reputable, dependable, faithful
"he took the honourable course and resigned"
illustrious, distinguished, eminent, great, admirable, glorious, prestigious, noble, notable, creditable, renowned, esteemed. What woman wouldn't want such a man.
Everyone is different but tall guys are coveted by most women. I've always been attracted to guys over 6ft, I know that makes me a super hypocritie as I'm a short oompa loompa at 4'10 but i can't help it.
I'm talking about guys who aren't trying to be like us women. Guys that like to hunt, fish, camp out, work out, martial arts, ride motorcycles, nights out with the lads and other silly stuff guys do. You might be pissed at them for their recklessness or stupidity but at the same time inside your smiling.
7. A Fighter.
I couldn't think of the right word to sum this up but man who knows how to handle himself and protect his woman is always attractive. I'm not talking about a thug who beats up on those weaker than himself but a guy that stands up for himself & his own, and knows how to do it. It could be a guy who grew boxing or wrestling, street fighting, jujitsu etc. My guy is big into MMA allow he doesn't get in the cage anymore I always feel safe with him because I know whether it's some wannabe gangsta thugs in London or gang rapist in places like Birmingham or Rotherham or some obnoxious aggressive twat in a club in Manchester that won't take no for an answer he can handle it. I think this is important to many women as if we are to marry & have kids with a guy we need to know he will & can fight to protect his family.
8. Athletic/ Strong
Guys who are athletic and strong are always attractive to White Queens, they just get our blood pumping.
A college education isn't always a gurantee of intelligence as some of the smartest most successful people have little education but It can be a real indicator. Personally for some reason I have always been attracted to men that are smarter than I, not that I'm a brain surgeon.
10. Financially secure/Ambitious
Not so much money but financial security and potential. Like I'm not going to date some guy with no ambition that's going nowhere who will waste years of my life as he gets high all evening in his parents home after working 25 hours a week flipping burgers for minimum wage. A woman is most vulnerable when she's pregnant and still very afterwards so we need a man that can take care of us during this time espicially if a mother intends to stay at home with her kids until they are old enough to go to school rather than pay babysitters, nannies and nurseries to basically raise their kids. We women are told we can have it all but the truth is somewhere along the line we make sacrifices big and small usually dictated by necessity.
11. Sense of Humour
A man with a sense of humour is very desirable, life can be hard and a sense of humour and fun goes a long way.
12. Family oriented
A great indicator of your future life with a guy is how he is with his family, if he looks out for them, looks after them and is always there for him, unless his family are just terrible people. But a guy who disrespects & abuses his parents (if they are good people) is not a guy I want to be with.
I'm sure I can go into the experience I'm talking about, you guys can guess.
12 Blue eyes/blonde hair (optional)
I've always been attracted to blonde haired blue eyes guys, my guy has blonde hair and blue eyes. If single I'm sure if make allowances for guys who are not.
Guys who can fix things around the home are attractive.
14. Drives a nice car
I know this juvenile and school girlish of me but i love a nice car. I love BMWs.
15. Has his own place.
Again hypocritical of me but sneaking around your parents house or up to a secluded spot in your car just is a mood killer.
A man who has many friends and can converse with in most social circles with ease.
I dont think I need to elaborate on this but it's probably the most important.
Everyone is different but they is just this White Queen. Please no hate. To be fair a lot of this describes my man.