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I asked a while ago about if I misread things with this girl at an ice cream store. She would always talk to me about music and podcasts cause I started a conversation the first time I saw her. I went in a few times, she was excited to see me and we'd talk a bit. Even to where her coworker would give her a funny look.
Last time I went there, I mentioned I had been moving and she was concerned I was moving out of state, but she said she was happy I was staying local. So before I left I asked if I could give her my number for the podcasts 😉

She said she had a boyfriend. So I was apologetic and left.

It's been a few weeks, and I saw her today. She wasn't as warm as first but we still talked, she asked what kind of schedule do I work, how my day was going and she told me about hers. When I was paying with her, I apologized for the last time, and she was very sweet and said it was all good and I left. I said I did enjoy talking to her as I turned to leave.

But I was really confused, I figured there was flirting and possibly an attraction because how she was worried I wasn't gonna come by.

Even though she has a boyfriend, does she maybe like me in some way? Or just enjoying talking to me?

Me and my girlfriend have been official since November of 2021. We started talking May 30th, 2021. I already knew her before because we used to be co workers and i have had her on social media for years but she always had a boyfriend so never really talked to her like that, I always had small crush on her.

About a month that passes by and at this point I probably hung out with her about 8-10 times. She invites me over to her new place for a little get together with friends to celebrate her new spot, everything seems normal but then another guy walks in the house and her mood sorta switches on the spot. At this point she dosen't pay much attention to me and just sorta haves me there looking stupid. I start to get jealous because this guy was making small comments to her that make it seem like he was trying to flirt with her. I start to get upset and I tell her im leaving. I was expecting her to ask me to stay over like she did the night before but she didn't. The whole night after I left i couldn't stop thinking that she's probably going to sleep with that guy but I just let it go.

Fast forward about 4 months and things are getting more serious. I decide to ask her about that night and she denies that she did anything it for a few days then one day she said "Okay, we just kissed but that was it" She started begging me so i giver her another chance. I don't believe her but i just let it go.

Another 2 moths or so pass by and we are now official. It is around November now and I ask her again, i make it seem like someone told me and I ask her again? She starts crying and she says YES. My heart literally sank. Ever since then we have fought dozens of times, we are still together but I just can't forget that night. That is the root of all the problems we now have, it has gotten mentally draining , We have gotten cops called on us because of how bad it gets when we argue. I know we weren't official but the way she did it just bothers me.