The kind of Man Every White Queen wants to be her man, to be her King!!!

[Britantic]

With us White Queens so much crap online I thought I'd give some of those butthurt guys some advice if they hope to one day conquer the heart of a White Queen.

1. Passion.

I'm not talking about the sexual kind, I'm talking about passion & enthusiasm for living their lives. This manifests in their daily lives in their work, their chores and hobbies like woodwork, fixing cars, mountain climbing, gardening, surfing.

2. Kindness.

A guy who helps his own community and others is so attractive as he's actively doing his part in making the world a better place. A guy who does volunteer work for the salvation army, Habitat for humanity, St Vincent Dr Paul's, Unicef, YMCA, church charities and soup kitchen.

3. Confidence

Confidence is always attractive, a guy even if a little cocky or bravado is so sexy to every White Queen.

4. Honourable

The dictionary describes the word as, honourable:
adjective
1.
bringing or deserving honour.
"this is the only honourable course"
synonyms:
morally correct, honest, moral, ethical, principled, righteous, right-minded, full of integrity;decent, respected, respectable,venerable, virtuous, good,upstanding, upright, worthy,noble, high-principled, fair, just,truthful, trustworthy, trusty, law-abiding, incorruptible, reliable,reputable, dependable, faithful
"he took the honourable course and resigned"
illustrious, distinguished, eminent, great, admirable, glorious, prestigious, noble, notable, creditable, renowned, esteemed. What woman wouldn't want such a man.

5. Tall.

Everyone is different but tall guys are coveted by most women. I've always been attracted to guys over 6ft, I know that makes me a super hypocritie as I'm a short oompa loompa at 4'10 but i can't help it.

6. Masculine

I'm talking about guys who aren't trying to be like us women. Guys that like to hunt, fish, camp out, work out, martial arts, ride motorcycles, nights out with the lads and other silly stuff guys do. You might be pissed at them for their recklessness or stupidity but at the same time inside your smiling.

7. A Fighter.

I couldn't think of the right word to sum this up but man who knows how to handle himself and protect his woman is always attractive. I'm not talking about a thug who beats up on those weaker than himself but a guy that stands up for himself & his own, and knows how to do it. It could be a guy who grew boxing or wrestling, street fighting, jujitsu etc. My guy is big into MMA allow he doesn't get in the cage anymore I always feel safe with him because I know whether it's some wannabe gangsta thugs in London or gang rapist in places like Birmingham or Rotherham or some obnoxious aggressive twat in a club in Manchester that won't take no for an answer he can handle it. I think this is important to many women as if we are to marry & have kids with a guy we need to know he will & can fight to protect his family.

8. Athletic/ Strong

Guys who are athletic and strong are always attractive to White Queens, they just get our blood pumping.

9. Intelligent

A college education isn't always a gurantee of intelligence as some of the smartest most successful people have little education but It can be a real indicator. Personally for some reason I have always been attracted to men that are smarter than I, not that I'm a brain surgeon.

10. Financially secure/Ambitious

Not so much money but financial security and potential. Like I'm not going to date some guy with no ambition that's going nowhere who will waste years of my life as he gets high all evening in his parents home after working 25 hours a week flipping burgers for minimum wage. A woman is most vulnerable when she's pregnant and still very afterwards so we need a man that can take care of us during this time espicially if a mother intends to stay at home with her kids until they are old enough to go to school rather than pay babysitters, nannies and nurseries to basically raise their kids. We women are told we can have it all but the truth is somewhere along the line we make sacrifices big and small usually dictated by necessity.

11. Sense of Humour

A man with a sense of humour is very desirable, life can be hard and a sense of humour and fun goes a long way.

12. Family oriented

A great indicator of your future life with a guy is how he is with his family, if he looks out for them, looks after them and is always there for him, unless his family are just terrible people. But a guy who disrespects & abuses his parents (if they are good people) is not a guy I want to be with.

13.Experienced

I'm sure I can go into the experience I'm talking about, you guys can guess.

12 Blue eyes/blonde hair (optional)

I've always been attracted to blonde haired blue eyes guys, my guy has blonde hair and blue eyes. If single I'm sure if make allowances for guys who are not.

13. Handy

Guys who can fix things around the home are attractive.

14. Drives a nice car

I know this juvenile and school girlish of me but i love a nice car. I love BMWs.

15. Has his own place.

Again hypocritical of me but sneaking around your parents house or up to a secluded spot in your car just is a mood killer.

16.Outgoing

A man who has many friends and can converse with in most social circles with ease.

17. Loving

I dont think I need to elaborate on this but it's probably the most important.

Conclusion:

Everyone is different but they is just this White Queen. Please no hate. To be fair a lot of this describes my man.

[Lliam]

I met my wife through a dating service. One thing on my profile that she always says motivated her to respond to me was something like "I'm looking for my queen." lol

I think your MyTake list is interesting and well written. Thanks or sharing. Those are good traits. They show that you are pretty bad ass for a 4'10" sprite.

Obviously not all women are looking for all those things and not many men embody them all. But it's nice to see your honest preferences. It shows that you like real men.

[Lliam]

Thanks Britantic. :-)

[Logorithim]

These are all great ideals, but I dont think all of them are absolutely necessary, especially that he be tall.

[Adam_INTJ]

Most are unnecessary because she's delusional. She want to date someone better than Brad pitt!

[Britantic]

@Adam_INTJ brad Pitt is a geriatric

[pervertedjester]

I fail to see what the Guy gets out of all this.

[Britantic]

That's a different take

[ZeussLightningBolt]

A White Queen

[Liam_Hayden]

@ZeussLightningBolt More like just someone who thinks she but falls miles short.

[Britantic]

@Liam_Hayden why you acting so butthurt?

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Sounds like someone had a bad experience with a white queen

[devilman666]

The kind of white queen every king wants:
1 supportive, a supportive woman is the best because she will be there through thick and thin.

2 kindness, specifically a woman who puts in energy to helping her family and community is attractive.

3 confidence, insecure women just yell because they never know what they want or how they feel. Confident women will let their man talk because she knows she will get a turn to talk, but if she just starts shouting then it will become a fight.

4 pure/innocent, no one wants a woman who has been with hundreds of guys, plus it would be dishonourable to the man if he married an impure/indecent woman.

5. Short, specifically being below 5'6" is preferable for most real men, because it makes him feel more masculine, fake men will date tall girls because they dont want to be masculine.

6 feminine, she has to be supportive, pretty, innocent, and act like a lady, no one wants a woman to cuss like a sailor and look like an ogre.

7 a cheerleader, she has to give people close to her the emotional boost they need, she has to be there to stitch him back up after he gets into fights.

8 skinny/pretty. Obviously I want someone aesthetically pleasing and there is nothing wrong with that.

9 intelligent (but in different ways from men) women need to be responsible with money and wise, because we all know that women run the house, and without wisdom and intelligence then she will surely let her house and family crumble around her.

Financially secure, because it is so damn unattractive seeing 20-30 year old women rushing to get married. Just get a better job? But no, many just go and move in with her boyfriend after 4 months because she can't afford her own rent. My friend actually has a girlfriend like this, I get annoyed everytime I hear her say that she would be living on the street without him, like get a job? Grow up? Men aren't the only ones responsible enough to work. Also, it really isn't about money, I value financial security (aka, I just dont want to marry a woman who will make me poor)

11 a sense of responsibility, a woman who takes the lead and takes the blame instead of kaking excuses is very desirable.

12 work orientated, I might expect her to be a good mother and house keeper, but ofcourse she has to work hard too, she can't just focus on family all the time while I focus on both.

(Optional) white skin, blue eyes, blonde hair, smooth skin

13 good with children.

14 wear attractive outfits

15 lives with parents, no man qants a woman who is too independant.

Jesus this is still going?

16. Reserved, a woman shouldn't have too many friends.

17. Loving

I feel kinda bad now since you asked not to be mean, but I'm going to post it anyways since its already typed. If this is just supposed to be your ideal man then whatever, I thought you meant to imply that being a white queen was kind of like being a high status woman rather than an average one. So I tried to parody it.

[Britantic]

Dude why write this here, write a my take of your own, you already have most of it written and it ain't bad. Add some nice pictures and you are golden pony boy.😍😍😍😍

[devilman666]

Because I was just parodying what you wrote. Also, did you read it? What is nice about it?

[EmperorOfRussia]

I can't get it why there are many people throwing negativity at you. Instead of ranting, they just should use this as a learning experience to know better what traits women generally find attractive on men, it's natural that women feel attracted to men who show leader characteristics, wealth and power. I always advise young men to develop such qualities, especially since it would make their own lives interesting, too. Make your life better and you will make the lives of people around you better as well.

It's also worth highlighting that we ALL have to set high standards for relationships, if people think you are too demanding, it's just because they never have seen my dating requirements list when I was single. Lol. I thought I'd never get married because of it. We aren't really exclusive about some of these "requirements" as it could see when we talk about it, I always said I'm mostly attracted to brunettes, but I married a blonde girl. But with one's moral faults we shall be ruthless and rule weak-minded people out of our lives.

We are supposed to love ourselves and have self-respect, we want a better life for us too, how could we do it if we accept to be in a relationship with an uninteresting, failed soulmate with whom we would date for pity or for having no other option? That doesn't make sense. In short, I agree with you and I think your Take is great.

Having said all that, I'd just advise guys here to learn with your Take, to inspire themselves to make their lives better, to put their honour first in whatever situation they find themselves in, to honour and love their wives and girlfriends. But make no mistake, I'd say 98% of White women today are not worth of love, respect, validation and any kind of attention, because they have nothing more than their holes to offer. And they offer it to everyone and lose their only "value" in life. So it demands a great amount of good will from guys to make them think that those women (in the 98% side) are better than, let's say, prostitutes. Just don't be afraid to look for the 2%, fellows!

[motownplayer2000]

I can dig it. However a lot of that applies to a woman as well. Most women have this thing in there head that they would love to marry a rich guy and have that man carry them through life.. truth is, no man (unless he has a mental disorder) wants to carry a woman through life. A true man wants to know, if anything happened to him, will she be able to land on her feet? Or will she have to depend on another man to carry her. So this list does women a grave injustice. Women should have the confidence instilled in them, should know how to be handy, should be able to make there own money and not want to "marry rich" for obvious reasons. She should be able to make proper decisions to secure her own future, be intelligent, be an honorable woman and best of all, have a passion.. which isn't just to have kids and raise a family (in my opinion, that's what society ingrains in women.. and that's very detrimental) the rest or qualities you want.. and that's fine. But most of that, can be achieved by the women, for themselves! And they need to prove they can do that time and time again.. if they want a man to hold up there end..

I had an ex, who talked about marriage. She had over $30,000 dollars worth in debt, yet she wanted to stay at home and be a housewife/stay at home mom. And said it would be my responsibility, if we were ever to get married. Needless to say, I ran from that super fast.. her responsibilities are hers. I can help, but I won't shoulder the weight just because a woman wants to do what trash society has taught her.

[Britantic]

You should write a similar take

[motownplayer2000]

I should. But it's not really that much of a big deal. When it comes to this, I know what I want in a woman. So I'm not going to advertise it to the world... if she has what I want or has the potential too without realizing it. Then that's more genuine then someone looking up what I posted and trying to fit themselves into something they aren't... easier to figure out, red flag and walk away from that way

[Anonymous]

Fuck you! @yofuknutz. I'm going to fuck you in the ass. I'm going to bend you over and fuck you right in the asshole.
No I'm not going to get into your head I'm going to get into your asshole. Just like I said right up in that tiny little minuscule asshole of yours.
This is what's going to happen. I'm going to take you to a nice fancy high fulutoning restaurant and I'm going to buy you things. Wine and dine you and we are going to find some things we have in common and they are going to become inside jokes to us and we are going to laugh about them on the way to your house where I'm going to fuck you in the Asshole.
Whatever? I'll tell you whatever I'm finally going to feel comfortable taking you out to dinner parties, then all of our friends who are also couples are just going to laugh at us because we are that couple that holds hands all the time.
Let me tell you something @yofuknutz we love each other so very much that no matter how tired I am, no matter how much bullshit I deal with during the day I'm just going to leave it at the door when I fuck you in the ass.
... and we will be on the couch every night and I'll let you pick the movie even though you always pick the movie and I'm going to take you out for a walk on the beach and the moonlight going to bounce off your scalp and I'm just going to kiss you so tenderly as the waves break and right then right there I'm going to fick you right in the candy asshole.
We going to spend the golden years together. I'm going to support you all through your run through to city Council. Then your going to be tired exhausted overworked but we are still going to find the energy to go antiquing at the weekend.
Then your going to be on your death bed and your going to be lying there and your going to be dying and I'm going to be right there beside you and I'm going to be crying and right there in that moment when you cross from this life to the next I'm going to Fuck you right in the ass!!!

[Adam_INTJ]

"Though you might think that this guy only exists in your mind
but guess what?
You're right.
If you want love,
lower your expectations a few because Prince Charming would never settle for you"

https://youtu.be/hVDXTpEsQDg

If a guy had a laundry list like this, he'd be lampooned as shallow and a misogynist.

Do everyone a favor and stay single forever.
No guy should have the insanity to humor your ridiculous laundry list of desires.

[Adam_INTJ]

You call yourself a "white queen"--they only thing fitting about that is that a a blank page is also white and basic like you while you can also claim the nobility of royal failure

[Britantic]

You seem angry at yourself rather than me. Cheer up butterfly, life isn't so bad.😊

[Adam_INTJ]

I get angry at significant people. You just annoyed me.

[Britantic]

Im sorry if I made you feel bad.

[EmbraceThePain]

@Adam_INTJ
“I get angry at significant people.”

Lol

[devilman666]

Bo burnham is amazing, talking about real issues with just songs and memes.

Also, I agree with Adam here, you call yourself a queen but it just seems like entitlement, you dont seem like a queen, but rather a spoiled little princess who just keeps asking why she isn't ready to take over the throne. Any man who had a list like this would be seen as a sexist loser, and I tried to make that clear in my comment.

Further, I find this whole thing humorous, the white queen is based off of the life of elizabeth woodville, an ordinary girl who married into royalty, so this is literally you saying that you want a prince charming to come and save you from your ordinary life, and these are your requirements for what your prince charming must be like? XD imagine if king edward approached her and she was like "grow 3 inches taller and then we'll talk, go tell the other kings I am still available."

This all makes sense though, dreaming of being a white queen is simply a spoiled hoping to be saved from responsibility. It is an ordinary girl who wants a perfect man to come and do everything for her so she can just enjoy her life as a queen.

[nathanp97]

What the hell is a white Queen? Also what are the odds a guy like this would ever settle for you? I'd say I fit a good amount of the criteria, yet I would still refuse to date any girl who had a list like this. It shows close mindedness. You focus so much on certain traits that you dont even see the person as a whole.

I'm not saying knowing what you wants is wrong, but I just think this kind of list is a little extreme. I see lots of girls on here say they can't find a decent guy, and my takes like this explain a lot. There aren't many guys that fit the list, and any that do won't date you because of the personality and mind set that is required to come up with a list like this. I'm not going to tell you not to make lists like this or that it's wrong, but I just think it is a bad idea.

You should listen to the song "lower your expectations" by bo burnham 😂. Hopefully you will find it funny.

[smg99]

you'll be blessed soon :)
What would you think of someone who matches all those qualities you mention but is fond of spending time in his room alone?

Or by himself and seldom goes out? I know it contradicts the lower few points on having many friends and socializing with ease. However with this one exception?
What comes to mind when you picture this mentally, a guy who prefers not to be among st people, but if necessary will be social, then not be interested in dating at all or make it a non priority?
I understand its not if one chooses not to, but of your opinion.

Also one who until this age of his, late 30's or 40 is still unmarried or without a girlfriend to speak of?
Reasons apart from he's not found the girl yet, such as other reasons?
Again sorry your wish to answer my mini interview its purely for knowledge.

[laurieluvsit]

OMG! What a great myTake!!

I could have written this one myself, we are so much alike!

This one I wrote many months ago and is so similar to what you have in yours it is amazing.

Things That I Find Attractive On Guys ↗

Anyway, thank you for taking the time to write this. I know how many hours and days go into a good myTake like yours is Ms Britantic! :)

[Browneye57]

You're living in a dreamworld honey. And not one single thing EVER anywhere that you've posted about what you bring of high-value to a man, or a relationship, or what YOU would do for your man. Zip. Zilch. Nada.
FAIL
This is full on narcissism and solipsism on display. The typical navel-gazer.

[up_64]

Apparently she's taken already if she's telling the truth.

[Britantic]

It wasn't about what I bring. Feel free to make your own take about the kind of qualities guys like you look for in a woman

[Browneye57]

You're barely past childhood, and clueless, but here you are spouting off. You and your 'white queen' bullshit. FAIL.

[Britantic]

You mean pass.

[Phanta]

Women need to have humility, need to stop identifying as queens in need of a king, and need to get rid of their arrogance.

[Britantic]

INCEL guy perhaps?

[Adam_INTJ]

A sane guy. Entitlement like that is a symptom of arrogance and narcissism. A trait which most people do not tolerate in people that they choose to associate with.

Kill your narcissism, THEN enter the dating pool.

[FatherJack]

Toxic social enginering in Western countries , has resulted in almost a gender swap , aggressive masculine wimmin... and effette emasculated soy boys. Most guys would not tick most of these boxes , I am a single dad , so struggle with 10 and don't have 14 , a car ( cannot park at work anyway ) , even though I work FT , but I am getting own ventures off the ground , my Para Spirit from my British Army days will not die until I do , I am going to miss my little lady this week , she is now in France and Belgium.

[White-American89]

Very high standards for any guy to live up to, sounds like your guy is a winner. Good take

[Britantic]

Thanks

[BadApple1]

Very good! I see value in all the attributes that you have listed... it’s very likely that many men have them all but does help me understand why I have been so lucky at love through out my life. I have many but not all. Very nice writeup! You said this describes your guy, then you are a lucky girl.

[EmbraceThePain]

“White Queen” What?

Also, what was the point of this? To show how conceited and shallow a person you are? Jesus, GAG, you never fail to showcase crappy people.

[Wowgirl30q]

Men whine when rejected and then attack women. A white queen means a girl with standards and is a catch. She's tiered of being harrassed.

[EmbraceThePain]

Or a white queen is a conceited person taking unnecessary pride in their race. On top of that, shallowness seems to be at play here, which leads me to believe that this person might’ve not have been raised right and associated with the wrong people.

[Wowgirl30q]

@EmbraceThePain you're a good guy with self respect and respect to others. I've talked to you about the harassment I get for having standards it's bad.

[EmbraceThePain]

Standards/preferences are different from shallowness.

[Wowgirl30q]

You're right

[Neelie1x]

Now where could such a perfect man be, who will be my king? Guess I'll remain unattached till he walks into my life some happy day.

I love a man to be chivalrous, one who looks after me not only as a woman but also treats me as a lady.

[BluesheepOwl]

We have the same taste 👏👏👏 great take! But is it really possible to meet someone like this?

I once went on a date with a guy who told me he couldn't protect himself, he's not a fighter even if his life were in danger and he doesn't know how to fight and he wouldn't be able to protect anyone. That was very disappointing and I like knowing my guy can protect me. That same guy told me he screams and runs out of the room when he sees a spider.

[young_and_confused]

Are you serious? Wow you might as well just limit yourself to pro mma fighters/boxers if this matters to you so much.

[BluesheepOwl]

@young_and_confused a lot of weak guys out there

[young_and_confused]

Well unfortunately for you most guys don't think being a hardass is important but the good news is there's plenty of fighters out there who are looking for girls like you.

[BluesheepOwl]

@young_and_confused why are you taking offense? I don't know you but you are making it sound like you don't know how to protect yourself just by your hostility. You don't have to go out of your way to try and correct every thing out there that you don't agree with

[young_and_confused]

Because there are so many women out there who are just like you. I always see women who are infatuated with these really aggressive and barbaric men (even though a lot of them are embarrassed to admit it) and it makes guys like myself look bad who grew up thinking that this stuff doesn't matter. And by the way I do know some self defense techniques I could use in a physical confrontation however, I am far from an expert.

[BluesheepOwl]

@young_and_confused we just like knowing a guy could protect us. Doesn't mean we want a monster. You are putting words in my mouth. If you are insecure about this, please don't make it my problem. My last boyfriend never got into any fights but he would always let me know he would protect me which was really nice and I liked that a lot. When we were walking downtown at night with a lot of homeless men around, he would put his arm around me and he said if anything happened I should run to the car and he would distract them. But of course nothing happened. But that was so nice of him and it was so hot lol. Women like knowing their guy can protect them even if he's lying, we just like knowing. I mean guys are supposed to be the protectors. Has feminism ruined that too? Just when I went on that date with that guy and he talked about anyone, even a woman could kick his ass it was a turn off. That's just me personally. I like protective guys, that's my turn on. Doesn't make me a bad person and it doesn't mean I want a ufc fighter (however that does sound rules sexy lol 😉)

[BluesheepOwl]

Super * not rules lol

[young_and_confused]

Yeah but something a lot of women don't understand, is your boyfriend is not unbeatable (as much as you like to think he is) I've heard plenty of stories where a woman's boyfriend had to get into a physical confrontation for whatever reason and he ends up getting beat. Then she acts so confused wondering how the hell could someone possibly of defeated this man. It's called being human that's why. Am I insecure? Maybe a little, I'll admit. But I'm just more annoyed than anything. And also I'm talking about the average guy here. Not that wimpy guy you dated he doesn't count. Most guys aren't that soft.

[young_and_confused]

You're probably wondering why this topic is a little sensitive to me so I'll tell you something. I won't explain everything but I'll give you the main points. So there has been a few times before in the past but one time I remember particularly where me and another guy competing in something. I ended up losing. But I noticed that a portion of the people spectating we're women. They look very disappointed I lost, and turned off. Even though I legitimately tried and didn't quit, it didn't matter because I still lost. So, that really stung. At first I thought they were just an inconsiderate group of females, until I learned later that out in the real world a lot are just like them.

[BluesheepOwl]

@young_and_confused I don't expect him to be invincible. I know he can get messed up. But it's nice knowing he's willing to get beat up for me to keep me safe. That's hot to me. Of course I don't want him to get in a fight all the time. Only when our lives are in danger. But I also have pepper spray and a tazer so I can help out too. Or he can take the tazer to protect himself or whatever. But I'm sorry that happened to you. But at least you have the experience of being in a fight. I've never been in a fight and I honestly don't know how I would be if I got in one. I would definitely get my ass kicked. I think it's better to have experience even if you lost than none at all. You can always take a boxing class or self defense class whenever you want to get better at it. I actually find martial arts really cool and I have taken a self defense class for 6 months before but that was years ago and I forgot all about what I learned.

[young_and_confused]

At least you recognize he's human and anything can happen. I'm willing to get beat up too, but I can say up front I can't promise you I'll win. I'm just being honest. I wouldn't lie to a woman about my physical abilities. I did that a couple times before in the past and it was pretty embarrassing when I got exposed. I'm studying martial arts now. It takes a long time to get good at though unless you're genetically gifted.

[BluesheepOwl]

@young_and_confused that's good to hear! On a side note I think your profile picture is cool

[young_and_confused]

Yes it is. And thank you I appreciate it. by the way I want to ask, can I pm you?

[BluesheepOwl]

@young_and_confused sure

[GuidoThePizzaMaker]

European Beauty and Virtue <3

I am trying my best to fulfill these points.

[berrybush]

I think your list is bit too long.
Also you should stop playing second life.
Cuz you won't find any man to fit this list.

[Britantic]

I already have. The list is based on him😀

[berrybush]

That's one rare catch then. Most of us aren't superman, we watch him on TV.